A buddy of mine had a heart attack this week. He likes to hobby (not active on TER). Thank goodness he wasn't participating in the hobby when it occurred. I believe he's going to be okay but it reminded me of a fear I've had for awhile. I've had some health issues of my own. What if a hobbiest were to experience something like that at an incall ? What a way to go ! Gosh, I'd hate for it to happen to anyone. It would sure be hard to explain. I used to always prefer incall. But here recently, I've thought.....maybe my outcall hotel room would be better for various reasons . Im sure it's happened. As a provider, what would you do....ever think about it ? If you were in his room, would you quietly leave and maybe call 911 ? What if it were at your incall ?
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you call 911 and let the chips fall where they may. No Question about it. Beside the Moral implications, in today's atmosphere of surveillance do you actually think the police won't come looking for you? Do you think they don't have the resources to figure out who you are and find you. That would be harder to explain than leaving the seen of an auto accident.
Exactly !!!!! Ladies, NEVER leave, call 911, explain you were having an affair (if he's married), but do not leave...The police and paramedics will shield you from exposure to his family if that's an issue...Trying to explain why you left the scene (if the incident is fatal) will not go well when the investigators show up....
and a gentleman who will visit often, after recovering of course.
Id call for help and I see no point in leaving. We're two consenting adults so if that was the issue it's nobodies business but I mean it's different if he had a wife and this was something he wanted to keep low key then idk tough call, id feel bad for leaving but don't wanna make anything worse than it may already be especially if it's an Incall lol, that's something to think about cause in a situation like that if it's your Incall you can't leave. Hopefully hospitals are discreet with things like that. And your friend was it with a provider this happened with ?
I agree totally with everything you stated
I would carry the body in a plastic bag into my car then transport it to his house with a note and text all his friends and family...
In all seriousness, I would definitely stay and call 911 not only for the moral implications as someone else already noted, but the possible legal consequences that could occur with leaving the scene. If the client is married, just state that you were having an affair.
However, I think the chances of this from happening are very unlikely, but you never know when your time is coming. Google has a few interesting tall tales about this situation.
I wouldn't leave at all if someone was having a heart attack. Calling 911 and waiting for help aid all you can do. I don't think shielding the whole other woman thing is a bit naive. Nurses are suppose to abide by HIPA but they don't. My sister a nurse and all they do is talk about their patience. Sooner or later the wife will find out cause she's gonna want to know why was her husband at X place and he told her he was going fishing. Sticky situation but my whole goal is to make sure your safe and breathing, even if I have to do CPR, your not dying on me.
I agree with all your statement especially about hips and saving life.