Client goes stalker, .... im at wits end ....

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It wasn't very pleasant....I was young and stupid and gave him enough info so that he could track down my friends and family.  He ended up meeting with my friends and outting me to my family for the sake of getting me out of the biz.  I partly joined the military to get away from him which was an extreme solution.  I don't know how far your client has gone with you so there are different solutions for different levels of escalation.  Getting a restraining order is a little extreme for constant texts and calls but definitely called for if he's showing up at your place.

And this is totally not cool.  At my wits ends too. There seems to be a lot of this going on in the CLT area lately. Too much for my blood. We are expected to be discreet and professional at all times, yet they think they can have free range to do whatever they choose . If they don’t get their way they harass or stalk or intimidate . Sending FR on social media  is just beyond me. Why would any many want to do this?  Just not cool

This could be a really long story, but I'm going to try to condense it.

I was being stalked/harassed/bullied by the girlfriend of a married client of mine. She was married also.  

Is everyone following this ok?

Her texts to me were so vulgar, they shocked me....ME....the one who posts pictures of my asshole on the internet with objects in it. She also showed up at my front door. She felt she could stalk, harass and bully me due to my profession. She assumed I'd NEVER in a million years go to the cops....well....unbeknownst to her, I was not afraid of my local po po. After telling her to stop contacting me via text and her not stopping, I took all her texts to my local police department and they got right on it. Unlike me, she was afraid of law enforcement because in the past year she had been arrested twice, once for simple assault and once for assault with a deadly weapon, so she dropped me like a hot potato. She didn't want another charge against her.  

Apparently she was causing some drama at her boyfriends workplace also, because when the cops showed up there to question the boyfriend about her harassing me, his boss fired him.

Ain't Karma Grand

And for those of you thinking, "Well what did he do that was so wrong?". He showed her where I lived, gave her my phone number, showed her our e-mails.....He was in on the whole thing. When she showed up at my front door, he was with her. He wanted to watch a cat fight

I did not press charges

My advice is basically what Melissa advised....

Don't answer anything!  

Keep a record of everything

Get a gun....legally

and if you have a giant yellow anaconda and two aggressive dogs living with you, that's a plus

Sorry CLT ladies - it is completely unacceptable behavior to you on a very personal basis.

Life's too short for all this bullshit. Fuck someone over and it will come back on you.
And that karma point is very true.  
She catches up with all assholes eventually ... and I mean the truly evil fuckers
 I just dont get the stalker BS ... why?

Well , he started going through my son ,my son had no idea how we knew each other,  i was just seeing a man that wss taking care of me financially,  he went out of his way to befriend my son behind my back (giving him money, etc.). What entirely made the desicion for RO, my son got a small inheritance from his great grandfather of which he bought his FIRST vehicle, well the client told my son because pf insurance he would help my son out and put my kids truck in his name!! Then started using it over my sons head, tp dig info about me and started txting him INSANE txts about his "MOMSTER".. and telling my son he was taking truck etc..  

On the day he was served he KNEW a sherriff was otw to serve the paperwork, he txtd me told me to come with both guns loaded and hed make me regret doing so...
Mind you this is also in light of txtng me " i hipe you can still take a punch"..
I have a past,, he is wealthy,, with good standing in community..  
Because i slacked off trying to start other businesess I am starting over,  not big deal I am GREAT at what I do, but it has been a blow all the way around..
MY KID!! TOO FAR!!
NOW RO being contested and attorneys want FROM ME 1500!!  
SMH!!

Same here Durham Comrade!

Some of these people lead such miserable lives, that they believe true happiness results only by  trying to make good people miserable.  This usually backfires. Cyber- bullying like many vices is addictive, and after awhile, the harder and more often they cyber bully, the less satisfaction and gratification they receive.  Just like illegal drugs., The  more you use to chase a high, the lesser the high.

So I continue to live the good life, treat everyone fairly the way I wish to be treated, eat well, exercise hard, vacation often, perform random acts of kindness, and bang the babes I meet here!