I've had some uncomfortable experiences recently with a couple of BP massage listings.
312-442-0709http://chicago.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/outcall-massage/88002897 Ad says to text so I did. Quick response, asked what hotel, I responded with private residence (nice part of town). Then told me to send a pic. I did... and no response. Texted again 15 minutes later, no response and no response since. I'm not a bad looking guy by any stretch, I'm in good shape, and not old or young. To ask for a pic and then no response... kind of creepy. 312-809-1964
Ad not up as I post this, but has been on and off for a while. I called, got a quick text response. Asked about time, she said was available, sent rates. I asked about outcall (ad said available), responded with higher rate. Again asked about time, confirmed it worked. I gave her my address and asked her to confirm when on her way. Never showed, not heard from again. Ad is similar to another ad from a couple of months back - similar girl/pics, similar incall location. Same exact experience, similar text sequence, confirmed outcall & time but never showed, never heard from again. I would proceed with both of these with caution, particularly incall (hotel) with the second one.
Seems like there’s a bunch of sketchy stuff on that site.. try to stick with the ladies that have reviews on here with positive feedback.
Oh and p.s if you see her post again don’t even try it. Just leave that sketchy stuff alone!
Stay safe hun!
These two NCNS (No Call No Show) on you. What's the "Proceed With Caution" issue? Unless you asked a question these two weren't willing to do. Find another girl to play with.
Every once in a while you can find a gem on BP. But, I recommend making sure she is listed here and other legit websites and not just BP. Some gentlemen dont realize this,but sites like P411, RS, and other higher end sites require the ladies to provide proof that we are legit just like they do gentlemen.
Always do your homework and stick with well reviewed providers that you find on TER. Never send your picture! How do you know it's not a scam or LE? It could have been a dude that would come and rob you for the $300, knowing that you wouldn't call the police to report the situation.
Do I sound paranoid??..... I'm not even smokin'
sure gentlemen are looking for the rare gem but think with big head first, search phone numbers, check in with your fellow hobbiest. You should be thankful these meetings didn’t go through you likely would of been robbed or arrested. I’m always skeptical of any woman or man accommodating appointments too fast, that’s just me I view it as a red flag for multiple reasons.
I’m always bummed to read these post there are so many of us who actually enjoy this business and our clients, I don’t like hearing of anything bad happening to anyone.
I know many of us don’t accommodate last minute appointments but many ladies do. If your looking for a get together but more of a last minute guy start checking through and make a little mental list of ladies that can accommodate and your donation budget matches.
P411 & Euros both have available now features take a peek through those I’d be willing to bet you’d have a lot less complication.
Good luck in your search and I hope you have a better experience moving forward.
Alyssa Tantra
Amen Alyssa! That was my point to my posting on here to warn everyone that BP changed. And not for the good.
Sadly many will still run into sketchiness because it was a favorite place to go for many.
I love giving massages naked!!! BTW 
plenty of ladies across multiple platforms with reviews or a large web presence but you choose sketchy ads on bp then complain that they weren't professional with you and that they were sketchy?
Why do you guys continue to see sketchy providers?
If I were a client I would think that I'd feel most comfortable with women who were running an actual business with a website/ active social media/ multiple ads/ reviews/ etc, not a lady who has nothing but a fake instagram.
What is the draw to an ad like this over someone who is blatantly legitimate?
I'm noticed the fake Instagram too! I bet if you look you will find the pics are stolen from Facebook or it's some guys ex gf! When I was doing more research on bp I found 22 ads that were fake!! Pics were taken from different places. About half ended up being spam websites that grab your info and then constantly send u emails or texts. One I found had leaked my info to the dark web!! I can't imagine how easy it is to steal someones credit card info etc! Most people keep a lot on their phones all they need to do is to release a virus that u open in a text! Then it steals all your info. My advice stay off BP and use a separate hobby phone that has no info. And don't give your info if something seems shady. Women who have a businesses ie web presence, that put in the time and effort into multiple ads are out to see u again not to steal ur info and leave it at that. The goal is to have the guy feel safe, comfortable, and keep cumming back for a good time. At least that is what I like to cumming again and again. :O Mmmmm
Ana, we know the answer to this generally speaking is a woman who runs a business has business expense that is passed to the client in fees.
Ana,
A lot of guys take enjoyment in the "thrill of the hunt" or the "shopping experience." In other words, a particular guy may never use BP but enjoys looking at the ads and thinking about the possibilities. Possibilties? The cute non-pro part-timer who only wants to make $350 a month for a car payment, the kindergarten teacher who wants to explore her wild side, the 20 year old college student who charges $200 but could get $500 etc. They usually don't think about getting whacked over the head with a ballpeen hammer or getting sodomized by the "boyfriend." Guys can be stupid, I know I can.
I appreciate the advice and feedback. To answer your questions:
1) BP forces you to put a social media link in the profile now. That's why many are fake - they don't want to give their real social media profiles and don't want to create one for their "hobby".
2) I always do a reverse image search of pics posted and search the phone number to check for fakes or scams. Nothing came up.
3) You are more likely to get robbed by going to their place (and more likely to get arrested). I live in a secure-access building with security cameras and doors that lock behind. They can't let their thug in behind them, I have to let them in. And if they are not like their pics I pretend that I just got sick, don't let them in, and give them a little "gas money" and send them on their way. Also, having a beautiful young woman naked in your bedroom makes you feel like a king. In hers... you feel like a client.
4) I didn't have a good experience with P411. Most providers older than I care for and are only advertising for FS - I'm just looking for massage. I'm a good looking guy, I don't pay for 40s and average; I pay for 20s and fit. The attractiveness of the provider is more important than the service for me. Also, had P411 providers requiring me to have references, send pics, call me at work... same thing.
5) My main provider (who is well-reviewed) was not available.
6) Overall I have had good experiences with BP massage listings. I don't use BP Escort/"Women for Men" personals.
7) You can't be reviewed unless someone sees you. If you only see reviewed providers... no one new gets added to the pool.
I have only done this once and then it was only after I had gotten to know the lady very well. Even then I had reservations about doing it. There are so many ways this type of meeting can go wrong. Setting aside for the moment, all the other things mentioned above regarding BP, please don't host at your private residence. The same can be said for the ladies, especially if they own the property.