I wrote a more detailed post as to why I was asking this but for some reason it timed out and I don't have the patience to write it all out again so here's the basic question(s):
Do you schedule dates in advance knowing ahead of time that you will likely feel stressed out after family gatherings, especially during the holidays? Is booking a date a way of coping with it in the first place? Or are you more likely to impulsively call someone up directly after dealing with stress? Which holiday would you most likely use a date as a way to unwind from stress? Are you already planning to have a date tonight after Turkey day?
Thanks in advance for any input you provide.
Xo
Alex
if I am at home in orlando I am always available. I prefer last minute appts.. Bc ones planned 2 far ahead seem to always fall thru...
Maybe I wasn't super clear about what/ why I was asking since I had to rewrite the whole thing but I was trying to ask clients if stress, and particularly holiday related stress in this case, plays a role in scheduling appts with us ladies. I wonder if it is anticipated in advance or do they find themselves reacting to being overwhelmed after the fact. My reason for asking is probably much deeper than I should delve into.
Yes, I usually find it easier to schedule appointments during the holidays because I have more free time and flexibility in my schedule. I don't think stress has ever played a part in it though. I would be really interested in knowing why you get stressed during the holidays. For me, holidays are the time I do things that help me relax and unwind.
Alex Dear. I see the big variable with Holiday scheduling is mostly opportunity. When our schedule opens up and we get to jump the fences we all live behind, then it’s time to play. For some of us, the Holidays create free time, but for most it creates busy efforts at fulfilling obligations. Stress creates bookings when a person you are in a “relationship” with neglects it or you or themselves.
Usually last minute I love ❤️....those dates . Especially day after thanksgiving.