Why do people in NYC ask if fulfilling their fantasies is possible? Or ask about dungeon availability? Or anything for that matter!?!? You're in New York City!!! It's possible. It's available. Go find it! Don't y'all know every time you ask those stupid questions you do nothing but piss off some guy somewhere in VA? Now cut it out!!
I think I'll go park my truck in the middle of the corn field at the end of the road and get online to ask a New Yorker if it's possible to find fresh locally grown produce in Virginia! How do you like me now??But if you're anywhere near Northern Virginia, you have access to one of the best dungeons I've been to (I have a lot of friends in Fairfax County, so I wind up spending a quite a bit of time there). Check out the Crucible in DC. They have plenty of theme nights and some rather hard players (Kraken's Lair) sometimes attend. Also, since it's DC, there's no law against nudity, penetration, and sex at fetish clubs, so you can get your rocks off while you're getting zapped/poked/flogged/wrestled to the ground. If you're from further South, make it a special occasion to go up there occasionally: I know a few people who make the drive from as far North as Philadelphia, PA and as far South as Richmond, VA. Hell, check the FetLife group to see if someone in your area would be willing to carpool!
Hope that helped. 
Amelia
I've lived in NYC for the last 15 years and people in NYC don't ask, they take. We are hard wired to be alphas- I don't know if you figured that out. The ONLY ppl who ask about dungeons in NYC are tourists honey.
New York is one of the top cities in the country for kink and fetish, second only to San Francisco, maybe. That can't happen in a city full of Alphas. Someone is submitting to those Alphas. And I promise you they aren't all tourists!