And tell us all, no matter how simple or silly it may seem. Not sure if you ladies are interested to know about a strange thing but with the current environment any and everything suspect is suspect to me so I am getting out of my usual bag and telling this story about a crazy time wasting experience.
Gets a Pxxx request in my mail for same day. Do verifications and send email with contact # and availability. Next day gets texts asking am I gfe and bbbj. I explain that we are not acquainted in any manner that would be appropriate for those type questions and please refrain yada yada yada. But assure him we'll get along swell. He apologizes and sends his pic. We chit chat about much to do about nothing he asks if I'm free, yep, so he's gonna get a place convenient to him for a 2 hour encounter about 4 hours from (now). I say I'll text on my way there, he says ok and we're set. He texts save your energy for fun, I don't respond. He texts make sure you have a lot of energy and then my rate is $550 correct. I say my rates are stated correctly. I don't respond to the other. I text back I'll let you know when I'm on the way. He says ok. Two hours later, I'm on the way, text such, get a room number back and I'm getting off elevator 20 minutes later. As I'm walking to the room he passes me in the hallway, I see its him because I got a pic. I say hello, he slows says hi and keeps walking toward elevator. I say maybe he wasn't the (I know this sounds racist so shoot me) only Korean dude on my floor in college park on camp creek, coming from my room direction in a small place so I knock, no response. Again, nothing. I text, nothing, I leave. Never to hear from him again nor did I ask what happened because frankly I care less to hear reasons or excuses from fuck shit. He had okays n references however one ok was an agency, not the agency but I'm not sure of the ladies as I didn't and don't follow the boards often so I don't know who was part of what. I'm not saying he's LE, nothing bad happened to me but he seemed to want to talk details and money and left once I refused to. Now the bad part, I inadvertently deleted the pic but I have his emails and Pxxx info if anyone is interested. Sorry if this seems a bit alarmist but in today's environment, I think safe rather than sorry is or should be the new motto as much as I am my brother and sisters keeper. Love, JSounds strange but most people seem strange to me anyway. You can recoup the deleted pic if you have not dumped your deleted folder/waste basket. If you haven't dumped it yet you can go in the delete folder an look for the pic if you know which one it is. Once you find the deleted pic you can undelete it. Then it should show again.
But it's a trap app. Not my real number, once n I didn't save it. Once deleted from those it's pretty much a wrap. But thank you much for your input. It's appreciated
You're welcome. Sorry I couldn't help. I don't even know what a trap app is. Lol.
Quite the contrary any input is helpful, blessings for that. A trap app is like a hobby phone but a hobby app on the phone I.e. Google voice.
Xoxo, love
Thanks for the education. Since joining TER a few years ago I've received such an education. Lol. Thanks again. Xo
...he wanted to check you out in person before you got to his door and for some reason didn't like what he saw and decided to keep moving.
I've seen you in person so why anyone wouldn't want to see you is beyond me but to each his own. You're right, these are strange times and there are a lot of fucking weirdos out in these streets.
In my 10 years in the hobby, I've heard stories of some hobbyist requesting outcall and sending the girl to the room across the hall so they could check her out through the peephole in order to make sure they were the same person in the ad or to just see how attractive they were in person before commiting to the appointment.
Good point, but not possible for him to have known when I was actually coming up. He gave me room number while I was still driving there and I never say, on the way up. You should be expecting me, on time and I wanna know if any crazy ish is going on in your area before I show. I was a few minutes early and he was already at the end of the hallway like 5 feet from getting in the other elevator when I got off. But honestly, you never know why people do weird shit.
thanks babe oh and you too irishjap, sorry I negated to direct that to you directly.
It just sounds like you weren't his type and has nothing to do with you personally. A better way of handling it would have been for him to greet, apologize for the lack of a match, and compensate you with a pre-arranged cancellation fee. As long as your pictures are an honest representation of who you are, that would have been the gentlemanly thing to do, but then gentlemen are sometimes in short supply.
Yea, I'm aware of all those bait and switch tricks from ladies and men avoiding them, hence I don't photoshop my pics and before my twitter was deleted I posted pics and videos often to show current true representations of me. I don't believe in false advertising. Also why most of my ad pics are new selfies, although my new shoot is super hot, so I'll be posting those soon. Checkum out and tell me what you think. I'll add them in a day or two. they were taken on my i phone and I dropped it in lemonade so I'm pc bound until the morning to get them off my cloud and my phone. But thanks for the advice and input.
xoxo Joi
I think I know exactly who your referring too. I think he books with several girls to see who shows first or to see them first. I refuse him each time. Another provider gave me the run down in his "behavior" he flakes.
I went down to greet him since my hotel requires keys to enter elevator . I went down for him 3 times . He said he was waiting and saw me each time. Needless to say I refused and every time he contacts me I refuse!
Sounds about flaky right. I have no clue why they play such games, thinking of putting tonka toy on my forehead, lmao.
xoxo, Joi
Maybe it's because ladies play the exact same games with their clients:
https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/atlanta-18/stood-up-two-days-in-a-row-284106?page=1
No Darling, ladies don't play games and neither do clients. So sorry you had that part confused. toodles
Love, Joi
Yes, ladies do. You're playing games right now by acting so naive and ignoring the obvious. So sorry you had that part confused. Ciao.
NO LADIES DON'T play games, unprofessional bitches do. NO clients don't play games, tricks do. I'm not playing naive, I'm stating facts you should learn so you won't seem so jaded.
My post was to let ladies know of a strange event and based on the environment, I felt I should speak up. Just because some bitch you wanted to boink pissed you off, don't take it out on every subsequent post. Sometimes it's better to be not seen or heard. Don't high jack my post and make it about you and me please. At least in this instance, it would be a great preference of mine if you stay focused on the subject matter at hand. WE DONT NEED NEGATIVE VIBES PLEASE! Once more, toodles, and go find you a lady rather than a bitch, she'll teach you the difference between the two so you'll never get that part mistaken again.
With that said, I'm not interested in teaching grown men the basics of women nor arguing our individual points, so I shall excuse myself from further interactions with you, you win and I wish you a "happy ending" .
Joi, this is why I lov ya so!!! Miss ya hon.
Awwww, xoxo babes, I soooo Love you right back. You should def know that for sure.
So many things wrong here.
The questions/texts would have put me all the way off and I would have been really too freaked out to meet.
Even if I quelled my nerves to meet? You had his pic and when he passed me in the hall I would have turned around right with him and gotten on the same elevator and left rather than continued to the specified room to meet.
LOL that's creepy and crazy I'm sorry that happened to you. What an unsettling thing to deal with.
With what I hear as the current ATL environment I would not (and am not) taking chances on stuff like that. WOW
Yea, you're absolutely right only all his references checked out from all sources and I passed him but it was in passing and he acted as if it weren't him and I didn't want to be like all Asians look alike type situation and be rude in any manner. But again, truuuu.
Xoxo, Joi
I used to have the same bad experience. I scheduled an appointment with a provider and I drove 45 min to her hotel. When I arrived, she cancelled our appointment out of blue. I was in the hotel, and she just said she didn't see me. Anyway, we should only meet nice providers with good reputations and reviews. Hope this shitty stuff never ever happen to us again.
That sucks, could have been double booked maybe? But my concern was more so he was willing all the way up until I refused to speak services and money. I he tried a few times then kept doing it around about way. When I didn't respond to those but did to other things I is my thoughts. Not that he couldn't have not liked me, totally possible but I look like my pics n he was leaving before he knew I was there, a few minutes before I ignored a suggestive text. But who knows or cares really, lol, surely I haven't lost sleep. I just wanna let ladies know of crazy stuff because you never know what nothing turns into.
actually We have been met many times babe. Haha.
I just didn't want to put your business in the streets babe, I know exactly who you are wink wink
The moment you get an unnecessary question, move on. If I were in your shoes, I would have ignored him at the BBBJ question. We wouldn't have even made it to the ridiculous texts he sent afterward.
The perfect client understands the position we're in. He knows that we're making judgement calls about who to be alone in a room with based on scant information, and with a lot of risk involved. He wants to reassure you that he's OK to spend time with, so the last thing he wants to do is to spook you or make you doubtful. Someone who doesn't proceed with that in mind is most likely a time waster or simply unacquainted with how things are supposed to work. It's not worth the time and effort to explore the slim chance that he's neither of those things. Do yourself a favor and ignore people who don't either don't care about or don't understand the process.
Stay safe out there!