Is there something specific you ladies and gents like to listen to while you spend some time together?
I have a Sade playlist that puts me exactly where I wanna be! Add a little candle and some mood lighting and you're there!! What do you guys and gals like?Bebel Gilberto
Zucherro
Mazzy Star
Sade
YESS!!! Sade.
Thanks for the reminder!!
London Philaharmonic Orchestra classical renditions of Pink Floyd and Led Zeppelin
Holly Bowling
Grateful Dead
Phish
The Revivalist have nicely made their way into my playlist but I need more live music from them.
I try to keep the music chill enough but nothing that's going to make me sleepy. I'm pretty sure music that puts me in the mood isn't quite what puts most others here, "in the mood."
Just kidding 
I would simply pick a Dead show from Spring 77' or Summer 89'.
Or a Phish show from Fall 97', Fall 13' or Summer 15'.
For the European providers - Disco Biscuits or any good EDM.
I have actually done that. I have a guest who loves metal and so I surprised him with bringing in 1 of my Megadeath CD's, he loved it and it was quite a time to try to keep up with the rhythm...
Most of the time though I play Enya, Enigma or Sade during massage. Bob Marley, Maxwell, Lenny Kravitz, or Stevie Ray Vaun or even Barry White from time to time unless I know a guest has a preference for a certain type of music I have during GFE. PSE I tend to have a porn going so no need for music, even if my guest is blindfolded it is the only accompaniment needed.
I do have a few guests who create their own playlist for our time together though, have heard some interesting songs that way as well.
Whatever you want it to be.
I have a "boom-boom" playlist with the Chi-Lites, Delfonics, maxwell, Gladys Knight, Lisa Stansfield, Barry White, Earth Wind + Fire, Aretha, Charles bradley (RIP!), Eddie Levert
I also have a "Reggae" one with lots of Old School Dancehall: Buju Banton, Bounty Killer, sizzla, Mad Cobra, Capleton, Lady Saw
And i'm a 60 year-old white guy
You might like to add the mighty Dells to those great dusty grooves....here's my favorite....it's the '69 version
of a song the Dells had a hit with in the 1950's! Phenomenal group. 'Oh What A Night'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DP2tjK0gdkc
I have three playlist, I know what to play before meeting and even within the first few minutes of chatting. haha
and it all depends on the mood and age range, how I'm feeling that day.
I'm working on my fall playlist though
anyone else use spotify?
My go to is some old school reggae like midnight, Beres Hammond, etc
Then mix in some bachata and salsa, some old school rnb, classic rock, etc
Good Playlist is key!