I am a professional submissive, which is not as common as pro dommes, so I'm having trouble researching price points. Most of my sessions are GFE with a submissive flare, but I get a lot of requests for harder BDSM sessions including bondage and impact play. I want to list an add on price for this and was wondering what others charge or have paid so I stay within the current range for the market. Any advice is appreciated!
Check with Angie Summers, she is an escort and a sub. Her pricing I believe is the same per hour notwithstanding the service she is rendering.
If you could be as accomplished at subbing as she is you will become very popular.
Thank you, I will!!
In response to your PM, my TER ID is 314640 and my site is on my profile page.
Thanks!
Amber
My rates are set for my time only. I do not believe in asking for extra for certain activities, nor do I lower my price for milder activities. The activities I offer (whether GFE or submissive) are things I truly enjoy doing. I am a "people pleaser" at heart and love role play and fantasy fulfillment. I also can be a bit of a "pain slut" with the right person and under the right circumstances, although the proper chemistry and level of experience has to be there for that.
I also do not change my rates when I travel. They are a little bit on the higher end of similar providers in my area, but on the low end of many places I travel to.
It is simpler for the gentlemen I see and for me to know what to expect from a session if I am not always having to calculate where someone will fall into my rate structure.
I genuinely feel I am being compensated for my time (and travel expenses), and not for the activities that occur between 2 consenting adults. (When at home I am covering the additional expense of maintaining a private incall, or travel expenses for outcall.)
Please feel free to PM or email me if you would like to discuss further.
I am a professional submissive also, and I know the struggle as well. To be honest it's quite hard to be both, your either GFE with a hint of BDSM or purely BDSM. I have been a professional sub outside of the escort arena for a long time. As a sensual submissive I charge in between rates because I offer "sensual" which is soft BDSM. I do offer heavy sessions but I do not advertise that on my website, Clients who are looking for true mental and heavy sessions know where to look, which usually include websites tailored specifically for BDSM. For my heavy sessions I charge almost $600 per the hour. I charge this amount because it requires complete submission, usually with high impact toys and usually in a dungeon. However for my GFE soft submission my rate is about $300 and up.
Hope that helps!
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Thank you for the advice, my fellow Aquarian! Yes, I need to work on discerning between soft and hard session price points and protocol. Not a lot of resources around for us pro subs lol
Love your site, it's very elegant!
Sincerely,
Amber
I am a professional submissive also, and I know the struggle as well. To be honest it's quite hard to be both, your either GFE with a hint of BDSM or purely BDSM. I have been a professional sub outside of the escort arena for a long time. As a sensual submissive I charge in between rates because I offer "sensual" which is soft BDSM. I do offer heavy sessions but I do not advertise that on my website, Clients who are looking for true mental and heavy sessions know where to look, which usually include websites tailored specifically for BDSM. For my heavy sessions I charge almost $600 per the hour. I charge this amount because it requires complete submission, usually with high impact toys and usually in a dungeon. However for my GFE soft submission my rate is about $300 and up.
Hope that helps!
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Have you ever met any other providers in person? Attend a M&G, so you can see your competition. I have attended plenty & you see the difference immediately. Do not sell yourself short. If you offer services that are rare use this as your niche. Not everyone is the same. If your looking to be busy by all means tend to the current market value, but if your picky set your bar higher to attract higher clientele.
If you go to low to begin, than it is more difficult to raise the bar later. Get reviews that reflect the activities you cater too. Best of luck to you! I love a submissive girlie who loves to play naughty if your on the Westcoast...
maybe we can be friends. Smile 4 me! xoxo
Thank you QueenBia, I agree with everything you said. And I wish I was in the West Coast, it's so beautiful over there! I'm in Charlotte, NC. I actually just inquired a couple days ago into a local meet and greet that's being hosted.
Sincerely,
Amber Rose
TER ID 314640
Have you ever met any other providers in person? Attend a M&G, so you can see your competition. I have attended plenty & you see the difference immediately. Do not sell yourself short. If you offer services that are rare use this as your niche. Not everyone is the same. If your looking to be busy by all means tend to the current market value, but if your picky set your bar higher to attract higher clientele.
If you go to low to begin, than it is more difficult to raise the bar later. Get reviews that reflect the activities you cater too. Best of luck to you! I love a submissive girlie who loves to play naughty if your on the Westcoast...
maybe we can be friends. Smile 4 me! xoxo
I used to charge $200 extra but now i do same price as regular gfe byt its a 2 hour minimum and its been like night and day. Its reasonable yet you get so much more of them its worth it.
Such great advise.
She is reviewed here on TER- very experienced Pro sub.