Hola. I'm kind of a big guy, weight wise. That being said I'm also a newbie. I have a great disposition, sweet respectful and clean. My question is, do providers in general have an issue with this. Thanks in advance
Not usually. Might I suggest meeting for a drink before BCD? I always enjoy meeting new friends before spending private time together. It builds anticipation and I find that we both have more fun!
Kisses,
VP
Thank you for the suggestion. I know everyone's time is precious.Broaching the subject might be a little tricky on my part since I'm new to the hobby. Don't want to come across in the wrong manner
Kisses,
VP
not sure why this would be a problem
Just being so unsure about protocol, my trepidation is running rampant. When I read the reviews it seems like the sessions are for world class athletes that have stamina that professionals would envy and that's just not me. I guess that's what these boards are for. Thanks for the feedback it has been helpful
I am in the same boat, buddy. 5' 6" - I have ranged from 255 lbs up to well over 300 lbs during the 5 years I have been in the hobby and I can tell you that you have found the land on no judgment and good times.
I have only had one provider who had a weight qualification and she was an itty bitty tiny asian. I'm guessing she had a bad experience with some guy who insisted on doing mish and just about squashed her. I didn't push the point because there are plenty of fish in the sea and every person has a right to set their own boundaries.
And I will tell you that absolutely all the other providers I dealt with and every one I have seen were absolute sweethearts - none of them gave even the slightest indication that it bothered them in the least. If that makes you self-conscious, buddy this is the place to be because these ladies are here to take care of guys like us. If you pick ladies with good reviews that treat their clients right, you are going to get no judgment and you are going to even forget yourself in the process. Have fun!
thanks brother that is incredible news! I feel like a whole new world has just opened up to me. Thanks again
I'm 5'9" and about 250 give or take. Never been an issue and all providers have indicated they would gladly repeat. I think we all look like Ben Franklin to them.
Thanks gb. I appreciate the words of encouragement. Those are about my stats, give or take 5 pounds. I'm looking forward to meeting a provider. Cheers
I actually have a question on my reservation form that addresses physical condition. You have a full website of pictures of me, so I feel its fair to know what to expect, however I have never turned anyone down for being honest (or heavy!). Confidence and comfort in your body is sexy
XO,
KK
