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Providers are leaving in droves. Hobbiest are  hibernating .
And I am what’s going on????

Hibernating.... but I know what you are talking about

Guys are canceling appointments. That is an abnormality. You can have four or 500 views on the ad but five calls during the week. I could see hobbyist twice a month!  I’m ready to quit!  
If time doesn’t change Atlanta is going to lose the really good girls. And gain a lot of problems by girls who are in an adequate, substandard, and do not give the quality of care that those of us that are around our prepare to gI’ve.
Maybe it’s the flu .., maybe it’s .., grrrt

Agreed!

I am new to the Atlanta scene, from Austin! Texas has a notorious reputation for cheap guys who often cancel or do the dreaded NCNS! I was really looking forward to relocating to this area where Texans often tour due to better quality! After arriving, the 'cheap' hasn't been an issue, but the cancel has.  
I am gearing up for a tour to be able to make ends meet because the rose colored glasses have been removed!
LADIES: open for suggestions....

Maybe guys are sticking with their tried and true regulars.....and are tired of jumping through hoops, 90 minute minimums, and requests for full name and/or upfront deposits.

Have a great weekend all!

Well said Bucky.  To me there are several things going on.

1.  The raids and stings of last year have definitely made the ladies much more cautious, especially in seeing new clients.

2.  The wave of client harassment, especially workplace visits, has made clients much more cautious about putting their personal info out there.  Sort of a perfect storm considering #1 above.

3.  The active agency group that was path of entry for new girls and a no-hassle smorgasbord for clients has shrunk and gone very low visibility.

4.  Social events have disappeared, sharply reducing the sense of community and also limiting the ladies' ability to expose themselves (so to say) to lots of potential new clients.  Bucky is a good friend, but haven't seen him in a long time!

5.  All that results, as Bucky says, in a lot of us sticking with the tried and true.

The office visits I have been hearing about are the scariest factor out there but I don’t see it mentioned here for a while.

NYCforBusiness85 reads

Exactly!! I have a regular who takes great care of me. Plus when I post honest requests to meet young ladies with amazing armpits there are no responses or crazy verification. Why would I send identification ever but especially these days. Are the ladies providing driver's licenses?  

I've even reached out to a few to arrange a threesome with my ATF and they aren't interested.

...do you mean by the "change? Who exactly is leaving and why? Sometimes a person's experience feels like it's going on everywhere but after some reflection they see it isn't as widespread as they thought. I'm not saying that is true regarding your post but I need more details to be sure I understand what you want to communicate. If possible please give specifics which will help us be sure we get your point/points. Your post sounds like the lead now give us the who, what, why, when, where.

 
I've been in Atlanta a long time and I am well aware of events here in the past year but I can't just assume that's what you are referring to.

 
The ladies I've known are still active here. They aren't going anywhere. Every few days one or two of the ladies on my favorites list gets another review. My experience doesn't appear to be your experience.

 
It's true the Atlanta board isn't as active as it use to be and I think I know why but I could be wrong.

I have read through your post several times before replying  

I can’t seem to stop myself from feeling you sound very patronizing in your tone.

Charlie has much more information than you will ever have about her side of the business.

Are you honestly comparing your favorite list getting the odd review to what Charlie has stated?

...so I can know if what I think she means is applicable. Is she saying business is so bad in Atl that providers are leaving in droves or what? How many providers exactly? As I said, her post is the lead now give us some details. What is the change she refers to?

 
There is no patronizing, I'm asking for more information to be able to draw an informed conclusion and then offer an opinion.

 
It sounds like you believe you know exactly what she is talking about and it's quite possible you do but, I do not.

-- Modified on 1/27/2018 11:02:23 PM

In your very first paragraph your initial statement describes why she could be wrong, based on a flawed thought process that you state is common.

That is in your first paragraph and provides the context and undertone for everything that follows.

You proceed to be very very wordy what sounds to me “fake nice” and patronizing/condescending with your “questions” and then conclude by stating you believe you know what is going on but you then end your post without contributing your opinion.

Charlie deserves a more sincere response and I believe she has in fact earned it.

(Just to emphasize, I’m not judging you, I’m just saying this is how your post came across to me and why.)

...you've stated how it came across to you. If Charlie responds I'll have more to say otherwise I don't see any reason to continue. I don't think we'll get anywhere.

Lol

Very statesmanlike

So you state that you think you know what is going on but until someone plays your game you won't share what you think you know.

And you just leave your de-legitimizing introduction in your first post hanging out there.

Why do you deserve Charlie to respond to you? You haven't engaged, just patronized.

I don't see ANYTHING in his post that warrants YOU attacking xyz. Infact,  xyz has always been super helpful, honest and kind! It's no wonder so many people(especially ladies) avoid Atlanta nowdays.....  let's see just how many post you can nit pick and analyze.  Lol  
Why don't you enlighten us and tell us EXACTLY how he was being ugly to the OP??

Posted By: terrilynn
Re: Ummmmm....
I don't see ANYTHING in his post that warrants YOU attacking xyz. Infact,  xyz has always been super helpful, honest and kind! It's no wonder so many people(especially ladies) avoid Atlanta nowdays.....  let's see just how many post you can nit pick and analyze.  Lol  
 Why don't you enlighten us and tell us EXACTLY how he was being ugly to the OP??

I have no data to infer either way whether Charlie’s comment is just a general speculation or borne out of specific info.
I for one, did not read any patronizing tone in xyz23’s post. On the contrary, I found it to be a genuine follow up inquiry.

Exactly....... the only thing I see is an alias starting trouble AGAIN over someone trying to be helpful. No wonder people stopped posting in Atlanta.  I'm an Atlanta native but this board will run off the best ladies and gentlemen in town.  Shit just like this made me completely relocate. There is a huge difference in speaking ones mind, being helpful or just starting shit.  
Instigators just suck really...

I see new girl after new girl ads with 500 and above donations though
Which just seems weird

justified fear, over what happened this time last year.  They are still gun shy.  They are slowly coming back out.  But they are scared.  One even told me that before meeting me that he feared someone had stole my identity.  I was glad to welcome him in the door with LDFK with a small hint smell of weed from another room :)  He knew without a doubt then I was there to meet him for fun!  

It will pick back up.
Maddie

I, myself, am grateful for my regulars that are both local and not. I also travel when my day job isn’t keeping me busy.  

I’ve noticed the change, even on the boards though i don’t post a whole lot. Hopefully things get back to normal so i can attend something and meet some of you fabulous people! :)

I don’t know exactly what’s been going on, but it’s definitely slowed down. Every time I’d get a new review, I’d at least get 3 inquiries and 1 date. I went 8 days last month without an appt or even an inquiry. And, I’m the lowest I’ve ever been on the top 100 because of the new scoring benefiting me, so on paper I’m doing better. But, it’s not reflected in my traffic. I’m not requiring any additional screening than I was before the busts, except that I plan to decline outcalls to Dunwoody if I’m ever asked. I look exactly the same, apartment is still cute, I grandfather my clients, I still offer the same services. So, I’m not sure what’s up, but I definitely feel where you’re coming from. Maybe money is just tighter, spouses are more privy, and gents don’t want to see anyone new even if we are reviewed. Hope it picks up for you. February to May is usually really good to me, so I’m just going to try to not make any plans for the next few months.

For me, it's purely financial. Work is slow right now and because of that, my extra funds are slow. I have not seen my atf in what seems like an eternity. I know that things will pick back up but holding on until then is tough.

I use to tour Atlanta from '07-12. I even lived there. I left the business for 3 years and was looking forward to making Atlanta one of my stopping grounds again.  

Thanks for the update!

I'm in Tallahassee a few times a year.... I'll have to remember you.  Very hot

Thanks dear! New pictures are coming out this spring. 🍻

Hope you make it back to Atlanta. You're gorgeous...beautiful smile!! :-)

Not hibernating, just not playing in Atlanta. My experience over the last couple years has been that requests go unanswered, and appointments are too often last minute cancelled or NCNS. So other than a few regulars it's been other marketplaces for me. Good luck!

SeductionMindHacks117 reads

What places are you going?

is keeping the hobbyists away.  

Just an observation. Average used to be $250 -300, now it is $350 to $450. I do get the point that most don't have an infall after the incident and have to pay for the hotel.

I’ve been apprehensive after everything that has happened and am slowly coming back. No doubt I hat played a part in the decline but I also noticed rates have gone up across the board also in the past year. In the rule of supply and demand if what Charlie is saying is true, wouldn’t prices be coming down?

Also Charlie I tried to contact you a few weeks ago to schedule something and never got a reply back

StoketheFire155 reads

Something I've noticed from reading other boards is that there's currently a lot of interest in mining the non-pros over on one of the sugar baby sites. A lot of mongers are raving about paying low rates and getting multi-hour sessions. Quality seems to be hit and miss, though, and it requires a bit of time investment. Even so, I bet this influx of young ladies looking to make a quick buck has taken some business away from the professionals who frequent this board. There are clearly downsides and dangers in pursuing non-pros, but the reports I'm reading are mostly positive. Just a thought.

Your right I have also seen a lot of interest, mainly because guys seem to want to believe it will be cheaper, and for some reason they have noooo problem disclosing their true identity lol

and it is cheaper, if you find the right one and make the right arrangement. As I posted earlier, I have two sugar babies I can see as many times I want but I can't because lack of time.

Before you ask why two? Started seeing two friends together and one had to move away for family reasons but kept the arrangement going. It is been fun.

SeductionMindHacks105 reads

How does a relationship continue when she doesn’t live here?

Am I understanding you correctly??

I think you're an underage minor participating on an adult-themed forum. You're asking too many questions that adults already know the answer to.

Every post you make is a negative attack

Why are you so unconstructive?

Are you not getting laid?

You are 100% correct. I have left the hobby scene and have been seeing sugar babies. Have two I have been seeing for over a year and if you find the right one it is a bliss.  

I have built an excellent relationship and when you treat them right it is a blissful time and gets better and better over time.

After some consideration and consulting with some whose opinion I value I want to apologize to Charlie. I meant no offense, no intention to patronize. I'm should have chosen my words better. Charlie please accept my apology.

 
xyz23

Yeah, as BJ and Anonymous mentioned, most everyone seems to have raised their rates this past year. It almost seems like there are more $500 girls than $300 girls now.

I'm relatively new to the hobby but.... I've been able to find very hot women at reasonable rates.  If the rates are higher than I can afford maybe I won't go as much.

Another thing is that it is very easy to get FS at several strip clubs for 150 to 250..... no screening and you can get a 10 dollar preview..... in general though if you want a good looking experienced woman in a nice environment then you are gonna have to open your wallet.

I don't go on the Porsche board and complain about their prices.... I just buy what I want and can afford.

SeductionMindHacks129 reads

Lol you spent $300k on one woman - what would be a “rate you can’t afford”???

By the way, is FS really available at a strip club? I’ve never gotten it at the club itself....

Lol.... I do have a little more discretionary income now that I'm not dropping 3k a week on her.....

Follies all day long.... I would not go at night but it is hopping by 2 every day.  50 for the room, 100 to 200 for the girl.  

Last month a guy at the table next to me was getting a bbbj.... I'm too shy to do that on the floor in front of everyone but to each there own

Back when $250 to $300 could get you a major hottie for an hour, I was active almost every week or every other week.  

Now that the average is close to $400 and $500, I have to take into account my savings, retirement funding, paying off bills... and is it really worth $500 for an hour and one pop, which is usually all I'm good for. And lately, that answer is more and more... no. I just can't justify it, and I don't think I'm alone. I hope some ladies will reconsider their rates and see if it might jump start their business.

No you are not alone! The rates have gone up for many ladies!
One example, in the middle of last year, I got my id etc checked with a lady and she was 400 and I think had hh rate! Any she canceled once. We couldn’t get our schedule together. After that I got busy with others. Earlier this month I thought of contacting her again for an appointment ... was surprised to see her rate has gone up to 500!

I did a quick search....

Price 200 to 300
Overall rating 7 to 10
Escorts only providing sex and oral

6 pages of girls show up with reviews in the past 3 months.

It does not seem to be a pricing issue.  It seems if you are looking for a specific provider then yes she may have raised her rates.... but in general there seem to be a lot of ladies with high ratings, recent reviews, in your price range

When I change rating to 8 an up I get 4 pages of providers that have reviews in the last 3 months

When I change rating to 9 and up I get 14 providers that have reviews in the last 3 months

So if you are looking for the highest rated ladies at the lowest price then you have 14 to choose from.  If you can accept an 8 and up you have 4 pages to choose from.

For me I don't put a lot of stock into many reviews, many of you guys write for penthouse forum and I'm not interested in how good a bottle of wine was that you brought.  Lol I figure if you are complaining about the cost of provider then you probably are buying cheap wine.  So I look for women who are attractive to me, reviews look good, and are in my price range.    If 200 to 300 is out of your price range.... you are in the wrong hobby

What's interesting is what one person sees as an 8 or so... may be more like a 5 in IMHO. I've seen women rated 8 or 9 in looks that just aren't my type at all. And I'm good with that; I'm not the final judge of what's attractive by any stretch, but I'm not into lots of tattoos, BBW, goth looks, or street walker types. I'm more of a sexy girl next door type and lately, that type is out of my $$$ range. But it's all relative, right?  

As for the pricing, I've always been good for up to $350, but lately it's $400 and up. $500 used to get you as good as it got i the ATL, now it's become almost an average number for many of these ladies. Minimum of 90 minutes or two hours. One provider was $350 in November; now she's $1,200 minimum entry for two hours. Add to that the extreme vetting that providers are asking for, and I think we have our answer why business is slowing down here.

I agree on the reviews.... hard to tell based on the guys experience.   I saw one guy with 6 reviews,  5 of them were once in a lifetime events lol.

My point was that if you dig a little I think everyone can find somebody that fits their tastes and their budget.... the days of the all you can handle 200 dollar buffet are gone however there are a lot of reasonable priced hot women in Atlanta

Making this posting. I post to get people into active on the board and to get the opinions of people. I didn’t post to be ridiculed, antagonize, or just plainly bombarded with bullshit.
 Some say I need to update my website and my photos my new site and photos will be live this week.  
Honestly I really don’t think that matters but we’ll see how this new website drive traffic. Either way I plan to do more Touting and traveling versus being available in Atlanta.

You have no need to regret your post and anybody who ridiculed you in any way is an absolute and total douchebag.

My $.02

In how things have been in Atlanta and I am considering leaving as I've even noticed women aren't touring here anymore. Apparently Atlanta is dead, partially due to everyone still laying low after all the busts last year.  

I'll be migrating over to NY

You are considering migrating to NY and those girls (600-1000/hr) are touring here...Might want to rethink that idea, cost of touring to NYC (for instance) will be twice as much as say...Nashville....

I'm NOT telling you how to run your show, simply stating a fact that might have been overlooked.

only advantage is I'm from NY originally and have a lot of resources for places to stay :]

HappyChanges87 reads

600hr is my Max in NY out of principal. I'm sure you can get the same girl in Atlanta for 400hr or even three.

to cook that goose.  Stew, fricassee, stuff and roast.
The hobby isn't dead its just evolving.  Guys had enough sloppiness I think.
Used to be a gal wanted to be accessible to her select clients.  I think respect
is just not there.

As Tevyah would say, "On the other hand, its the worlds oldest profession".

Whelchel play devils Avichi it I would say that guys need to read reviews check out a girls Internet presence and select from there. I have never had a bad situation. I treat everybody like it’s somebody I want to see you again. I guess it sucks to be me because I care too much but then again I don’t care Enough to keep dealing with bs

I don’t think anyone ridiculed you or I hope you don’t think I was ridiculing anyone. Another trend I have noticed is the number of backpage or similar girls being reviewed lately.

Well first of all this comment was very condescending and insulting. Because I’m not a Backpage  girl nor am I similar.

I apologize for the misunderstanding, I was not referencing you in any of my responses, other than stating that I tried to reach out to you recently. I was solely commenting on the changes to the community in general. Again I apologize if by any way anyone thought I was insinuating you directly

Isn't it obvious? People aren't stupid. No one wants to run the risk of getting pinched by Uncle LEO. Well, maybe except for Khori lol.

I didn’t take a shot at anyone. I don’t even know who that is.

My post was to ncreaver's post in which he took a potshot at khori for some unknown reason

I don't think it was a potshot.

Just a friendly reminder about a conversation on this board almost 1 year ago when I stated my opinion that ATL would never be the same again.

Khori and a couple others were of the highly optimistic opinion that "this too shall pass quickly."

https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/atlanta-18/re-is-atlanta-that-hot--281978?#281978

GaGambler126 reads

I wasn't involved in that particular thread, but they have said the same thing in virtually every city that has gone through something like Atlanta went through and yes "this too will pass" whether it passes quickly or slowly I don't have a clue, but I guaranfuckingtee you it WILL pass, things like this always do.

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There is still so many nice ladies in Atlanta.  I had a thought....I know it hurt a little.  I have been trolling BP lately and there are so many nice girls on there recently.  Maybe it is up to us as gentleman hobbyists to Do more of TOFT so Rhea ladies are treated right and don’t feel that men are all scum bags.  I understand the LE risk too!!!

SeductionMindHacks103 reads

What is a “Rhea lady”?

I live in Atlanta and, before last year, would hobby here as well.  Now, I hobby in other cities where it is safer, easier, and, ultimately, cheaper (e.g. DC and Dallas).  Also, I quit posting TER reviews of my activities long ago, and recent and not so recent events have proved that to be a wise move.  If I have an urgent need, like others have mentioned, I go to Follies.  

NYCforBusiness80 reads

I'm curious about what you mean. Clearly last year was scary here and Seattle had it's situation but what happened in Atlanta whereby posted reviews was a risk? Was TER hit with subpoenas?

Just did a check of rates between these cities--and it seems we've caught up to them for the most part.  

I get that in these other places the cost of living is substantially higher, including hotels, restaurants, gas, parking, etc., but we're a *much* lower cost city than these are. We have dozens of ladies now in the $500+ price range, similar to what you would expect there. Several that used to be affordable are $700 to $1,200 an hour.

The problem is, if you want to see that lady once a week or so, you're looking at $24,000 to $62,000 a year. That's real money... from just one regular.

So you can visit your favorite provider once a week, or... you can buy a better house, get a high-end luxury car ($2000 a month x 60 months= $120,000), or save for retirement before you drop dead on the job.  

Unfortunately, if these prices keep going up, it's going to force me to retire or travel elsewhere. Charlotte seems to be a decent alternative. I'm all for someone making money, but lately, it seems like this is a hobby for CEO's, not regular guys with decent paying jobs. Maybe this is the turning point for this hobby in Atlanta.

Any ladies interested in a M&G to help with business??   I tried two but you ladies failed to reply or come.  I screen carefully.   Guys, are you ready to come again?  Will it help to get the "community" back together again.    

I hosted the "Toys for Tots" Christmas party again but the attendance was not what was expected and the toys were scarce.  

If M&G are not wanted anymore, it too shall pass.  If smaller private parties will be better, I'll try that IF YOU'LL want.

@JimmyPW-- I agree with the other poster; late nights are just not an option for anyone but single people. I'm not married, but I'm with a long-term GF who has sexual issues and has granted me the opportunity to fulfill my needs in other ways as long as she doesn't know about it. And asking to leave for a late evening without having a good reason probably doesn't qualify as being low-key; otherwise, I'm on board.

One that maybe would be held at lunchtime or early afternoon. I am not able to make an evening engagement. I was never able to attend any of the M&G’s that were sponsored by Jimmy or the former agencies.

It ebs and flows, over supply at the moment, probably pricing and timing issues. Time to get creative, specials, duos, bundle price packages etc.

I remember when there used to be good, clean, quality low to mid cost providers. Everything has moved to high end, 90 min minimums, $600-$1,000 per visit. Most bread and butter, blue collar clients cant afford and are being priced out of the hobby by high end providers.  

If I didnt make the money I do, no way I could hobby with quality providers at some of these prices, hoops and verification processes.

Good luck, get creative -- you will prevail and be successful!

Lets just say that this hobby is not one for everyone.  There are time constraints, financial constraints, professional constraints, etc.  I can't speak for everyone, but personally I have one provider I frequent and occasionally I branch out to "test the waters".  I'd love to have a few "go-to" favorites, but my time constraints and professional life make that difficult.  Typically I don't plan a rendezvous days in advance; rather, it's more like an itch that I want to scratch when it comes up.  Sure, I understand not every lady is going to sit around waiting for my beckoning call and I don't expect that either.  

The things I look for in a provider are a safe and clean outcall location (It is hard for me to host for a variety of reasons), that is a 30 min or less drive from where I am (north side of Atlanta), punctuality from the provider (I charge a lot for my time professionally, just like they do, and consideration/respect should be shown for that - I arrive on time and ready 99% of the time--unexpected traffic can happen in Atlanta, I get that--), and a service that matches the price.  Availability on the weekend is super important to me.  I get it, it's the weekend.  However,  when you work as much as I do during the week, there are literally not enough hours in the day to schedule an appointment for M-F.  To be able to afford dropping the kind of cash this hobby necessitates, the majority of your "ideal target" clientele will probably also be busy during the week.  (Personally, I arrive at work by 8:30AM and don't usually leave earlier than 7:00PM - why?  Because that is the prime time of when my clients require my services)  Be flexible.

The recent LEO aspect of things have made me far more selective, as a run in with Johnny would be detrimental to my professional career and livelihood.  "Knowing the law" and being aware of your surroundings will only take you so far.  
 I know the law pretty well, I still don't feel 100%, or even 90% comfortable, meeting someone for the first time.  This hobby, in it's very essence, is illegal.  No matter how much you want to try and mitigate every circumstance, you're still playing with fire every time you go out there.  Trying a new provider drastically increases the chances of having an unwanted meeting with Uncle Johnny.  This is not opinion...

I've found that frequently when I "test the waters", I always leave feeling like it was not worth it.  Whether it be the attitude, the amount of time I sat waiting past the scheduled appointment time for the provider to be ready, or the connection in general.  That is not to say that sometimes everything is great, but it just wasn't the "flavor" I was looking for, while it may be someone elses favorite flavor.  So I always end up back in the arms of the provider I've been seeing on a consistent basis for almost 2 years.  

Without trying to sound like an arrogant prick, because I'm really not, but if I made my clients wait for as long as I've waited for a lot of providers (this is not directed at anyone in particular as it is fairly common), I would not have clients.  Granted, I understand the world in my profession vs. the hobby are far different, these are just the things that I look for and my honest attempt at trying to make sense of OP's original inquiry.  When I'm paying top dollar I don't think it's unreasonable to expect top services, which includes all of what has been mentioned above.  The newer crop of ladies seem to have trouble understanding the value which should come to be expected of the $$$+ price point.  I can't blame them though, as long as people keep paying for shitty service, then shitty service is what you will get (this does not apply to everyone, of course).  All of the ladies that have been doing this over the years, they are the real gems.  Everything I've said above is what most of them already know and basically a tacit agreement that both parties have come to expect.

Hopefully this helps.  Hopefully I didn't ruffle any feathers.  

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