When gentleman are place ISO ads or contacting a provider why do you feel it's important to state that your either good looking or fit etc. From a provider standpoint or at least mine and I'm sure I'm not the only one, it doesn't matter to me what you look like or how many days a week you work out. I treat all my guests the same as long as they are respectful to our meeting arrangement.
Do you think you should get a discount or special treatment or more service? I'll be honest it's kind of like blatantly stating, "I'm a douch hole client expecting everything and then some, plus extra unpaid time."
Hope everyone is off to a wonderful week,
Alyssa
..., but he might be simply assuring you that you won't be completely disgusted and puking your guts out while doing your job.
I wonder the same thing also, sometimes I think its their way of saying I take care of myself *shurgs* i can never understand though lol
Anything along the lines of "I'm white/fit/hung/cut/etc" makes me roll my eyes. All makes it sound like they want a discount for that trait.
I don't care what you look like. Just have good hygiene and follow my rules
Ok ladies
I'm a newb and have only had the pleasure of seeing a handful of women so far.
This is an example of the date request email that Im using:
Hello ________
My name is _______. Im a white male. 6'1", 245 lbs. Your profile on _______ definitely caught my eye. I would like to know if you are available for a 90 min. date this next Thursday, Sept. 25th, at 10am? I'm flexible, so if this date or time doesn't work with your schedule, maybe another time can be arranged. I look forward to hearing from you. Have a great day.
On same email or text I then explain my being a newb, I give my p411 acct info and any other screening info required on her website.
* I only include my height/weight and the fact that I'm white, to let her know what to expect.
*Ladies, would you roll your eyes about me identifying myself as white?
*My weight is currently on a downward slide and even when I hit my target weight that's healthier and more attractive to look at for my height and frame, i would still like to list that in a introductory email. I don't think that makes me come off like a jerk looking for anything extra.
*Does anyone have any comments, good or bad, with this approach?
Perhaps he wants to reassure you that he doesn't weigh 500 lbs , and won't crush you ...
Why does it have to be a negative? Why does it have to mean the guy is looking for a discount? Did he ask for one. Sheeesh!
...why so negative anarenee??
Unfortunately this is usually what it turns into....
In 15 years I've never met anyone so unattractive I've had to turn them away, well hygiene is an issue on occasion jumping in the shower is always a good idea.
Example this morning on a phone inquiry first thing stated he is educated, and takes good care of himself, respectful, I chuckle because I instantly thought of this thread....
Asked about masssage and if we are enjoying ourselves how far things can go... uhhh ok whatever.... I mentioned if he's looking for potentially going farther he should probably book escort best response, " oh no I would never ask for that I respect you."
On an hours notice I denied the appointment because I would rather drink coffee and read magazines.
On that final note of the week I am very much looking forward to checking myself into a spacation staycation with people who will understand what makes me happy.
Sorry for the somewhat bitchy thread but us providers can only take so much in one week.
Largest cock you have ever seen or its free!
"My height is proportional to my weight, depending on your definition of 'proportional.' I work out several times a year. My appearance seldom frightens children, not too badly anyway, except for small ones."
I am very grateful for the providers that take care of me, whether it be escort, massage, or a little of each. The least I can do is be clean and presentable and well dressed and decent looking although that is mostly beyond my control. And I would assume for most providers, the more presentable the client is, the easier their job is. And the easier their acting will come naturally.
One of the best looking guys that I have seen to boot . . . Damn. I wish I would've savored his body a little bit more because not only was he handsome. but super nice and polite.
But moving on, I don't care about looks as that's not too important to me. I do appreciate it when a gentleman sends out a description of himself beforehand so I can know what to expect.
the poster believes he may be more likely to get a response.
When I propose a date with a provider I mention that I am in good physical condition. Never did it cross my mind that I deserved a discount because of it.
Just thinking I may be more likely to get a response. That's all. Also, Hoping the provider may be a little more at ease if I am not ghastly.
I am glad you posted this question. Thanks.
This is the first time I heard of people doing this and it is hilarious. Obviously we all see providers for different reason but for the same end goal. I am intrigue to what goes through the head of a dude trying to get approval from a provider. As long as you are not 500 lbs and have money, I think the provider will do the best she can to get you off and leave happy. Just want to ensure that not all men do this.
I don't think it is intended as some form of "gaming" at all in most cases.
That being said, I am sure there are some douchebags who think they are hot shit and due some special consideration.
I think you could separate the two types pretty easily from how they express themselves in the rest of their message to you.
and if they are hoping for better response they should try responding to those who reach out. 80% of the time if we private message a guest or respond on the open board, we get no response at all. If guys, all guys at least responded even to say, sorry I booked someone else or I am looking to go in another direction or I will keep you in mind for a later time. Honestly to me it comes off a little rude, especially if you specifically ask for PM because we know you are getting it. Kinda how you all feel when you never get a response after requesting time with a provider.
If guys at least responded then we would feel better about reaching out and putting ourselves out there, otherwise you will just keep getting the same 4-5 providers who respond to pretty much every ISO to get their link out there.
Personally, I am to the point where I am very picky what I respond too as far as ISO because I know most of them will not pan out and why waste my time even if it is a great fit for me....
Goto run, have plans and a nicely busy day ahead. Licks to all, Sage
I love this thread! As a husky (but not grossly obese) guy I always worry that women will be less happy to spend time with me than with a gym rat client So refreshing to hear that, within reason, size really doesn't matter to you ladies. As long as we have a respectful attitude and an adequate donation we are all equal. Every provider has always treated me well and said they enjoyed me as a client but, in the back of my head, there was always this nagging doubt. One more benefit to hobbying over dating civvies where 30 extra pounds is a guaranteed "swipe left".