Was a bit of drama, but good discussion to be having  - Can’t find a violation under the Ts & Cs that would cause the entire thread to be ditched???

…I shouldn’t respond directly to this question, but I had a different question that went through my mind about that thread: Why did admins allow several of the posts made in that thread to get posted in the first place? I never understood that! Honestly, IMO, all things considered, it’s probably best that the whole thing was thrown away.

“Positng mean or rude comments is prohibited.“ (sic)

My guess would be that a private message was posted in the thread, but we will never really know.

It's certainly a relavent topic to hobbiests and providers.
I didn't notice anything offensive either.

Yep. Flaming and rude posts are prohibited according to the TOS.  People flaming & posting rude posts might end up getting banned.  

Yes. Those who happened to read that thread are witnesses to what was said there.

I agree with one caveat. The best assistants I have worked with over the years seem to have only been helping one provider, at a time at least. They were truly assistants, not pimps or agencies (though agencies have their own place in the community). Their purpose seemed very clear and was nothing more than being available to communicate when the provider wasn't. This made scheduling a lot easier.  Ladies understandably are not on their phones when in appointments and have other things like hair, nails, lashes, gym, etc plus family and personal life that can make them hard to catch when I would have a window. I think most men, like myself before I retired, have limited chances to communicate in order to remain discreet. When there is an assistant who I know I can text anytime and get a prompt response allowed me to schedule a lot more often. Like ALOT more often, ie. twice a week vs once a month. I think everybody came out ahead in those situations.

I wouldn’t disagree with a word of that.