First, let me start by saying i'm a African American male from the chicagoland area. I like all types of woman no matter what nationality they are. Why is it that woman (mainly white woman) won't see an African American male? I find white woman very attractive. I have a good career and educated. I'm just out here trying to enjoy myself with a woman like everyone else. I don't see what the difference is.
1. Personal preference.
2. White men are presumed to be 'easier' clients.
Personal preference I can understand somewhat. But, how are white men presumed easier clients? Just curious that's all because I thought it was all bout money. If I have money just like everyone else and just want to have fun and be on my way. I don't play games.
White men have smaller dicks.
Hey.....not all of us white guys have small ones 😉
I prefer to see ebony gals as they are more experienced with bigger equipment
I can't take big dicks . . . black or white. I have a very shallow vagina and anything bigger than 6 inches feels like my vagina is being ripped into two.
Wow I had no idea AB felt like that. I actually was thinking of seeing her. I don't get pleasure by causing her to feel pain though so I have to understand.
I'm a Black Gentleman with from what I'm told is a larger endowment and yes it's true some girls don't seem to get along with it well or even try it at all. But but but.........those that do really seem to like it. It's kind of an amazing feeling to share with you feel the friction, then feel the friction decrease. Then let her do it again.....then let her do it again until she's totally spent and sweaty from all those lustful orgasms. Let me say that I more than understand that people come in all shapes and sizes. I enjoy being romamnced by a woman, but for me it's gotta be a mutual thing for me to REALLY get to the type of enjoyment I prefer to experience. So if that's a preference then I suppose I have to accept that criticism. But it ain't got nothing to do with race at all.
Get over yourself and your dick size.
Umm that was a compliment to you. Let me rephrase though. I've seen your ads, posts, and website before and had not gotten the impression before that you felt that way about Black Gentlemen. I had thought about trying you out one day.
I don't think it's a racist thing with you, I do believe you when you say it's physical limitations. I don't know that the presumption of endowment holds true for all Black Gentlemen or White Gentlemen so it can be taken kind of offensively when a woman says she does not see Black Men based on unverified presumptions. In my case I actually am well endowed, but I DON'T put women down or make them feel less sexual when my endowment wouldn't work well for her.
I've had great sex with some great partners, but that still doesn't mean I'm compatible with everyone. That being said I tend to like thick thighs, hips, and booty because I feel that physical stature would mesh well with my endowment and it usually does. So again if that's a preference then I suppose I have a preference too, BUT I've seen other body types too and had some amazing times even though I feel it's a risk.
Question is would you risk seeing a Black Gentleman even though he could be well endowed?
Never once did I say that I don't see AA clients.
But I did read you say black men are presumed to be easier clients. THEN you say white me HAVE, not are presumed to have but have, smaller dicks. So if there was some sarcasm in there I missed, then I owe you a huge apology. I never spoke against you though.
I think AB is gorgeous. My type of woman for sure but it would honestly bring me to pause to approach you if I had to feel like you could be presumptuous about any type of escapades I'd imagine us getting into because I'm well endowed.
I actually have read your site quite a few times and know what your favorite thing to do in bed is. Mow having said all of that I bet YOU thought I would say something else.
I've heard this too about all types of gals
I promise I'll be a gentle giant
....dunno what's the typical diet there lol.
White man here! I demand a fair trial.
It sucks. But black guys go through it the most some are cool some aren't. There is a large amount of cool Black clients in Chicago. But instead of saying no black men rephrase it no Non Professional A.A. under 35 or 40. Or specify Must be at upscale hotels or residentials.
But just to write off a whole race. Not cool. But here are some of the underlying reasons. One she doesn't want to come to the hood. 2nd you don't have much stock when you say. " Yo where u be at I wanna come see you. 3rd Have the full donation and don't be afraid to tip. Show these providers your thankful for the good time and opportunity. Don't ask for quick visits or half hrs. 4. Don't be so aggressive girls already scared you got this huge ass dick and she's dreading a hysterectomy 😂. But really she doesn't want to be man handle and left swore her night is over early. 5. Some of these girls got black bf's or P's so she doesnt want to meet no pimp while trying to work. She has a black bf whose intimidated that she's seeing another A.A. whose spending money trying to enjoy himself and her. 6. Maybe she likes A.A. men in her personal life and doesn't want to mix business with pleasure. 7.. person preference/ I don't date dark skin people. (Yeah she's racist) 8. I can go on and on but personally it's bullshit.
We are all human beings just play the game the way it supposed to be played and enjoy the hobby. I see all those black dollars but I don't see any escorts hashtagging #blackdollarsmatter
I love em!
In the end it comes down to personality and demeanor regardless of the race or ethnic background for me. Lucky for you there tons of lovely providers who see men of all backgrounds, including myself 
Lame excuses is exactly right. I'm so tired of the "personal preference" line. Some people stereotype based on race and discriminate because of it. Let's stop sugar coating it.
if you are a black gentleman, do you really want to waste your time, effort energy and money on a lady who really doesn't want to see you? Isn't it better that they are up front so you can save that time, effort, energy and money for someone who does? Not saying it is right, but if she is saving a guy from wasting his $$ then isn't that a win in the end. No one wants a dead fish when he can look further and get a wild ride!
As well, if you do not like that mentality then you are able to skip her as well. What someone writes on there website is very telling of the lady so make sure to read...
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I agree with you!!!! Took the words right out of my mind (:
All the excuses people give are bullshit:
1) More dangerous
2) Presumed to have bigger equipment
3) Also presumed to not have as much money or be as generous
4) “Personal preference”
I have never had a bad encounter, love men in every size and have no problem taking it, and have never had an issue with a black man not being able to bring me the expected amount for my time. I also don’t have any “preferences” when it comes to my clients besides cleanliness, respectfulness, and safety.
I’m sorry you have to encounter this as a black man, but know ultimately the hard truth is that providers can refuse to see clients for any reason. Fortunately, there are many ladies of all races who would be happy to see you.
These are not my personal opinions or experiences, just what I have heard from other escorts:
1. Black men are more likely to be too rough/aggressive
2. Larger dick size/too big to handle
3. Black men are more likely to be pimps, or rape and rob you
4. Personal preference
5. Black men are more likely to be cheap or try to bargain over the price
Like I said, I haven't experienced any of these-these are just things I have heard from escorts who won't see black clients. I have only seen a few black men in the escorting business and all of them have been perfect gentlemen. I haven't seen many simply because hardly any black men contact me for an appointment, and I live in a small town with very few black people overall. I will see men of any race as long as they are respectful and pass my screening.
I have had the most issues with guys under 30 regardless of race. In my experience, they are the ones who are most likely to try to bargain over my rate, or to say something stupid such as they should get a discount because they are fit and handsome. lol Not all young guys like this-but I have had way more guys under 30 do things like this than guys over 30.
I think that this is a very complicated issue. Who could know why white as well as many Black providers say "no AA".
Some would say its about size, others would say its about scamming/pimping/low balling or hustling behavior (if one function from a place of social stigma & stereotypes "Black guys don't have as much money) ....
I would say its about the providers perceived racism that whiter clients have about Black guys ...."How could a rich lil dick white man please this lady if some big dick black guy just fucked her...?" OR "Oh she fucked an AA is she clean?" OR "Oh she doesn't say "NO AA" she must like only Black guys ...whaaa whaaa..Cry whine...white tears" (All things that have been expressed to me, some in a quite hostile manner.)
So if you want answers:
Ask your lil dick rich guy friends about their expressed racism and insecurity during escort sessions and you will have your answer. It is not providers but white guys that foil the fun once again.
To finish:
How many racist ill informed white dudes have I lost because I have never said "NO AA" in ads? We will never know, because, I choose not to play into any of this racist/ white supremacist garbage but I understand that some providers depending on where they are located, their marketing strategies and the preferences of the demographics that they serve are pressured into advertising this way. I will never shame a survival strategy.
ME:
I love everyone! And see ALL sound minded, over 18yrs old clients who present me with appropriate donation.
It's scientifically proven that race is a construction not to say that racism does not exist but to say "hobbyists of all "races" have little, medium & big cocks ... I have seen enough to say this with some certainty, as well as read studies.
In other news for you scaredy cats out there: VAGINAS BOUNCE BACK!!! Whoa I know it's crazy... but I can see an 11inch dick one day and still hold a tampon in me the next! Wild right. #blessed
Anecdotally, professional white collar, as well as working class, Black Gentlemen make up a nice percentage of my regular client base and I LOVE THEM as I love any other kind cool & collected client!
Of course their is more...So hit me up. We can finish the conversation in person followed by some super sexy desert!
The Escort for Everyone wishes you peace, love and balance,
Harpy Anna.
This topic recurs like a herpes virus and is beyond boring
Awe what a thoughtful response.
NOT.
Way to silence Women & Black folks.
His playlist though...
"I have a "boom-boom" playlist with the Chi-Lites, Delfonics, maxwell, Gladys Knight, Lisa Stansfield, Barry White, Earth Wind + Fire, Aretha, Charles bradley (RIP!), Eddie Levert I also have a "Reggae" one with lots of Old School Dancehall: Buju Banton, Bounty Killer, sizzla, Mad Cobra, Capleton, Lady Saw And i'm a 60 year-old white guy"
Keep using and abusing.
60yr old white guy.
XOXOX
Harpy Anna
Wow! That is so insane!
What is the nexus between my appreciation of many, many black artists (and friends) and my view that this topic recurs frequently and is soooooooooo dumb????
Also why did you reply to my....reply to everyones with your ZZZzzzz....so we can all see how boring you are.
People (clients and providers alike) have the freedom to see whomever they please and
whoever they feel comfortable with...this thinking hardly makes one a white supremacist.
Loved your thread well said sis
As a foreign provider I always found it odd when I had African American gents ask me if I mind seeing an African American man. I never understood why they asked until this thread.
That it's concealed information. From what I've noticed is the woman who don't see Black Men are not upfront about it on their site. There's a disheartening feeling that you get as not only a Black Man but as a person to know that someone you think is attractive and are excited to meet is disappointed because she would've liked to have had the option to not go through this.
I didn't used to, but nowadays I ALWAYS mention I'm Black and am well endowed when contacting a woman I've never met before. I'm not at all pretentious about it. Like Sage mentioned I rather her tell me that way than be let down in person after I've invested my time and money.
There are lots of reasons why any given working girl would refuse an AA gent. Trying to figure out why she won't see you won't change anything. She's not worth your energy. You deserve a good time with the lovely ladies out there who will happily see you.
But me personally I appreciate any gentleman who is kind and respectful regardless of race. Would love to see you sometime😘😘I don't judge
in my opinion, its just the history and sterotypes, a lot of pimps only work with white women so they know how other young black men are thinking and its a easy way to trap them by booking and fucking with their minds because typically the average young black guy isnt trying to purchase companionship so they just already know its trouble, some women will speciy they only see older professional BM which i feel is better and not as offensive as saying you dont see them period cause its not a racist thing i can tell u that now, when i first started out and was reckless i had young black dudes act like they want my time and when i get there tryin to spit game and get me to "choose up" so its just a saftey precaution.
I find it frustrating when i hear stories about black clients being discriminated against by non-black providers due to prejudices about black clients being "sexual predators" or "cheap".
For one, non-black providers are often disgusted by society's prejudices against sex workers, so why do they not critically examine and challenge society's prejudices towards black clients?
Racism is the only answer. The providers who discriminate on the basis of race are racists, period.
They make excuses and say it's because a certain race is more likely to be flaky or to be hagglers or to be less clean etc, but it's bullshit. That is what verification and references are for.
racism is NOT the only answer.
However, keep it up with the identity politics and I guarantee another loss in 2020 is assured.
BTW - as much as pains the left to see it, DOW 23,000 would never have happened except for one thing...
I like all the numerous examples of other possible legitimate reasons other than racism that you provided.
Full stop. That's the only legitimate answer, anything other than that is just something being used to gloss over racism.
Not only do I enjoy getting to know and experiencing all types of people, I find it to be pretty closed minded to say you wont see a whole group of people. Now, it is each ladies' preference, and the wonderful thing about being an independent companion is that you get to choose who you will and will not see, but I have always thought that we are here to provide affection to those who have a hard time getting it in their personal life, for whatever reason. Therefore, I will see anyone regardless of their race, religion, beliefs, looks, etc. As long as your 18, verified, and able to provide the donation, PLEASE come and see me. i have had some various people in my life try to convince me to not be so open like this, recently actually, and I completely refused. The gentlemen that I have met with that happened to be AA were all completely sweet, respectful, and some of my best clients! Nearly all of them asked in the beginning if I was open to seeing them. I don't know - like I said earlier we all have the right to choose, but it still bothers me that in 2017 they have to make sure I don't mind the color of their skin.