I understand that is not possible to fuck all the ladies you want, but do you rather have an ATF be with regularly 'till your body get stiff or try to be like When Harry Meet Sally effect and say to yourself I want her too, every time you see & read a great reviews. Which leads me to my question, when you see a lady more than once, does it grow on you? Especially at our age right now, that probably most of us over 60's had done most everything in life. How frequently do you visit a lady or whatever works for you or is there a limit at all? Do you get closer to them? Or do you find that they're only a couple of acts, and get bored, becomes stale, flat and stagnant and move on to the next lady? Is it quality or quantity or both. In your bucket list?
My bucket list is mostly done. I started this hobby when I was 70 years old, only because my wife just didn't want to have sex anymore. I am now 74
#1 on my list would be for my wife to take care of my needs like these ladies of the boards do.
#2-- I want to play with two women at once, never have met either one before. ( and live through it)
#3--I want to open my e-mail daily and have a notice that one of my favorites is in town at a time that I can see her.
That's all that's left on my list. Everything else has been done with the help of these lovely ladies that I play with weekly, All of my ladies are in their 40's and I have seen many times.
Assuming that your bucket list question is "quantity or quality" [per the last tow sentences of your post]. And let me add that variety does not preclude quality (obviously)).
I am in the hobby not to find an ideal companion but to fulfill a personal (mostly physical) need. As many posts frequently point out, there are severe dangers in becoming emotionally attached to these wonderful ladies (among which is becoming a annoyance, or worse, to them).
Unlike you, I have not "done mostly everything" and there are several high flying items left in my bucket list. I intend to cross one of these off the list in late March 
My income is not what it was even a year ago, so my hobbying is limited at the moment. I'm seeing some providers, but I keep going back to my favorite. I probably will until one of us gets burned out, she retires, or I just get too old.
That said, I've been daydreaming about taking her on a trip to Europe. Probably England or Italy. I don't know why. I'd probably test it with a weekend trip to New Orleans first. I just think it would be fun to travel with her. I don't know much about the real her, and she makes up stories all the time. That irritates some guys, including my best friend. I find it entertaining to watch how her mind works as she creates these false realities. Some are totally implausible, but fun.
At the same time, I still have my goal of hooking up with a gorgeous brunette Italian provider. I also have a thing for women with English accents. So the trip could kill two birds.
I've never experienced huge boobs, and would like to. DD is the largest. It's not something I'm really, really attracted to, but would like the experience.
I'm not attracted to the average Asian provider, but there's been a couple of them who I'd like to see. There's a provider in Vegas who has the sort of full lips and face that I just die for. I'd love to see her.
That's a short term lis
ladies I should try to spend some time with.
I do see certain ladies for repeat business but try to see new ladies as often as I can.
I just love meeting providers in general but I would love to have a regular go to gal that I could click with. For three years I had just such a relationship with a lady who was beautiful inside and out but she went and got married 
At my age I have emptied my bucket list of realistic and obtainable. What I'd like to put in my bucket list requires winning a lottery.
At this very moment I got an email reminding me to buy a local but highly rewarding lottery. I hope this is an omen that I will spending a month with my ATF on a warm, romantic island resort. Should I start planning? LOL
Although I love the thrill of meeting a new girl, what I really enjoy most is a special ongoing relationship with an atf that seems to deepen and get more meaningful over time. One that makes the sex even better. I've got that going on now, so I guess it's off my bucket list for now.
The fantasy I still have is taking a girl sailing for an extended all expenses paid (for her) vacation on my sailboat. I imagine a girl who loves the outdoors, loves the ocean, loves to go sailing or willing to learn, and of course, one who loves my company.
So much candor.
I have exhausted my bucket list. Done so many physical things in so many ways.
What I need now is to see the right girl a number of times for her to be comfortable with me. I no longer have to do everything. I have done everything. Now all I need is some strong, unfeigned physical attraction.
You're right. I've done everything I've ever wanted on the hobby bucket list. The real life bucket list still has a few things. And even though the hobby bucket list is seemingly complete, I always get pleasantly surprised by things I wouldn't have put on the list, but happen nonetheless for one crazy reason or another.
You'll laugh.. I have done a double.. sure.. but the girls weren't really into each other.. they pretended that they were.. I understand that it's not unusual for two providers to be into each other.. but when they do doubles with each other on a regular basis.. and they are only there because you scheduled it.. a certain something is lost.. fantasies.. always perfect !
I'm knocking that one off my "bucket list" in a couple of months during a stop on my 2015 "Suck Me, I'm 70" Tour. Date, time and place booked. And right afterwords I may be relegated to the "Kicked The Bucket" list.
Oh there will be more than sucking lol
Get your engine started 
Hugs and kisses
TL
I have had my bucket list items fulfilled from providers I have seen. From a Porn Star to a couple. I found my 10 and she is my ATF but I need to see others since I'm so attracted to her. I could see me taking her away on a extended weekend and that would be great until reality bites and it's just a hobbyist / provider relationshi
DP with 2 REAL cocks while another orchestrates the whole thing.
An orgy in a cabin in the mountains (we can really cut loose n have fun)
Sex on a secluded n totally private beach.
Hugs and kisses
TL
MFM is at the top of my list as well.
C'mon boys, don't be shy 
pondering this question, i realize that my answer today is vastly different than it would have been a year ago, or two years ago, so of course a year from now it may be different yet again.
for me, I'm finding the most satisfaction through a very regular relationship with my ATF -- a set weekly date plus out of town trips on a fairly regular basis. Rather than getting stale, our relationship is better than ever. I still sometimes see someone else (and tell my ATF), but it's just not the same. I understand the Harry Met Sally paradigm and have lived that, and for a goodly while had a ton of fun, but eventually I found that got stale much faster than time spent with the one lady.
Bucklist::: 1) Dinner and dancing and snuggling on a rooftop in a major city anywhere in the world with hot steamy love making sari draped posted bed.
2) Sailing trip with my ATF preferably in The Keys or the Caribbean locale...nude swimming in warm, deep water.
3) Sex in a treehouse
4) An adventure to the Maldives....
5) Having the one love that makes the whole world make sense and has hot sensual chemistry with me too...make him a smooth gentleman who spoils me...ahhhhhhhh
As to my preference, I agree the quantity- as I call it, tastings, does not have to equate to lack of quality. Sometimes that steamy and at times uncomfortable feeling leads to amazing exploration. But I have to say that I do feel that like aging, sex and chemistry tends to get better over time...the combustion of daydreaming about seeing each other again after some time away... knowing that we will once again touch each others skin lightly with finger tips that 'know' where to wander (sigh).
No need to let it get stale -I have several friends that I have seen for years now and it is never ever boring. certainly, after all these years of sexual exploring, all the folks on this board know how to add the caliente!!!! And yes, I guess if you don't find it, the best thing to do is move on or add on some spice somewhere else.
Happy Hobbying!!!
I would love to have a session with two busty mature women in their 40s or 50s who are totally in to each other. I've had doubles with younger providers but I just have a thing for more mature women. I'm in my early 50s and I just love the experience that mature providers bring to the table. This is definitely on my Las Vegas bucket list.
Saw a provider in 2012 that was the best at dirty talk synced with action. She made me feel like the best lover in the world! I have been with 20 providers since then, and no one comes close. I wish to have that experience at least one more time.
Second, a lactating provider......about a year after junior is born. Would love to sample some hot dairy.
Finally, a squirter.... for the obvious reasons