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Why is it..... small rant guys... PLEASE READ
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That some of you must seem to think we don't have a life outside of the biz?  I am sorry if this comes across harshly, but things keep happening that disappoint me in this biz.

I had a gent call tonight(this is just the latest in a continual string of incidences like this) who is from out of state and wishes to see me tomorrow.  Great, but I am at home with other "ears" present so I can't talk freely and being in the middle of watching a movie I am not at liberty to exit the room for the 4th time this eve to talk more privately.  Talks about how nice I look in my pics, and that he is in town for a few days.  So I do my best to be general, and then the question is asked(probibly because I need to be general) if I am interested in seeing him.  Sure, but since I can't meet with many out of towners because they are already here lets make sure we can meet before we go any futher is my casual responce(again I still have other ears within earshot, and need to be careful of my conversation).  He states he is no longer interested and hangs up.

I am sorry that in the eve I can't talk as freely as you would like but I do have other things going on at "Home" that make it hard for me to talk.  I think this is farely comman place too, as most the ladies I know have kids/hubbies/SO's that make it harder to talk at home.  Guys, I am sure you have to understand discressionary measures sometimes need to be in place...  When we can't talk freely, dont just write us off...  Ask if now is a good time to talk, or if it might be better to call back later...  Many of us do this for you because we sence you can't talk, please try to have the same respect for us.  

I mean you wouldn't be calling if you truely weren't interested in the firstplace, would you?

LVP3316 reads

All of the ladies I see don't give out their number until they have been screened thru email and they a;ways screen their calls thru voicemail so they only return the call that they want to when they want to. Might help.

Megatha Christie3219 reads

the gentleman is screened.  Friends I've met before are free to call anytime, but if I can't talk freely I just don't answer the phone and return the call later.

Flagg3452 reads

....but if I can't talk on the phone for some reason, I just don't answer it.  Have your voicemail message state that after X:XXpm you won't be taking any calls and that you'll return their call during the next "business day" if they leave a message.  If they can't wait, they miss out.

Point of view from his side (I'm not defending him, just giving you a different perspective).

Potential client calls you at a time you can't talk.  He has no clue of this and you're "general talk" is not blatant enough for him to figure out that it's not a good time for you to talk.  As Flagg pointed out, you didn't specify best times to call in your advertisements.

So, in the back of his mind he's thinking... "this girl is giving me the runaround, I'm visiting and want to see someone now, Eros guide to Chicago lists over 200 ladies available so why am I wasting my time trying to figure out what she's trying to tell me with her 'general talk'".  Thus, he hangs up on you and calls other ladies until he finds one who has the time to talk plainly.

It's a competetive world out there and a client, who's looking at spending $$$/hr, isn't concerned with your convenience.  He wants a lady who caters to his.

This may sound cold and crass, but let's face it... this is a business, we only refer to it as a "hobby" because it has a nicer ring to it.

Yes this may be a biz, but I am still a person.  If the person isn't dead set on seeing me and is just surfing the girls(he made it sound like he was set on seeing me, having read my reviews here and checked out my site), then maybe it was best.  I want someone who wants to see ME, not just someone.

Larry Horse3357 reads

This smacks of an elitist attitude. You must understand by now that the only clients who are "dead set" on seeing you, are repeat clients. New clients don't know what to expect from you, even after reading reviews. Those phone calls or emails showcase your attitude and that is what you need to realize. Your inability to accept the common practice of due diligence on the part of the client is why you lost a customer. You want the client to put themselves in your shoes and understand your situation, well how about you doing the same for them? Send your after-hour calls to voicemail and maybe you'll get more new business, providing you leave a message that seems more pleasant than some of your posts. But what do I know, I'm just a client!



-- Modified on 3/23/2005 7:16:17 PM

I guess you weren't set on seeing me.  If my strong personality is too much for you then you are better off not.  I can't make everyone happy, but I do try(thats why I answer my phone, to make sure you are talking to a live voice).  Maybe I just need to stop trying so hard, being more like I am normally with my phone ettiqutte as well.

Bitching?  I was trying to provide you with info, period.  Trust me I hear these same complaints from alot of the ladies, I am just the only one that have the cahhonies to post it.

Honestly, I get quite a few people who see me for the first time dead set on seeing me and not someone else.  Why?  Because they know that they want to meet me, and some have waited months till our timeframes were able to match up.  Is that how I always want it to be, NO but I do wish that visitors made sure they wanted me first...  

BTW screening is important, which is why ladies don't answer private calls as there is no way of knowing for sure who is on the other end of the line.  As well, if you leave a # then leave the latest time that the lady can call you back at the # so there are no issues there.  

Good luck, I am off to get ready to play again..  Yummy, love to think that I could play all day without all the stupid BS coming up.

-- Modified on 3/23/2005 1:10:44 PM

Sage.....you can please some of the people all of the time, and you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can't please all of the people all of the time. Have a nice day.

I'm just greedy here and thinking more Sage for those of us who appreciate her.In person she is even better than the reviews indicate and they give you an excellent idea of what the experience will be like.In my experience she is always courteous on the phone and makes it clear if she is free to talk or is constrained by having others around.she always answers so that we wont miss out on any possible opportunity to have her make our day.the thing i love about Sage is the "business" is all taken care of beforehand leaving only playtime when you enter her place [not some cheap motel] she has created an intimate atmosphere and nothing intrudes on the fun.She has mentioned that she and the other ladies get a lot of calls and letters from guys just looking for cheap thrills and needs a chance to see if the guy is legit first.I still have fond memories of that call back after i was cleared.My point respect Sage as a person and she will truly take care of you like no other and i speak from personal experience here.Not shilling,but always trying to repay her for wonderful times and the value of having her as a reference.

sir...  I am very much looking forward to our visit with the lovely Exotic Nadia tomorrow...  Strappy is coming out and I will be more then happy to make your every 2 girl dreams a total reality...  VERY nice...  Yummers

It was a dream come true!I cant speak for Nadia but I'm still tired out today.I'm in awe of your energy and ability to please both of us and still take more in return.Well done Babes!

that i appreciate.She loves women as much as we do.She was the one who introduced me to Xotic Nadia after teasing me with tales of her own time with her.And as others know the personal integrity of Sage she is just the best reference,Please and respect her and you may meet all her wonderful lady friends.The best part,Sage loves to share with others.BTW ellobo 69 is correct Xotic Nadia does squirt and how.Also i'll mention this,some of the calls the ladies get are from stalkers clients too attached that won't let them have any peace,so they have to leave all callers  to the voice mail,be glad she answers even when she cant speak freely.

Sexy Talaya3956 reads

People have seen another lady who had major problems, so why would you think they will not see Sage over something so minor?

It is being flat out RUDE. Sage is not being elitist-she is venting her frustrations in a respectful and being REAL. What is wrong with that?

Anyone who has met Sage knows that she is one of the sweetest, kindest ladies out there. If you (or anyone else) decides not to see her because she has a life outside the hobby and you didn't like the way she handled this particular situation, then it is YOU that will be missing out, and for that, I feel sorry for you.

ellobo693582 reads

She is a living sweetheart who you should meet in person. Really nice. Great kisser, too. Woo hoo.

without all the wonderful gents to satisfy my emence cravings for their organ, I just dont know what I would do...  Probibly be commited for constant masterbatory misbehavor...  Thank you for being you and being so yummy

Unless it is a last minute trip I have always tried emailing a prospective provider before my trip so I can possible get a idea on what she is like. As far as phones go I personally hate when a providers phone is going off constantly during a session and especially if she answers it! Just my thought but I must admit emailing a lady of choice has worked very well for me

this was NOT during a session, the phone is set to vibrate in a seprate room.  This was at home, with little "ears" if you get what I mean...

I can tell you from personal experience with Sage, you have her undivided attention when you see her. I had a few visits with her and her phone is off when she entertains. I like to email first as well, easier to break the ice that way. I get super nervous the first time I meet someone

jack_knopfus3049 reads

I HATE that first call to a provider.  While normally a pretty smart guy I break down almost completely.  If I were Sage's caller I may very well have not picked up on her hints.  I'd like to think I would but...

And thanks Sage for reminding us that providers are just people with kids, friends, SOs and a real life outside the business.

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT.  IF HE'S TOO STUPID TO UNDERSTAND, THE HELL WITH HIM.  I'VE READ THESE BOARDS FOR A LONG TIME AND I FEEL LIKE I ALMOST KNOW YOU.  YOU ARE A CLASS ACT AND GUYS SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT YOU HAVE A LIFE.  IF THEY CAN'T FIGURE OUT A WAY TO COORDINATE THINGS IN ENOUGH ADVANCE TIME, THERE ARE STREET WALKERS FOR THEM.  THEY DON'T DESERVE LADIES LIKE YOU.  THE ONLY REASON I HAVE NEVER SEEN YOU IS THAT FROM YOUR REVIEWS, I KNOW I COULDN'T KEEP UP WITH YOU AND I'VE SAVED YOU FROM THE SCARY SITUATION OF HAVING TO CALL MY WIFE AND TELL HER OF MY HEART ATTACK AT YOUR INCALL LOCATION.

I have had the pleasure of meeting page and she is just trying to help those who don't know proper etticate. If you pass on her because she's forward and try's to help people learn THAT"S YOUR LOSS. Keep being yourself

I have had the pleasure of meeting page and she is just trying to help those who don't know proper etticate. If you pass on her because she's forward and try's to help people learn THAT"S YOUR LOSS. Keep being yourself

chitownmexi3333 reads

I hope you won't let one idiot affect you.  It just goes to show you that some people still get a kick out of messing with other people livelyhood.  Look at it on the positive and realize that from now on you may have to let the voicemail answer calls. Don't let these a-holes change your life completly just alter it so they don't get the upper hand.

I was in Iowa on a family emergency and though most of my family knows what I do there are members that do not wish it to be brought before them ..So I just simply answered and said ....." I'm sorry but I am w/family and will be back thursday please call me back then..." I received very polite ,positive responses that they would call me then ...Just explain when a time would be better to call nicely .. it worked for me ...


just my .o2

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