Hello all!

I'm been a bit curious on providers' age preference for their clients.
Recently, I've been rejected a few times due to my age which is a downer but I wanted to reach out and see if anyone else is running into this problem. Any advice would be helpful.  
Any input from any providers would be appreciated as well!  
Hope you all had a great weekend!

I've seen both, no one under 35 or no one older than 50. Since I'm a real senior citizen the later is a bummer, but it's her choice.

I'm on the "Too Young" side of the spectrum unfortunately.  
To put it into perspective I'm short about a decade with the "35 years old" requirement.  
I guess I will need to continue looking for providers who don't mind the age or I'll need to sit the hobby out until I'm a bit closer. Haha.

People's age restrictions seem so strange to me. I understand everyone has a right to exercise their own preferences. But still...there are kind, respectful, wonderfully engaging men of all ages. So why limit your experiences (and your earning potential) by ruling out an entire sector of the population? If you're going to heavily screen your clients what does it matter what age or ethnicity they are? But I've only been in the industry for 6 months. So what do I know?

I escort because I enjoy it. Not because I have to. And its my body. So I want to do my best to put myself in situations that are as comfortable, and as organic feeling as possible.  

I've always dated men older than me. I've never been interested in guys my age. Much less younger. So for me, seeing a client that is younger than me, is not generally comfortable. Plus for a lot of us, guys under say 35 don't approach us in a mature, respectful manner, and they want bang the shit out of you (NOT in a good way LOL)  for the entire date. I don't generally see guys under 35, but I do have a client that is in his late 20s, and its no problem. Maybe a year ago, year and half, I saw a kid that was 23. College grad working a white collar job already and zero time to date. He contacted me very respectfully, very mature, with a very nice introduction about himself. And was happy to both provide the necessary screening information, and had educated himself on proper etiquette.  We met up, and it was fine!  

Older clients- even though I date older men, its generally within 5- 10 years. I personally get a lot of attitude from older gents because my cut off age was 55 previously, its now 60(ish). Thats as far as I can go, and the date still feel natural and organic to me. Once a person is approaching twice my age, no. I'm not comfortable. That doesn't feel natural to me. That feels like I really am just doing a job, and thats not why I'm in the biz.  

Ultimately, although it can be frustrating, and I get it, I really do, but respect a providers choice. In the long run she is doing you a favor. You want the best experience possible. If her comfort zone is within a particular age range, and she makes that clear on her website, there is usually a reason.  

On the other hand, it does NOT hurt anything to reach out and inquire! First impressions go a long way! Even though my website lists a specific age range, I've seen gents that are outside it, on either end, quite often. I've seen gents of all ethnicities, from all walks of life, gents with disabilities, blue collar, white collar, etc. I have NO problem with someone contacting me and asking about the age limits.  

Just understand that its our body we're giving you. So just respect if a lady doesn't feel comfortable for whatever reason and move on. Plenty of other ladies will. And they 'll be happy to see you no matter your age! And I'd be willing to bet that once you've seen some ladies and they give you good references, others will be more open to meeting you.  

XO

And know what I know now😊
I would probably stay broke all the time

The providers that have declined me, did so in a very polite manner.
I didn't know if it was an unwritten rule from the opposite side since I'm fairly new to the hobby.
Thank you very much Gabriella, I really appreciate the insight.

I don't meet some ladies age requirements. I just turned 32. I am to young. Some providers have been super excited about my age when we meet. But I will say the ladies I have met have been older than me. I do like older women. But when I do try an schedule with younger ladies they seem to have an age requirement slightly older than me. Sucks but that's their requirement.

handle seeing someone as old as I am.....but they do.....and I'm soooooooooo grateful

You have sex drive and energy of someone much younger Marie. And sexy doesn't have an age.

I'm scared of the day, I will not be able to participate in the hobby. It's just such a big part of me....and people out of the hobby just aren't that great in bed.....very disappointing....very

Haha well i feel I get rusty from time to time. I don't want to fall into that category.  Need more practice time. You can never practice enough.

It keeps things much more interesting.

 
However, things are a little bit more awkward when someone is very close in age to me.

...thing about that that surprises me would be that they have such fine tastes.  That's usually something that developers with a few years....

You are too much PCVA

I actually brought up the subject.

Me : Damn , tonight was great. I look forward to future time with you.
Her : That's sweet. I'm looking forward to seeing you again , too.
Me : Yes, let's have as much fun as we can while we can. I mean eventually the age thing will be an issue.
Her : Oh sweetie , no it won't . Age is just a number. I love older guys.
Me: Uhhhh , I meant in a couple years you're gonna be to old for ME !
Her :

turn out the lights, they just don't want to "see" you- lol,  

sorry couldn't resist

An age preference actually seems pretty normal to me.  I know that I consider age before I contact a provider, so I'm not at all surprised when a lady considers age before agreeing to see me.  

Really glad this post was made. I always wondered the age of the person when reading reviews. Usually I can guess due to wording or descriptions ect. But I always felt like I was the only one my age sometimes. Good to read some are younger than me.  

And the ladies that did decline to meet with me for age reasons def let me know in a very professional and nice way. I feel I gave them a respectful understanding response. And I will be hoping they are still providing when I reach that age