So, guys... i was at prickly pear having drinks with friends yesterday! I'm like 3 drinks in and... someone covers my eyes!!!! I'm thinking another party goer!
The voice says very loud, "Your my all time favorite and best BBJ ever!"
I jumped up and turned around feeling embarrassed and very upset!
I see a familiar face whom I've been refusing to see again! My friends looked at me for answers. I grabbed his hand and walked him several feet away. I turned to him and pointed my finger dead In His face and said, "rule #1, discretion! How dare u invade my personal life!" He tried to grab me by my waist and hug me... sorry guys but I shoved him so hard I almost lost my balance.
I hope u get the picture guy! Not only will I never see u again but... I just may let other provider know how disrespectful of privacy and personal space u are!
I'm a really nice and easy going person. I'm so easy To get alone with. I hang out with my clients on a humble all the time!!! This was a total violation! If he could be flogged... he should be.
Ok, I let that out and I feel better!
You should tell everyone of the ladies exactly who this douchebag is. I am surprised you didn't deck him when he tried to hug you.
Definitely not supposed to go up to people in public u met through the hobby
As specific as the details you posted are (the exact location, exactly what he said, your exact reaction, etc) vastly increases the possibility that someone in your real-life sphere will put this all together. You never know whose "friend of a friend of a friend" may be lurking here.
The better approach would be to simply post the bastard's info on the PO board and his handle on this board (if he has one).
Sorry that happened to you Charlie. That is definitely not how to handle that situation. You may have just gotten yourself on the do not see list for those antics.
Anyone that knows Charlie can attest to how cool and chill she is but you certainly abused that.
Be Well Charlie. Your awesome.
....if he has a handle/username/alias. You could get bet for a certainty had a Provider done the reverse the cries would be long and loud .... "she's BSC, off with her head". Remember not everyone is on the PO Board but ever be should know and blacklist him as well. You would be doing as all a great service. So sorry this happened to you.
Suzee
What I meant was " Out his sorry FUCKING ASS"
Guess my auto correct was set to nice....
....if he has a handle/username/alias. You could get bet for a certainty had a Provider done the reverse the cries would be long and loud .... "she's BSC, off with her head". Remember not everyone is on the PO Board but ever be should know and blacklist him as well. You would be doing as all a great service. So sorry this happened to you.
Suzee
and I would probably be leading the charge to "name names"
I don't see any reason that this idiot shouldn't be tarred, feathered and run off the board on a rail, using his "handle" not his name of course.
Yes, you would....
Suzee
Actually in the interest of "fair play" Mo really needs to "name names" We get guys here all the time "whining" about NCNS, last minutes cancellation etc,etc etc, and I tell them the same exact thing. If you don't name the offenders, all you are doing is WHINING and not doing the community a bit of good. Everyone knows that things like NCNS or calling a hooker by her hooker name out in public are two of the most egregious sins you can commit, so it's not like she is posting a PSA without naming the guy who did it to her.
Bad behavior should have consequences, When a BSC hooker commits an act deemed unacceptable I want to know who she is in order to avoid her, I can't imagine that you ladies wouldn't all like to know who this guy is in order for you to avoid him too. So come on Mo, spill it.
Garnering attention.
I guess it would be a good way to get people to "Look at Me, Look at Me"
But surely Charlie is above that kind of thing, right???
I guess "naming names" would be one way to put that kind of speculation to rest. So come on Charlie, who was the fucktard who couldn't keep his mouth shut?
That's just ridiculous behavior on his part. Total dick! I hope you let as many providers know who this is as you can. You ladies have enough to worry about without having this kind of thing to worry about.
What a fucktard. Very, very unacceptable behavior on his part. I am sorry to hear this happened to you. I am with the others that you should out him. If the situation had been reversed I would certainly want to know who the provider was.
Completely out of line. I would be mortified.
Clients should NEVER approach ladies when you see them in public.
Did someone just actually do that! That's a number one fear most providers or those thinking about providing have. Then not catching the hint. You handle yourself so well.
You should have kneed him in the Nuts right there.....
I'm gonna post his info on the PO board. He has called and emailed asking me not to put him but his behavior is unacceptable.
Other providers deserve this info! Glad you're doing this
I would have preferred a public flogging, but it's the ladies who really need to be warned about him.
I am glad you are "naming names" even if it's only on the PO board, there is no real gain to anyone if bad behavior doesn't come with a price. I say the very same thing to the guys who come here whining about NCNS or B&S but who are too cowardly to name names and fall back on the equally cowardly "PM me for details"
By chance is he an active TER member/poster?