Boston
Bottom line, you were CREEPY!
As always there are two sides to every story, but I have to say I am now VERY glad I had the hindsight to do what is right for me in regards to meeting with you. I vaguely recall the situation (it was before I left for Europe) and I am certainly not going to challenge your opinion as I haven't a stitch of mail to refresh my memory. Although - if you are the gent I called on my dollar who talked my ear off for 45 minutes (on my dime) and then had some odd requests (are you the one with ties to TGN that knows every escort in America?) then I did the right thing. You made me extremely uncomfortable and sorry that my refusal to see you p@ssed you off enough to post. It is a ladies choice whether or not to see a man (and some girls will do anything for $-I will not!), and as soon as I hung up the phone I was upset that I didn't have the courage to confront you during the converation regarding not wanting to see you.
In fact, I believe you wrote me as an afterthought (after my canceling) hoping to "taunt" me about your friend from FL (who cares? LOL) so I was a wise@ss back. (great memory for a few months ago! 
) And to think I saw your missed calls and heard your voice mail, and I was kind enough to call you back and listen to you for close to an hour late one evening!
The type of "service" I provide is both reasonable and exceptional. I invest in my relationships by providing a wonderful atmosphere (for incall) and for the few gents I will do outcall for I try to make the experience as special as possible (heck, I cannot haul ALL my stuff to an appointment!) This is why I have the repeat clientele. I don't see men just for the $, I see them because I sense we'll get along great and have a wonderful time. In that manner I am truly unique as any man can get a girl to $how up at his door.
Seems some men have an issue with being rejected by an escort (we all go through that, nothing unique to me). That is a poor excuse for an educated gentlemen like yourself to make a "digging" post.
Good luck to you Sir. I do wish your experience with the Boston independent you have chosen is everything you hoped it could be and more.
Just to clear something up about the "attitude." Guys like you are what make ladies who approach this business with a human touch "jaded." You force us to be businesslike because otherwise you would suck our resources dry! It seems we are dammed if we do, or dammed if we don't. How many times do we read a girl had an "off nite" or that "there was no chemistry?" Would you rather I met you just for the $? At least I am honest.
I work with the 3 strikes and "I" am out method. You were #1, Mr. Las Vegas was #2. For some humor check this situation out! This fellow writes me because he sees my post that I will be in Las Vegas at a trade show the end of May. Well, he was heading to Boston the same time, but back to Las Vegas before I left the city of sin. So, he wants to see me in Las Vegas. We had a great chat, in fact he even owns a kiosk in the plush hotel I was staying in! So, anyway he returns to Vegas, calls me a day late, and wants me (a lady all alone) to drive to Henderson (rent a car in 108 degrees and drive to Henderson!) and meet him at his home that night. This didn't work (I pictured the buzzards circling overhead the next day because the car broke down or worse than that me chained up in some trailer in the desert!) out for the obvious reason. Then he plans to come back to Boston, we chat before I leave the country, I write back on my return to a Hotmail account, and one day before we are to meet he writes to me all upset that I never kept in touch from a Yahoo account (same addy, just now Yahoo)! Do I need this?
Now, #3, he is a sweetie and it's all my fault. I was away and just didn't respond in time. He said his business plans will not allow him to see me (which may be a kind let down) but if things change I will take this cutie to dinner on me!
Some people claim to be unlucky in love, I think I am just unlucky with Outcalls. Bottom line, plenty of gents right here in New England and NYC who need lotsa loving.
On a positive note, I met a great guy from NY last week at a north of Boston hotel outcall and he was wonderful! In fact I stayed 1 1/2 hours over on my time. We will be seeing each other again during my upcoming trip to NYC.
So, see, I am not all self centered and mean. You guys drive me nuts sometimes. Especially those with big egos.
Kate
p.s. I want you to know the main reason I decided not to see you was that you mentioned all the reviews you had written over and over and over. That made me VERY uncomfortable because I felt as though I was not only under a microscope, but instead of treating me like a lady you were going to put me through the "punch list pace" and see how many boxes you could check off when you reviewed me. It was very intimidating as I give 110% of myself at EVERY appointment, no need to hold a a carrot in front of me! I could not imagine a long overnight appointment under those circumstances regardless of the compensation provided! (no ill feelings-remember, I long forgot about this, but you posted and on behalf of all providers being able to pick and choose, I am not going to sit back and "just take it!")
-- Modified on 9/15/2002 5:18:30 AM
Now I recall the conversation even more! You are from LA (or someplace in CA), but go to FL and that is where you met your compensated girlfriend. I recall telling you of my stay at the Beverly Hills Four Seasons a few months back when I was in LA for a wedding.
I do admit when I am wrong. I know one thing I did that was right........
Not a bad memory for all the new people I talk to over the course of a few months!
I see someone else probably got the creeps too!
from one of your reviews:
"I e-mailed for initial contact and then we spoke on the phone. Toni was very nice to talk to and seemed inviting and fun so I booked an extended appointment for my upcoming business trip to Dallas. I e-mailed her the details for her convenience including my cell #, the hotel address and pnone #, date time etc. We made phone contact one more time before my trip and all seemed good...Unfrotunately she was a no show. As agreed I phoned her mid day just to confirm that I had made it to the hotel and we were still on. There was no direct answer so I left a message including the phone # and the room #. I called about an hour before to try again since I hadn't heard back. Again I got the "leave a message" answer. Begining to wonder, I called at 10 min. prior to our date time and got a "this person isn't accepting any messages at this time" recording. I got this alternately with the "leave a message" recording for the next hour and a half, so I figure that she was somewhere playing with the phone so as not to hear from me. I often arrange extended dates for business trips..a true escort user. I've had providers have problems arrise and have to cancel, but never have I had one not even bother to say she had changed her mind. I advise STAY AWAY FROM TONI unless your time isn't important"
Yet another review confirming your link to Providence:
"During a visit to Providence couldn't arrange anything there, so went on up to Boston."
And yet another review (I guess Monica gets to pick who she sees but I don't?):
"Monica is very confident in who she is and has been around enough to know who the clients are that are most likely to have fun with her. I think that she'd really rather not see a client if she thinks that he won't have a great time, she cares. She had looked at my reviews on TER (I gave her my handle for security purposes on the phone earlier) and she wondered if she was the kind of girl that I liked based on who I'd seen. I told her basically that anything female is just fine with me as long as they are clean and fun."
~K
(yep, positive it's you! we even discussed our weight issues because you wanted a larger and older lady (40+)..from yet another one of your reviews "Being a larger older white guy" now you're going to make me check my cell bill for long distance calls to confirm my memory. You also have a cell phone with 305 area code, but I called you at home in LA because I hit the recall button on my phone)
-- Modified on 9/15/2002 6:13:29 AM