I wanted to pose this question as I think with this board, I can get an honest answer instead of, "All porn is horrible!!"
Is it just me or is today's porn just a little too gonzo and disrespectful of women? On Retube and other sites, see women being treated like meat, and being gagged by big cocks, hammered like a board, painful positions, etc. For that reason, I pretty much stopped watching today's porn and went back to my old standby, 90's and early 2000's porn. At least people seem like they are just enjoying each other and not trying to humiliate or degrade each other. Am I alone in feeling this way? Just curious if it's just me or not.Some women love being gagged by a big cock and hammered like a board-- I'm mentioning no names, but we all know a few!
Some us love gagging, tears, nose running, Dripping mascara...slobbery fun! Whew... almost excited myself!
+1 on running mascara. I keep a tube of shit Walgreens stuff around when I know gagging is in the equation. Everyone's got their kinks ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Maybe there were better actors back then. I like Jenna Jameson a good bit.
Humiliation and degrading isn't all that nice, but that and other kinky stuff can be given respectfully. If you go to Kink.com, (subscription but worth it), and venture to Hogtied, it shows pain to the woman, but it shows the woman talking about it before and afterwards and how she enjoyed it so very much. It's not disrespectful. To me, it shows how they are not acting (important to me) and enjoying themselves. Plus, I like the stuff being done in the section I go to. I think other places at that website might have things more specific possibly to your individual taste.
Xhamster.com was OK but the quality of video was not professional. A few good discipline videos there, but I had to search through so many that I lost a lot of time and then I couldn't find them again to show someone else (the person that turned me onto Kink.com).
Either way, you lose a lot of time from your day watching that stuff. It's good to be able to find what you really want to begin with. I'm trying not to watch it anymore because I lose track of time too much and it gets me too much in the mood for stuff I can't have.
On another note, I wish there was good music today. I have to listen to music that dates back before I was born (some decades before I was born) to enjoy good quality. An occasional modern outlier may pop up that I can appreciate.
I really miss porn from the 80's and 90's. My favorite actresses from those era's are Madison Stone, Patricia Kennedy, Lauren Brice, Heather Hunter and Jeanna Fine. Porn today is overrun with pseudo incest and degradation of women. One of my favorite lines from Boogie Nights... It's just not sexy Jack! To each his/her own but it's just not my cup of tea but then again, don't knock it until you try it! 😁
I hate that step daughter or step sister stuff. That barely legal creeps me out! I like good old cream pies and double penetration creampies. I also like watching guys jerk off and to be vocal. Weird shit ... no thanks .
at tube sites, you are getting a very one dimensional view of porn. if you want good porn you need to pay for it!
The problem with porn is it is everywhere. lol There is also no taboos that haven't
been videoized so nothing is new or exciting or whatever. Beautiful babes in porn
are also a dime a dozen which wasn't always the case.
I look at it but its kind of boring to me now.
Yeah, I miss the 90's super hot chick who's with a guy and they both seem to genuinely be into each other. I want to see people who are both crazy horny to get laid and totally into each other. Today it just seems like degrading a woman, making her look like a cum-catching slut is the general rule. Maybe I'm getting older, but that stuff just doesn't do it for me.
Today's porn just doesn't even look like it would feel all that good. Weird positions, jack-hammering of pussies, anal-ramming, slapping the shit out of a woman's ass until it's red and bleeding, guys jacking off over a woman for a minute before they cum... I miss slow blow jobs that made the guy come without having to jerk himself off (I'm a guy, I don't care about seeing a guy jack off), slow fucks that made me wish like hell I was the guy doing the fucking, hot chicks that made the sex look like it was a once-in-lifetime event, felt incredible and wasn't an acrobatic act... hmm... sounds like I need to go dust off my old VHS tapes, right??? lol
What if making her ass red made her horny as hell? Wouldn't you do that for her? The sex would be better for both. Maybe porn has become diluted to reach out to more viewers. I'm sure if you like the traditional non-ass reddening videos, you can find those. Just have to filter through more variety nowadays.
entrepreneur could make a fortune off making more GFE type porn that turned women on as well. I with all of you and like the old stuff.
Maddie
You might want to check out the Sweet Sinner stuff. It originally was lesbian shot by women but has widened to include GFE type scenarios as well.
entrepreneur could make a fortune off making more GFE type porn that turned women on as well. I with all of you and like the old stuff.
Maddie
I think it was Jeanna Fine years ago who started her own production company a long time ago to create porn that would also be appealing to women.
Also, today you have Collette who runs X-Art. I like their stuff alot. It's more standard porn fare but almost all of it is done in a more romantic fashion instead of trying to shock the viewer or cater to any more kinky styles.
An for the most part, that's the stuff that sells. While misogyny may not be central to the production, that's not necessarily true for the consumer. Kink sites were initially offerings to cater to the kink community, however when producers realized other people liked it to(albeit for different reasons), more was made.
Beyond that, you can blame tube sites. Because you guys refuse to actually pay for your porn and download/view it for free, companies aren't willing to spend the money on high quality, artistic and visually provocative film like they were making is the 90's-00's, so they make content that they know will at least make /some/ money.
Also, in relation to some of the other comments, not all people doing BDSM on film enjoy it. A lot of people do BDSM because it pays well, and they don't actually enjoy it, they're just good at acting, which, like it or not, is what porn is...
or yanking her head back by her hair.
and to tell the truth I agree with you, but others are into it, including many women. I have been asked several times to grab her by the hair while she was blowing me. I have complied a few times, but I am sure I was probably more gentle that what they wanted. I am simply just not a "rough" guy where it comes to sex.
I have never been asked to grab a girl by the throat, but I know there are quite a few women that are into this too. Neither are my thing, but I try not to judge in such matters where all the participants are willing.
A while back, at the interview stage of an arrangement, a really cute young woman told me she liked being "choked" during sex. That is nothing I had ever wanted to do (and still haven't done), but the idea that she was into something like that told me she would be really wild and fun. Unfortunately, for a variety of reasons, I never got to find out. But dang the look in her mischievous eyes when she said it!
---later
I've met 2 that requested it...and it most certainly flipped their switch to high gear...I'm not one to "man handle" a lady, but if she's demanding me to do it, I'm gonna do it...Whatever the lady wants, the lady gets.
with a chain, and a hood with an opening for his eyes and mouth. He likes for me to slap him when he's turned on and I oblige. He also likes to be spanked for being bad. That wouldn't turn me on to be in his position. I do love my hair pulled by the handfuls from the scalp out, and I let my massage therapist do this to me all the time. It stretches all the tight muscles in the neck and can relieve a tension headache. What I get in to is being hand and ankle cuffed to a bed post standing and there is one guy that can make me squirt hitting my G spot with his fingers. I have to be really turned on for the roughness though 
Maddie
Thanks! Now everyone knows my business! Lol! Too bad we have never met.
with a chain, and a hood with an opening for his eyes and mouth. He likes for me to slap him when he's turned on and I oblige. He also likes to be spanked for being bad. That wouldn't turn me on to be in his position. I do love my hair pulled by the handfuls from the scalp out, and I let my massage therapist do this to me all the time. It stretches all the tight muscles in the neck and can relieve a tension headache. What I get in to is being hand and ankle cuffed to a bed post standing and there is one guy that can make me squirt hitting my G spot with his fingers. I have to be really turned on for the roughness though
Maddie
Bono41 and any other (I guess me too) should try to engage in what the other is into as well. I guess I could entertain Bono41’s porn if I were with someone like him wanting to watch that if, I could tell the girl felt full at least (during penetration) the way I like to feel, even if toys were involved. If it had 2 girls, I need to see chewing and tongue up inside for me to feel anything. A guy doing that is almost always convincing to me and hard to watch.
In return, a Bono41 like guy should watch severe discipline (to the ass mainly) prior to hardcore sex that would hopefully lead to forced anal and cum results from every entry. But it’s narrow that I don’t want to hear the girl obey the guy or call him “sir”. I might turn it off.
If watching it alone it doesn’t matter I guess. It’d be about discipline and Greek for me. It’d be old fashioned for Bono41 I think so. I like GaGambler tries stuff he’s not into for girls. Didn’t expect that.