partner that didn't result in an orgasm for either?
For me it was with my wife when the kids were in their teens and really a PITA. The kids were going to some school affair,Both of us were stressed about things that were going on at our work places.We left a note for the kids that we would be out late so don't worry about us. So we went out for dinner at a fancy restaurant with soft music and excellent food. After that, we checked in to a luxuriant hotel and enjoyed just being alone. Cuddled and both fell asleep... was last Valentine's Day. I scheduled a couples massage for my wife and me, then afterwards we enjoyed a long, relaxed dinner at one of her favorite restaurants, at a table by the fireplace (it was cold that night). Had a nice time reminiscing about the past, and looking into the future. It was a forgone conclusion there would be no orgasms, actual or attempted, that evening, but it was a very pleasant evening.
Looking back, I'd have to say that many of the "most romantic" experiences I've had didn't involve an orgasm. For example, there was a day-long excursion to a zoo with a wonderful woman, and I'll remember that date forever.
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It was my first date with my current wife.
After we dined at a tony steakhouse, I got a text that the carriage awaited us outside.
She stepped out to have a cigarette and I waited to pay the bill. When I came outside she was petting the horse and wondering who was the lucky couple that would be riding in that coach. I told her that we were and proceeded to help her up into the carriage.
Boy was she ever happy about that and let me know it.
...The kids didn't go to the school affair. Instead, they threw a party and announced it on social media. To give you an idea of what the place looked like when we got home, see "Project X."
As fairly stern parents my kids would never do anything so obviously contrary to house rules. They were more likely to have the party at some untraceable location 
I'm not sure if it can be classified as a thing but I started falling for a provider after a few sessions. I tried to convey it subtly but I'm not sure that I did it justice or really got her to understand it fully. I requested to take her out on her birthday and she agreed although she generally hadn't gone out much on her birthday. Our communication had dwindled a bit the week before and it seemed uncertain that our "date" would actually occur. We spoke again on her birthday and it was a good thing that I kept the reservation despite the uncertainty.
We met and had a beautiful 3+ hour dinner. I had given her a gift as we went to the restaurant. Over cocktails she decided that sitting across from one another would not do. So she had the waiter move us to a booth where we would be next to each other. We talked a lot and In between courses, she asked me "what's going on with you"? I told her it was her day and we shouldn't bother with my "stuff". She said she wanted to know so I spilled it quickly and professed my love for her and told her that I had fallen hard. She hugged and kissed me and didn't at all shun my words. About two weeks prior I had an idea that I didn't know if I would go through with it. So I decided now is the time. So, nervously I got off the booth and reached into my pocket, knelt down on one knee, told her again how much I loved her and presented her with a ring I had bought and asked if she would be my "friend". I figured this would freak her out without really freaking her out. To my surprise she loved it. We continued with an amazing dinner. When we finished we got into her car and proceeded to take a 2 hour joyride through Manhattan while talking sharing stories and jokes. It was amazing. She drove me to my car where I thought the night was over. We left and went in different directions. About five minutes later I receive a phone call from her and see that she is a block away. We talked for another 30 minutes or so while driving next to each other on the highway. It was the most romantic evening.
We saw each other 5 times in the next 8 days and I grew more in love with her by the day if that is even possible. More than a year later she still makes my heart race. She is the most beautiful, special person I know.
A few years ago my wife and I were going to be on a business trip out of town during her birthday. Before we left I gave her a huge beautiful coffee table sized book about astronomy which has always been an interest of hers and told her she shouldn't have to wait for it till we got back home. On her actual birthday we were in a hotel somewhere and I gave her a nice pair of earrings. A few days later we returned home. By then her birthday was over and she wasn't expecting anything. So she was floored to discover a beautiful new telescope waiting for her at home (an Orion 8 inch reflector). I'm still reaping the benefits on that one!!
my wife knows all about my hobbying, she approves and gives me her permission to fool around. I am a truly lucky guy.
from the neighbors' windows when your done using it.
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When vacationing my wife and I still prefer a sleeping bag and camp fire over a fancy hotel room and last year while camping in North Central Pennsylvania after a long day of hiking and fishing we had just finished a gourmet camp side dinner of freshly caught wild brown trout and finished off a nice Chardonnay as well we were laying on the ground star gazing when we were treated to an awesome meteor shower that lasted maybe 5 minutes. It was a perfect moment shared with the most important person in my life.
For me it was with my wife when the kids were in their teens and really a PITA. The kids were going to some school affair,Both of us were stressed about things that were going on at our work places.We left a note for the kids that we would be out late so don't worry about us. So we went out for dinner at a fancy restaurant with soft music and excellent food. After that, we checked in to a luxuriant hotel and enjoyed just being alone. Cuddled and both fell asleep.
I really adore the guys I see who love their wives and/or are true friends with their wives. Such a precious relationship to have with a person.
I'm sending you guys a big 'ol hug and a kiss!
Being a widower I have much flexibility. This the week after Xmas
I spent a day with my ATF provider who retired several years ago
About whom I remain friends with. Picked her up for breakfast, then
we spent the day shopping and spoiling her with whatever she wanted.
Then dinner, and home for her, a quick kiss and hug and left her after a wonderful day.