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False Reviews Stink
Jenna_Sunshine See my TER Reviews 1918 reads
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Good Morning Carolinas Friends,  

I debated posting, but I think this is post worthy. I went to work out yesterday and upon coming out of the gym I had several messages asking for a session like the one described in my new review. I checked out my TER and found a totally bogus review. It brought down my score, but that's not the biggest issue. It describes a scenario I'm totally NOT ok with. I've had many, many gents ask for me to be dominant with them, and it's just not my nature. I'm naturally more submissive, and I'm not an actress.  I think those services are best left to the many Pro Domme's who have great reviews.

I contacted the reviewer (I have no idea who it is) hoping it was just a mix up. No reply. He has written reviews for several other providers so I reached out to them. I didn't expect them to give me client  contact info, but asked them to reach out to him and ask him to contact me. I didn't get any reply from any of them, but I understand if they didn't want to get involved. However, it also makes me wonder if those reviews are false as well.  I also reached out to TER and they said the contacted the reviewer and have given him 72 hours to validate the review. I wonder, but didn't ask, what the requirements are for that. If anyone knows, please share.  I asked if it could be taken down in the meantime, and they said no. While I understand this, it's frustrating.  

The intent of this post is twofold.  

#1 - Friends, I don't, won't, and haven't provided any services listed in my "new" review.  Don't feel slighted if I declined this type of visit in the past. Also, I generally NEVER do outcall on a first visit. There has to be a special circumstance for that to happen (like a mutual friend). And just for the record, I've never showed up in sweat pants to a date. Admittedly, it's my uniform for grocery shopping and other errands, but not dates.  

#2 - I understand the purpose of reviews. I understand that everyone does not click with everyone. A perfect 10 in ones eyes can be a 3 to someone else. But it is frustrating to have totally false info floating around. I feel it's a disservice to the VIP members who pay to see full reviews to get a good glimpse into a session. Everyone knows to take review details with a grain of salt, but I think it's fair to say most reviewers are very respectful enough to not post totally fictitious information that would lead other gents to expect something unrealistic.  Most respectable hobbyists would not attempt to discuss services prior to a visit. For myself and lots of providers, that is almost always an  instant cease of communication. What a let down if they schedule based on a review and then find it to be false!  
 
Sorry to any of my friends who felt slighted, it's not me and it's not true.  And sorry to the guys who have been contacting me, it's just not my thing.  As a positive spin, read my new review and if any of you ladies are into this type of service, let me know and I can refer :).  

Have a Happy Tuesday!!
Sweet Jenna

TheSopranos101 reads

Sorry this happened.  I don't see how the numbers would have much of an impact on your scores though.
The mystery to me is why this guy would pick you out of all the providers that are out there; it appears that his few prior reviews are with providers that are very far away from NC.

Don't let this get you down; just part of the business I suppose.  You have a stellar reputation and at the end of the day you will be OK.

Keep up the good work Sweetheart !

Thank you for the positive note! As for the scores, it put me below a 9. I've been told by many gentleman they don't consider ladies below a 9. I think a lot of people fail to really consider that averages can be lowered so quickly by one review, and ladies like myself who don't offer certain services aren't even technically eligible for a 10 in performance.  
You are correct, it odd the location of his reviews. The whole thing is odd.  
Thanks again for the good vibes !! Hugs ~

I happen to read he review you're referring to. My first thought was ....Whaaaat ?  
I mean I'm pretty sure if you had a mind to you beat the crap outta me ( now don't get all full of yourself , most of the ladies out there could ) but nothing seems more polar to your nature than that of a domme . And you showing up in sweats ?  Like I Said....WTF.  Not to mention , no one who has met you could possibly consider you a 7.  Plus , no offense , but the more I try to think of you in black leather, slapping asses and demeaning clients the funnier it seems.  Just ain't in the cards....lol

I hate fake reviews. They are unfair to the lady. Especially if they put her in a position of having to refuse certain services to a client who has expectations based on a false review. It can even put the lady in a dangerous position. The review is unfair to us guys. For one thing many of us pay for our VIP. It cheats us.  
And it screwsTER out of free VIP days. Fraud is fraud .

For your  safety and welfare I hope TER promptly removes the review. This is more than just a fake review. It is something that could put you in harms way.

Sorry this has happen to you. But commend your willingness to bring this to the board.

Actually , more I think about it you probably would look pretty hot in black leather. But please, no whips or beatings ......lol

STP you make me laugh! You better watch out next time I see you!!  Thanks for the love. You are the best!

A one or review like this doesn't detour me. You have a great reputation within Carolinas. You are on my list to meet one day. Sucks someone lied. But I read plenty of reviews. Usually can tell the ones that are telling stories or flat out lying.  
I'm sure all your great reviews in the near future will wash this one away.

It's nice to know you take the time to spot the abnormal reviews! I think so go by numbers alone, sadly!

I don't hobby much so I usually do quite a bit of research. I think reviews give me a good idea of how the provider handles setup an somewhat how the date will go. I understand everyone can have a different experience. But when you see services that aren't offered it raises a question mark.  

I have seen reviews saying they received uncovered full services. An the provider specifically states all services are covered. So immediately I stop reading there.  

It's one fake review. Hopefully in the future I can give you a great real review 😉

What's most concerning is the falsehood of the services you clearly do not provide! Hopefully TER will remove it!

Steph XO

Yes, that was my biggest concern! We shall see. I will for sure be back in touch with them on Thursday and will update the post!

Hi Jenna
I had the same feeling reading this review as the previous writer wrote(say that 10 times fast).
I was FLOORED that you would be a DOM & treat this guy this way...lol
You could not have been more sweet when we met. I could not see you as such, and wondered if he was being truthful.
When he went on to say you showed up in sweats, THAT'S when the red flags went off for me. I am a good judge of people, & you are not one to walk around in sweats(even though you said you do...YOU DON'T), you are (& should be) proud of your femininity, & you show it with every breath you take. Just wanted you to know you have a fan club, I volunteer for President!
Hurry back to Paradise
It's nice here again(not really, but I sure better then NC)  

Thank you for the kind note. Ohhh I can't wait to come back!! It's been hot and humid here.  
Hugs from across the country!

Jenna, don't let this false review get to you.  I too typically ignore the erroneous bad review and concentrate on the positive ones.  
You are one in a million, and beautiful both inside and out.  Your next review will be stellar!

If it's a true bad review, there will generally be a lot. One bad review, every once in a while? EVERYONE needs to keep in mind, he could have been a jerk to her, which is his fault, "hoped" for something she doesn't do, that's his fault. Or just plain been stupid for some reason or another. Also keep in mind, we are all ppl behind a keyboard. We could be man, woman, or both. I think some bad reviews are just competion that is trying hard to destroy a reputation. Hobbyists really do take huge chances sometimes., but can also miss out on great things! Russian Roulette.

I don't even know who the person is. It wasn't just bad, it was totally fake. So crazy.

In my 5-6 years of providing I've only gotten 2 fake reviews and they were so obviously fake I got the reviewers to pull them out of embarrassment (I don't live in LA and I never meet people in an elevator).  I can't imagine how difficult it would be to pull a review when the reviewer is adamant he met you.

Thankfully I don't think there is any way her can prove me met me. I'm glad you got them pulled.  An elevator?? Wow that does seem a stretch!!

TheSopranos95 reads

Congrats on another fantastic review posted this morning !

Thank you everyone for the positive thoughts and support :).  
TER told me Monday they were reaching out to the reviewer and he had 72 hours to validate his review. They told me to contact them back after 72 hours. I contacted them back on Thursday. On Friday I received a reply that the reviewer had not replied to their inquire, they also reached out to the other girls he reviewed and none of them had replied either. They asked me to be patient for another 48 hours. I understand that removing reviews can be a slippery slope but I have 2 years of very consistent history. None of the other ladies he posted reviews for are very established and won't reply to me or TER. His user name is new within the last couple of months to TER, and the review was totally inconsistent to any activities advertised or reviewed in my past. It seems so obvious to me that it's BS, but I suppose I will be patient and see what they finally decide.  

Happy Saturday!!!

I'm betting this is going to work itself out in your favor! ;-)

Steph XO

I figured they may be a couple of ladies following who wanted to know how it turns out in case they are in the same situation.  
Hugs!!

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