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TabithaInSF See my TER Reviews 5165 reads
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This stinks Major. Sorry to hear about it. It's something I would have done as well. Generosity can really burn you in the long run. Next time, or for anyone who may consider covering hotel costs for a provider in the future, perhaps you could say "Yes, get the room (in your name and with your credit card) and I will add $xxx to your donation to cover the costs" This way your credit card does not get involved which is pretty much never a good idea. Also, if a provider is so desperate that this scenario doesn't work for her and she cannot front the $150-300 to cover the costs upfront until you pay her in cash, it's a red flag to AVOID her. Desperation is NEVER a good thing when it comes to sex work.  

Love,
Tabitha

Canis Major6431 reads

Note to self:  think twice before agreeing to cover the cost of a hotel room for a provider, even when you're not covering incidentals, and have instructed the hotel that you're only paying for one night.

That provider may decide to skip out on paying for the 2nd night, and rack up an additional $200 in incidentals (and not pay for those either).

Though I'm not on the hook for the money, the hotel DID call me to see if I had any contact info for the delinquent guest.

Of course I provided it.  Shame on me for being so foolish.  Shame on her for abusing my generosity.

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diamondgrl235697 reads

I cant believe that lady had the nerve to be so rotten and dishonest..
I Hope she lost a client bc she doesnt deserve somebody who Especially paid for her rooma nd board ...you put trust in her, that, not many people can do...

Now If you would have Just waited fo rme to arrive you wouldnt of had this problem  :D

xoxo

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Fantasia4807 reads

I am so sorry that happened to you sugar. I know that the worst part about it is you put trust in someone. Just remember that there aren't many people with a heart and actually are willing to be helpfull. So, remember you are one of those people and it is rare sweetie. Look at this way you can have fun elsewhere & with women who already have a place established for you to cum too!!

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Note to self:  think twice before agreeing to cover the cost of a hotel room for a provider, even when you're not covering incidentals, and have instructed the hotel that you're only paying for one night.

That provider may decide to skip out on paying for the 2nd night, and rack up an additional $200 in incidentals (and not pay for those either).

Though I'm not on the hook for the money, the hotel DID call me to see if I had any contact info for the delinquent guest.

Of course I provided it.  Shame on me for being so foolish.  Shame on her for abusing my generosity.

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lungman6131 reads

why did she burn you?? Have u heard from her? Was she well reviewed??

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Canis Major5117 reads

She actually WAS well-reviewed.  I don't see providers unless they are well-reviewed (I had enough negative experiences TOFTT when I was a pup of a hobbyist).

She burned me because she was desperate, I think.  When she asked me to pick up the hotel room, it was clear that she was desperate, and call it the softy in me, but I believe in helping people out when they're in need, and I'm in a position to do so.

If her reviews hadn't given her a reputation of reliability, I probably wouldn't have done so, however.  But they did, and so I thought there would be no reason not to help.

I did hear from her.  She claimed that they hadn't skipped out on the bill - but a second call to the hotel revealed that this was, in fact, not the case.

So I have, as the Irish would say, written her name down and struck a line through it.

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TabithaInSF5166 reads

This stinks Major. Sorry to hear about it. It's something I would have done as well. Generosity can really burn you in the long run. Next time, or for anyone who may consider covering hotel costs for a provider in the future, perhaps you could say "Yes, get the room (in your name and with your credit card) and I will add $xxx to your donation to cover the costs" This way your credit card does not get involved which is pretty much never a good idea. Also, if a provider is so desperate that this scenario doesn't work for her and she cannot front the $150-300 to cover the costs upfront until you pay her in cash, it's a red flag to AVOID her. Desperation is NEVER a good thing when it comes to sex work.  

Love,
Tabitha

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Happymon6228 reads

After all, it is called the Erotic Review....

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Fantasia6773 reads

You are so right sugar!! :)

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Goldenlight5731 reads

please include this in your review to warn other hobbiest.

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evedenver4923 reads

your a good person dont put yourself down for trying to see the best in somebody dear

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