What does it take for a gentleman to get a whitelist on TER? I have a few and I never asked for them. I am just a curious TER gentleman that would appreciate a whitelist if I am deserving. Do I have to leave an extra tip to get a whitelist? I did not request a whitelist from any of my current ones.
Whitelists are given at the provider’s discretion.
I give them to gentlemen who ask, if I had no issues during our time together. Some ladies just give them. Some ladies only give them to people who they’ve seen multiple times, and if they ask.
Ask and you shall (possibly) receive.
Your ratio of reviews/whitelists seems to actually be pretty good. A lot of guys have dozens of reviews and only one or two whitelists.
I imagine asking for them would increase your "batting average" even higher, but Whitelists aren't really that important where it comes to screening or scheduling. A lot of providers put almost no stock in them. Personally, I would never tip just to get a Whitelist, tip because you want to, not because you think it will get you a whitelist in return
and no you didn't have to tip.
Steph XO
My first provider gave me a whitelist. I did ask about it. She was great at talking an giving me pointers in the hobby. I def talked about giving her a review. I knew that would be one way to see more providers.
Haven't received any since. Hasn't really changed my process of meeting any providers. Solid references or working with a provider in screening is the best imo
If a session was without incident, I always ask if client would like a whitelist entry. If they do, I gladly make entry.
I ask, because some guys want to be under radar and not have any.
I personally do not use a booker/assistant, I do all my own screening.
I do use a potential client's whitelist as a PART of my verification process. I use many tools and techniques.
Even if a potential client does not mention he has a whitelist I always look it up. I should note that I ask all potentials for their ter handle and research for it, should they deny having one. Funny how many guys have more than one handle...hmmmm.
I am always hopeful they have a recent whitelist entry , as it could streamline the process for me.
Personally, I think whitelist is a great time saving tool. If I can click and see a potential client's recent entry whitelist and click through and see an active provider with recent review entries (that is established) it makes the process so much quicker.
Just as I know many providers do the same, whether a provider does her own screening or has a booker /assistant. The bottom line is we are all busy and if I can get answers I need quickly myself or another provider can get her answers without spending her time reaching out to me OR me to her, great!
DONT get me wrong I reply asap to any inquiry from a provider regarding a potential client screening. Just saying if she can get her answers immediately via whitelist, then she can schedule the session quicker and one less thing for me to look up and respond to 
Of course I know some ppl want that confirmation of verification by direct text or email...I am fine with that.
So, back to OP, I would say you should ask the provider after a session, and as you say your goodbyes, for a Whitelist entry. Some providers might not know how to even issue them.
No extra tipping is required.
I think it is smart to have your whitelist current, but I am from Los Angeles /Hollywood where TER is used a lot and a busy market.
See you soon Asheville!
Be good and you too can have a Whitelist holiday Xoxo 