I think it is wonderful for a man to experience dining on his own spunk. Now it really has nothing to do with a woman being strong enough to do it but merely dominant enough or sensual enough to walk you through it. I have a very dominant streak and am highly sensual and have no issue telling anyone what I'd like them to do or how I'd like them to do it.  

It can be extremely erotic and you can really enjoy this in the right situation. The tone of the meeting should be discussed between you and your Domme ahead of time as well as any boundaries you both have. You could have a great time with this and combine it with some other fun activities that may send you right into a beautiful subspace.
Perhaps a little kinky therapy or nurse play that results in you ultimately devouring your cum? Think about how you'd like things to go and check out a few web pages of folks in the area.

Grace