FYI, I'm 57 years old. So, I'm getting a head start on being on this board.
I got a note in my mailbox a couple of days ago. It was an invitation to the park swing club. The woman who wrote me the note suggested that they needed a younger male to add to the fun. Now, the background. I live in an over 55 year old RV community. I am pretty sure that I am the youngest, at least the youngest looking resident of several hundred residents. The majority are high sexagenarians, septuagenarians, octogenarians and some nonagenarians. A lot are snow birds, here between October and April. And there is a large mix of financial situations. There are some really high dollar (1/2 million) RV's here and some mid range also. Mine's a 2015 Montana 3610RL 5th wheel, so the trailer trash generalizations don't apply here. Just saying. I realize that a lot the mongers here are only attracted to younger ladies, which isn't my case. Since I've been in my 50's I've played with women from 28 to 63 and all the way in between. I haven't gone into older women than that..........yet. I guess, I'm just hoping for some input as to what you would do in my situation. Maybe, you can bring up some pros and cons that I haven't thought about yet. Happy Thanksgiving everyone.hookup or a P4P scenerio. Trust me, performance (staying power, ability for MSOG, etc.) gets more difficult as you get older. Yes, your tastes (at least mine has) will change somewhat as you get older.
Enjoy!
Who would have ever thought that at 57 you'd be the "young guy" lol
It is funny that when I was young I got my fair share of pussy, but only because I had a reasonable amount of game, not because women flocked to me, but as I get older I have found that amongst the "old broads:" (ie, anywhere even close to my own age) I am now considered "a catch" I only wish I were attracted to the women who were attracted to me, I'd probably never have to hire another hooker ever again, but alas I don't share your taste in women and the women I am attracted to need a bit more incentive than my charm and good looks to get them into the sack with me. lol
If I were in your situation and found any of these women attractive I'd go for it, but remember there are risks. It's very likely that women a lot older than 63 are going to try to jump your bones too, are you prepared to be chased around by a bunch of horny old broads in their 70's? Another thing to keep in mind is that unlike hookers, these women are your neighbors and you aren't "paying them to go away" so it's very possible that many of them won't "go away" of their own volition. I don't mean to piss on your parade, but these are some things you need to think about before becoming the neighborhood stud.
You get a part time job at the local old folks home wearing a T shirt saying : Will work for Pussy"
If things go to shit and you are unable to fight off the 70 year olds, you can always hook your pick-up to that 5th wheel and book.
Don’t shit in your own backyard.
before getting involved with a civie senior citizen swing session: some of the highest STI transmission rates are in the Villages in Florida. It's a massive over 55 community with a lot of randy resident. Civies don't get tested and, since there's no pregnancy risk, possibly do more uncovered activities. Be safe.
It does come down to not shitting where I eat and the STD transmission chances.
Right now I have a great no stress living situation. Every now and then, I have a provider show up. But, I mostly go to them. My neighbors are good people and watch my stuff while I'm away, which is a lot.
I'd hate to have some BSC woman start demanding or worse a jealous spouse create challenges here.
Thanks guys. Sometimes, when I discuss these situations with my local friends, I don't get very much practical talk. Either because of their embarrassment from inexperience or their own shame issues.
Older women tend to be more independent minded these days. They're not as marriage minded as their 30 year old peers. They been there, done that, and in many cases, don't care to do it again.
That's why I've been able to enjoy some NSA play with some friends. They aren't looking for the clingy boyfriend thing, just some fun with a friend. I wouldn't want to be involved in their life dramas and they truthfully, don't want mine.
It also helps that I make sure that they live far away, so that acceptance is added into the situation.
But, for every one that is looking for NSA fun, there are ten looking for much more, and I'm not doing that today. I'm having too much fun .