Do you ever feel turned on by a client? I mean, to a point where you would offer to have sex (free upgrade) or hang out later just because you feel attracted to him? or since this is strictly business, you cast all emotions outside?
Just curious
I think it does happen but as a general rule, most of these ladies are good at compartmentalizing meetings and thus able to avoid these type of situations. Just my opinion.
Monkeys can fly out of your butt too..... that's probably a bit strong however these ladies are advertising an experience and that's what they are providing. My guess is that less than 1 percent of the time the provider gets the type of feelings you are talking about and that close to 90 percent of the sessions leave the guy feeling like she truly loves him.... read the reviews.... almost all sound like a porn scene and end with I'll repeat often she is my ATF. But remember these are written by the guys. I'd like to read a providers "honest and anonymous" review of her sessions. We could then play the game of seeing if we could match the reviews lol. A provider would never do that unless it was completely anonymous because it would be bad for business
.....to almost every statement in the OP and the 2 previous posters. It can happen, dont know if it happens to everyone but I suspect it happens more often than not to many and they do not disclose. There definitely is and should be an effort to compartmentalize by the Provider for the protection and benefit of both ( i think), somebody has to be a grown up . It has happened to me in some fashion a few times and once was an almost cataclysmic event. I am blessed or curse by being not multi0 but infinitely0 until exhaustion as a result i tend to limit the time I spend with most and I am always going to be satisfied no matter the partner, thats just me. On a particular occasion, i met someone who under normal circumstances i probably would have been attracted to who was particularly well gifted, OMG kinda big and also possessed stamina of a kind that i have rarely seen. A 2 hour visit turned into a 2.5 marathon without a break except to hit the head and that was at a full run, I mean no breaks period and i was begging and crying for more and only came to a stop because i was becoming too sore too participate further.........I loved that sore, stretched feeling the next day it brought a smile to my face but never saw him again though he reached out regularly for a couple of years, i believed it was too dangerous for me and I would not be able to separate business from personal and certainly would have not wanted him to have personal issues either.
Suzee
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dang.. now I feel too afraid to meet you so that I don't have to compete with that dude
Escorts are human, too. I've had several suggest that we spend time together off the clock. It's a dance trying to manage that but it also has its rewards.
Interesting responses. Of course, I know most of these girls only care about returning business and tips, I don't expect them to like me (sigh).
......ahhhhh come on Eyore cheer up
I've know girls that has happen too. For us, like was mentioned earlier it's scary and you have to separate yourself emotionally. I love and value the time I spend with every person I meet. There have been times where I've gotten so turned on that I just want to say "fuck it". But as a provider you have to contemplate wether it would change the dynamic of your professional relationship and do you want to risk that. I've spent hours with a gent because we've gotten lost in conversation. Didn't want it to end but had to remember I do have other gents to attend to.
I do confess that as a dude, I know most of this is an act, but I still strive to give the girl a good time.. it's weird but guys (I hope others agree) do enjoy it more when we know the girl is genuinely enjoying herself
blah.. I'm mumbling now.
I’m a bit of a sexual deviant. I do in fact have an ATF whom I’d see , reschedule my day and travel to meet.
As providers we have to have an equal balance of acting as well as reality.
U can’t get caught up and u can’t possibly enjoy every encounter as “real life”. As women we are emotional creatures and men enter us thus it can because real without us wanting it to be.
I’m an extremely low volume provider and I don’t see people often. This allows me to be selective and it allows me to control how real things get.
But it's rare. I remember one very well known and well-reviewed provider offering to get together with me and go to a bar to see someone we both knew and hang out. I couldn't do it as I'm in a relationship (with a woman who has sexual plumbing issues) who I love, but if I hadn't, I'd have been all over it.
Another time, there was a really well-endowed provider I had been seeing back in the mid 2000's that said she was open to a dinner date off the clock. I wound up meeting the above woman around the same time (who didn't have these issues then), so I never followed up on it.
That said, any time I start to think a provider might want to spend time with me off the clock, I am reminded that her full-time job is doing this and she probably wants to do just about ANYTHING BUT have sex on her day off.
I have dated a lot of women who do this for a living over the years and two jump out at me from opposite ends of the spectrum. The first was an AMP girl who I met at the wonderful "Oceanspa" of yesteryear. I actually was the one who broke up with her because our sex life was so bad, she was exactly what you fear, she NEVER wanted to have sex on her day off, and while she was a wonderful girl who I know had genuine feelings for me, I couldn't deal with having a GF that everyone BUT me was having sex with. lol
On the other end of the spectrum my last serious hooker GF ALWAYS had plenty of gas left in the tank for me. She too was a "high volume" girl, she worked at a Thai agency and while she wasn't seeing 8 guys a day like is common at a spa, she was most definitely a high volume girl by most anyone's definition. We didn't just have sex on her days off, we had sex about six nights a week, and I can't remember her ever turning me down for sex even though I told her from the beginning that I wouldn't cop an attitude if she was "too tired" some nights.
So don't rule out having a provider gf that still enjoys sex outside of work.
Most of my clients are men I would date on the outside world.
If I had a great time and were asked to have a beer around the corner, and it was the end of my day; why yes I love that!
I have been on a motorcycle ride through the country OTC with a hobbyist
I have had a client bring me a Waffle House plate so I wouldn't starve
Just a few memories