I was looking through BP and found one that caught my eye in Raleigh. Great looking pics and responded to my text pretty quick. Before I sent her a text I found her on TER by her phone number and she had two reviews. Both of the guys only had one review each and they were both of her and in October. Is that a red flag? Am I being too paranoid?
Have patience. Let someone else from there take the risk. Wait for a review from a trusted source. That would be my policy at least. Though, I stopped seeing backpage ladies as I’ve found so many of the ladies on there are in a bad situation with a habit and or the whole situation is sketchy. Better to save those dollars and use them on a upscale agency or independent as the entire outcome turns out better in the end.
I agree but since I did find her on TER and her pics are very upscale but i know that could all be fake. I agree...
or you wouldn't be asking this question here. Whenever I have a doubt like that, I find that it's better to move on and just let someone else take the risk. There are plenty of reputable and trustworthy women to see. There are also plenty of men willing to risk seeing the woman you're asking about. if she really is a catch, the reviews will come.
On a separate note, I appreciate those guys, lol.
2 reviews on a lady is not nearly enough to justify seeing her in my eyes.. I suggest at least waiting until a lady
has at a minimum 5 or 6 solid reviews and there needs to be at least for me some reviews from reputable established hobbyists mixed into the equation. Way too much risk involved here. I hope this helps. I am thinking that you are thinking with the wrong head here...
but it's the "quality" not the quantity here. If her two reviews were by known and respected reviewers that would be one thing. The fact that they are BOTH first time reviewers is very off putting and quite frankly I am a bit surprised that TER would even approve such reviews. TER has an unwritten policy of NOT approving first reviews of a provider by first time reviewers because of the potential fraud implications.
So while I disagree with you on the "why" I do agree with you that I believe this is most definitely a red flag to me.
The two guys were first time reviewers and she was the one being reviewed. THAT'S what sent a red flag for me was because these to guys had never had a review until her so TER must let this go on. I'm going with my gut and pass.
I have seen girls with one review, if it were from a reviewer that himself had some recognizable reviews, showing that he is on the up and up. I've even seen a girl with no reviews based on a recommendation from a guy I know. After I posted a review (my 30th) quite a few more quickly followed.
But in the circumstances you describe it's not worth the risk. All you need to do is wait for one more guy, with a review history of his own, to go first.
is the same for you guys... if is TGTBT it's probably not worth it to get into trouble.
Meet with reputable & stablished ladies and you will not have issues, not just in legal terms but with your privacy and more!
When someone that created a review has just 1 review, I don't risk it. LE
As professional, we must learn to trust our gut when it comes to accepting dates. As a client, I suggest you too, learn to trust your gut. Good luck!
She had more than one review....she had two but that wasn't the problem. The two guys that reviewed her ONLY HAD ONE REVIEW APIECE. Thats what bothered me. If she would have had two reviews from two guys that had multiple reviews I would have thought about it.
I misread a post. Its all good. I know to "GO with the gut" lol
I think you made a wise choice waiting. Had they been a couple reviews from a couple trusted reviewers or even at least one from a trusted reviewer I would have taken the chance but two from first time reviewers is better to sit back and wait. It seems like that "gut feeling" is right more of then not and i sometimes wish I listened to that gut feeling at different points in my life as it would have turned out that I would have made better decisions I guess.
you would be surprised.