A frequent question I am asked when explaining what a BONDASSAGE session is:
"Are there toys involved?"
I think toys and the like are a great addition that can help heighten the sensations or put the people involved in a strong Dominant/submissive mood and mindset depending on how they're being used, but I also don't think it's necessary all the time.
When I feel the most submissive is hearing the tone of a Dominant's voice, feeling him/her overpower me with their strength, etc. That itself can put me in/near subspace if I feel comfortable enough to "let go". But like I said, toys and collars and the like definitely do help!
When I feel the most submissive is hearing the tone of a Dominant's voice, feeling him/her overpower me with their strength, etc. That itself can put me in/near subspace if I feel comfortable enough to "let go". But like I said, toys and collars and the like definitely do help!
Personally, I really enjoy vibrating toys while I'm in soft bondage and being sensually dominated by a beautiful woman. It feels great to have that vibration on my nipples, feet, shaft, and balls, as a women playfully teases my body.
I also enjoy the penetrating toys, provided the toys are small, fully lubed, and administered by a skilled and sensual lady. Of course, not everyone enjoys performing or receiving anal play. For those who do like this type of play, it can be intensely erotic, especially when the lady adds in dirty talk, light CBT, and other sensual torments.
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I also enjoy the penetrating toys, provided the toys are small, fully lubed, and administered by a skilled and sensual lady. Of course, not everyone enjoys performing or receiving anal play. For those who do like this type of play, it can be intensely erotic, especially when the lady adds in dirty talk, light CBT, and other sensual torments.