I had kinky fantasies really as a very young child though I did not understand them. Then I discovered Psychopathia Sexualis by Kraft Ebing as a pre teen and everything became clear. This book was written in the mid 19th century and described sadism and masochisms and in the book Kraft Ebbing named "masochism" after the author Sashay-Masoch and sadism after the Marquis de Sade.
He described patients and their fantasies in great detail but most of the really good parts were in Latin so I got a number of Latin dictionaries and actually began learning as much Latin as I could (quite a lot, actually) much to the mystified delight of my parents.

I also didnt know it at the time but my "kinkiness" started when I was 7 or 8 and found my mother's used underwear in the hamper in the bathroom.  Panties that smelled like her (and smelled nice and funky), her bras, her open bottom girdles, stockings were all there for me to touch, rub, smell and eventually try on.  Ever since then I have been hooked on lingerie and have discovered my feminine side which pulls me stronger and stronger as I get older to indulge to the point of being Paula.  I cannot "pass" as Paula in public but I do go all the way with makeup, wig, heels, jewelry and all sorts of lingerie, skirts, blouses, even bought a wedding gown recently that makes me feel like a real bride.

It's embarrassing.

Probably when I was eight and tied up my baby sitter.  What was she thinking?

I discovered my kinky side after 50!

I was trapped in a vanilla marriage for over 26 years. When I finally divorced, I was then free to discover my experimental nature and the world of kinky . I love it and every day I discover new and more kinky exciting ways to experience pleasure with others!

When I turned 30, I started to get really,  really horny. I actually didn't enjoy sex much before then. When I turned 40? Whoa!!! It was an uncontrollable urge to just fuck. I'm 46 now and kink might just be an understatement! I VERY MUCH enjoy watersports and not only being dominated but also dominating... among other things! 😁 I'm about to explore the electro sensations.  Geez, I'm wondering what 50 will look like! Lol I seem to have opened up a big box of a ton of fun that I never thought of when I was younger. Ahhhhh..... good times indeed! 😃😀😁
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In a way, it didn't feel like a big thing, outside of the fact that I had to hide it from my parents.. It felt very natural.  Later on, when I was on my own, I was able to delve more into what I was into.. Still do..  

I Was 15...

I realized I enjoyed facesitting my first serious boyfriend while wearing panties & short skirt.  Choking him while we made out and had sex, watching his eyes roll back in his head, made me feel like a god

I used to wear thigh highs and garters under my skirts and dresses to school. I never even had a boyfriend..it was just based off how it made me feel lol.

. . . of my kink loving was very "fudgy". I used to watch a lot of Bollywood movies where the woman would slap her male significant other and I always found that erotic.  

I think when I started dating, I instinctively knew how to pick them submissive (even if they didn't know it). I accidentally slapped my first bf when I was riding him and it took me by surprise but he kept going and so I did too . . .    

 . . . and I'm still going

Naughty Co-Ed

I've always knew my tastes were on the kinky side but the beginning of college I started to explore. Anything involved with rope and spanking makes me drool.

15-16 years old

Fairly early on, probably when I was 15-16. Although I didn't realize my fantasies until a few years later, haha

I was attracted to bondage before I even knew what sex was.

I remember watching SLEEPING BEAUTY as a child and seeing Maleficent have her minions tie up and gag the Prince. I remember thinking how I wanted to BE that Prince for some reason: tied up, gagged, and tormented.  And then I remember seeing Batman on the TV show as he put the bat-cuffs on Catwoman and thinking that was really neat for some reason. And then there was an episode of DRAGNET where they were investigating a crime where the victim had been hog-tied, which I found to be, well... intriguing, though I didn't know why.

It wasn't until college when I became sexually active and happened to read Anne Rice's EXIT TO EDEN, which just turned me on more than anything ever had.  I think I was always wired this way, but it wasn't until then that I became consciously aware of it.

sold a magazine from my dad it was couple having sex during the female cycle ( period) i was hooked i loved to eat what comes out females since. i also love to have a women leave marks on me from bitting me or hitting me

While I've always identified as a bossy bitch, it wasn't until my early 20s that I met my allegorical white rabbit who lead me down the kinky rabbit hole I've never looked back!

I've had sadomasochistic fantasies of one form or another for as long as I can remember. The earliest ones I remember were probably around the age of three or four.  

So I started to respond that I didn't get into kink until after my divorce (from an extremely boring vanilla partner), but then I remembered prior to that, that I used to stream online while I fucked myself with household objects lol....and used to play porno Barbie with my playhouse and dolls when I was about ten....and now that I think of it, none of my dolls ever had clothes lol...ok, so maybe the kinky side kicked in later, but I've always been pretty pervy, hee hee.

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I guess I have always been kinky since my very early teens. Discovering self indulgence by ripping my panties off with scissors and playing with my ass. Something about the feeling of a cold scissor blade against my bare pussy lips as my panties were cut open to reveal my wetness got me so visibily turned on.  From there it progressed into fantasies about much older men taking peeks into my shower to indulging in myself on the way to church....
Much later on I discover BDSM and the joys of it. Creativity and sexuality pair perfectly!

As a young kid, the Patty Duke show was on TV (this would be the 1960's) and for some reason she took a job were she had to wear a skimpy costume, sort of like a Playboy Bunny.  This was in the evening and it had been a summerish day, so I was wearing my sneaker (we were poor so those were on my feet all day, every day -- getting wet, etc.)  Needless to say my feet stunk.  Anyhow I was taking off my shoes and socks while at that very moment seeing Patty Duke in her skimpy costume -- and the smell of my stinky feet.  From that day I had an association of stinky feet smell and the female genitalia that persisted for decades.  I don't really think of it now.   My theory is that the brain was primed to associate smells with sex and normally would have associated the natural female smells.  But the miracle of TV and the accident of smelly feet coincided to construct a false association.

Okay, that's not really kinky, just weird. ha ha

As others have mentioned, though, seeing chicks like Lois Lane tied up turned me on at an early age.  I liked it but didn't understand why.  That one is harder to explain ... why would a display of submission cause such an evocative response.  Anyhow, since an early age I always wanted to tie women up and have them submit to me.

The first time I was tied to a cherry tree. I believe I was 8. I didn't know about rope, bondage, bdsm back them but I feel in love with my cherry tree and my rope.

Probably 12-13 years old. I used to self hog tie myself with pajama bottoms and gag myself with the top.  
I don't know how I discovered it, but it was a feeling like no other.

When very young 8 or 9 maybe we would be playing "house" or some other imagination game I would always try and convince friends that as part of the scenario they should lock me up in a cage or kidnap me😂😂 I always had some long drawn out scenario and would get off on it😈😇

just recently in my early 30's. had sex with hundreds of girls at this point and honestly it was getting fairly boring. esp with k girls since their routine was similar and banging normal girls was losing its luster. although i still love the chase, sexually i was getting really good and needed to try something new.  

was walking around hollywood one day with my ex girlfriend and we walked past the Hustler store and decided to go in. after an hour we walked out with a bag full of goodies. handcuffs, whips, dildos, vibrators and a ball gag. after that i havent been the same!

dont get me wrong. regular sex is still a lotta fun and doesnt feel too "vanilla" just yet, but i notice that im 10x's more sexual when the toys and i love dominating women.

An early bloomer..

I've known I was kinky from a very young age, even though I didn't know what BDSM was. My "awakening moment" came from a Disney film. One of the characters had just gotten kidnapped, and the ropes and hands over his mouth elicited my very first feelings of arousal. I was probably 6 or 7. Since then, I would often take daytime "naps" where I hid under the covers and pretended I'd just been taken away by mysterious men.

When I started as a provider!

I have to admit that I was pretty vanilla prior to getting into this biz. This biz has opened up my sexual "Pandora's box" and I love it!!