Ok! Guys only! What is your definition of High Class in the hobby? All opinions welcome.
In this world it's too often synonymous with 4-5 star hotels, agent provocateur and louboutins. Having more money doesn't make you a better provider.
If I may be a bit philosophical .....
I do not look at "high class" as some socio-economic status but rather the type of person a lady is.
I couldn't care less if a lady has expensive perfume, lingerie, clothes, accessories, etc. All those things go away when you get right down to it (down to business that is ... LOL!!).
To me "high class", as it relates to the women in this hobby, is all about:
A lady with style, grace and humility. Confident but not arrogant.
A lady who carries herself well, the way she goes about things, her consistency.
A lady who focuses her attention on me when I'm with her, not answering her phone or focusing on other things.
A lady who truly tries to establish a repartee and not dominate (OK, some guys WANT to be dominated ..... LOL!!).
A lady who is intelligent and says what she means but tempers her thoughts in such a way as not to offend.
A lady who has and shows respect for me.
A lady who is honest and upfront about things.
I guess if you need one word to describe this, I would say that word would be "integrity". To me, integrity = class.
To me, it is the same in real life as it is in this hobby. I try to only associate with people who have integrity. In the hobby, I try to only spend time with a lady who has these same attributes. I feel like I can tell a bit about a lady from our initial contact whether it be via e-mail, phone, or in person. First impressions are so important ..... it's a shame some people forget that.
Lastly, I have been blessed with meeting some of the most interesting people in this hobby, especially the ladies. Those whom I have made real life friends with and those who remain just hobby friends. Everyone has a "story" ..... the difference between people is how they present their "story". Those that follow the guidelines above are the ones whom I consider having "high class".