So to answer some of the questions, I have talked to her in detail. This will be our fourth meeting. It will be at an outcall location. I have booked a very nice suite. She is not a regular in the business but has seen an increase in her business due to the new reviews left for her.
She is planning on staying all night and does not have a sleep requirement. She has mentioned that she will take the day off so that when we meet that night she will be well rested. I too will have the same problem as I have to work the day before and the day after but I can manage.
Thanks for all the help everyone and I look forward to reading the reply's for the next couple of weeks.
So I have a finally been able to set up an over night meeting during my week in the Greensboro area coming up in January. I have met this girl a couple of times but never for more than an hour or so.
I am looking for some advice from both providers and hobbyist. I want to make sure we take full advantage of our time.
Thanks in advance. I hope everyone had a Merry Christmas and are looking forward to the new year.
I also still have a couple of days that will be open during my time there so if anyone is interested in visiting let me know.
Hmm.. Not sure if you are asking how to prepare in the sense of the room, the ambiance, things to have on hand? Or if you are really asking what to expect? It's important to have agreed upon or understood boundaries and realistic expectations as you go into this or it may not be how you build it in your mind.
A lot of us have been there and there are many things to consider especially for your first one. You've taken the most important step in my opinion and that is your first is with someone you have spent time with before so you have some idea of how you get along which is good. That said, spending 1-2 hours with someone is still a hell of a lot different than spending the night.
Let's talk some basics though you are no rookie at this overall but like I once was a first timer for the overnight. In or out? My overnights have always been an out call so I was on the hook for some planning for the evening and the room environment.
Have you talked of your plans? Most ladies will require some public and private time for an extended or overnight. Do you know what she likes to eat or is she vegan or something of that nature? Have you researched food options if you aren't familiar with the area? How long is the overnight? For some ladies it's 8 hours, for some ladies it's 12, for some it's a range of time. What are your and her expectations for the evening? Many times this information can be found on her website if you don't already know. Dinner, drinks in, fun, sleep, fun in the morning and then roll out? Fun before, dinner, fun, sleep, maybe some fun in the morning? Does she have a sleep requirement regarding amount of sleep? Same room, different beds? May sound strange but some ladies do have that requirement.
These are a few things to have discussed prior to or at least have thought about and have some options from your perspective. I won't say it can't happen but it would be rare for the entire time to be spent behind closed doors non stop. I did have that happen once but it is not the normal thing nor what I had actually planned she just damn near killed me, bless her heart : ) Fortunately beverages and snacks aplenty were pre-planned so it all worked out well. Except for the fact that I didn't sleep at all and had to work almost 24 hours straight the next day. Ah but the memories, worth it all...
As for the room. Ambiance if any is up to you and the established boundaries you may have with the young lady already. I've got my things I do depending on the lady and our previous experiences, but that's me. What I enjoy is not necessarily what you may enjoy. I would highly recommend refreshments, un-opened beverage of course, plenty of water/refreshments and potentially even a few snacks for the evening in case you should work up an appetite. Reach out and see if she has a preference, little things add up to big things, just like the civvie world.
I'm sure others will add more and I'm sure I've probably forgotten a few things. I don't want to over complicate it and certainly you don't want to bombard the young lady with a thousand questions, but these hopefully give you the opportunity to do a little planning or maybe think of some things ahead of time instead of on the spot.
Other than that, relax and enjoy. My first was awesome, the 2nd was better, and it is what I do most of the time anymore. I don't get to do it as often maybe, but I truly enjoy it.
I'm pretty familiar with the Greensboro area so if you want or need any food recommendations let me know and I'll be happy to recommend a few options. Enjoy!
So to answer some of the questions, I have talked to her in detail. This will be our fourth meeting. It will be at an outcall location. I have booked a very nice suite. She is not a regular in the business but has seen an increase in her business due to the new reviews left for her.
She is planning on staying all night and does not have a sleep requirement. She has mentioned that she will take the day off so that when we meet that night she will be well rested. I too will have the same problem as I have to work the day before and the day after but I can manage.
My main reason for the post was to get a few ideas about things I nee to do ahead of time, such as some of the things in your post talked about with the snacks and drinks. I had thought of them but I had not nailed things down.
I really fell that I have a good idea of what she is going to do to me and vice versa since we know each other pretty well. I just hope I am up to the challenge.
That brings me to the other part of my post, do I take care of myself first before she gets there or just let her take care of all the stuff?? I would think she would rather me save it all for her but that's why I stated a reply from a provider also may be nice so I can get there prospective..
Thanks for all the help everyone and I look forward to reading the reply's for the next couple of weeks.
If I were you I'd wait for her! I think you'll have plenty of time with her that evening to space things out, and I bet you'll walk away highly satisfied!
Anything you can do to not make things difficult for her is best. BTW has she ever done an overnight with anyone before? She may not think she needs any sleep requirements, but I'm betting she does in reality.
Steph
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I am not really sure if she has ever done an overnight. I have asked a lot of questions but that is not one of them Thanks for the input.
I know I will need some sleep. I really hope that no one thinks I am trying to keep a woman that I know pretty well up all night. I would never ask that of any lady.
Again sorry if it came off that way to anyone. I will be sure to let everyone know how it goes I still have a week and a half so I have plenty of time to prepare.
again thanks for all the input and keep anything else you have in mind coming
Let us know how it went. Any tips would be greatly appreciated.