Early in my business career I was taught to understand the other person you are doing business with, their attitudes, how they view things from their POV.  Walking in their shoes.  Having that understanding helps shape the interaction to a more productive and personal level.

Transition......and I may get crap for posting.......

Being male and not gay, there are three questions I sometimes ask a provider and am now asking providers on this board. Questions I could/would never know the answer to on my own. *

1) What does a female orgasm feel like?  Can you put the feeling into words?

2) What is it like when a man cums in your mouth?  What is the feeling, the sensation?  (No need to ask about taste, plenty of that info on these boards).  If you had a choice, what would you ask your male partner to do during CIM that might make the moment more pleasurable?

3) What is the one place you want my fingers to touch during foreplay, during sex, after?  

So ladies, if you would not mind putting your two cents in, I for one would find the answers most enlightening and help me on my quest to be a better lover.  

 

 
*( At may age I should know the answers,  but I continue to be intrigued and learn from what the fairer sex has to say)

 
No, you absolutely should not know the answers nor should anyone presume to think they know.   Every woman is different.  From the descriptions I've heard from other women, even an orgasm feels different from person to person.

But (not that you asked) from my observations, an orgasm feels different from man to man too.  Sometimes it appears to be a mild, "Oh, yeah... that was good", with some men I really can't tell there's so little outward physical sign of it,  while others appear to almost be in pain at that moment with their entire bodies convulsing at that moment.  

For me personally, my orgasms are like snowflakes: no two are exactly the same.  Each one is a little bit different.  And I have orgasms from both vaginal and clitoral stimulation but I do not squirt; I'm also easily orgasmic (that's a real medical thing) and can "get there" from my neck being nibbled in just the right way.  Honest.

However, many women profess to reaching orgasm only from clitoral stimulus and some medical professionals claim that is the only way a woman can reach orgasm.

What does it feel like when a man comes in my mouth?   Well, again, each one is slightly different: some guys just dribble, others are shooting for distance; sometimes it feels lukewarm while other times it is almost scalding hot.  
But basically, if you really want to get an idea of the sensation, get a Jello Shot Syringe (don't know what that is? I included a link!) filled with Jello.... warm it up in the microwave just enough so that it is now a thick viscous liquid, and squirt that into your mouth.  How do I know this?  Well, it involves tailgating at a Jimmy Buffett concert on a very warm day.... and that's all I have to say about that.  

Where do I want you to touch?  Well, I like being touched all over but wherever you touch, I like it soft and gentle.  But not barely-touching-feels-like-cobwebs-touches. LOL.  
Please don't use your fingernails, and if you're "touching" me with your lips: NO TEETH!  

 
See?  We women are complicated.

I too hope to increase my understanding of women.  I've asked many ladies what their orgasm feels like but have not received any answers beyond "great" or some such.  They seem to vary so much between women.  Sometimes they are barely noticeable to me, and I have to ask if they have cum.  Others are seismic  events that take geologic eons to work up to and then have earthshaking results.

OMG.  What a great description.  Time to take a cold shower

Not really!... yes each woman is different!..but honey it sure feels good!
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at my age I have had a lot of orgasms and yet I would be hard-pressed to describe one. Written words don't exist that would allow another person to experience the physical and psychological sensations brought on by glorious fuck or blowjob..

I beg to differ.  I have done so as a form of mental foreplay with GF's on some select providers.  

I could share, but since this board is skewed toward males, my homophopia kicks in.  

I feel comfortable sharing with women, men, not so much.

don't beg 8o). I'm curious how you put into words a physical sensation. Tell me how you describe the feeling leading up to a sneeze,and the aftermath feeling.

I'm amazed at how much I continue to learn about my own body and responses. I dove into a practice called "orgasmic meditation". In this ritual, the woman disrobes from the waist down lays on her back and butterflies her legs open. The man pulls back the hood of the clit and in a very specific way strokes the clit for fifteen minutes. The practice is enlightening on both sides. The clit is a galaxy when explored in this very special way. The sensations are amazing... different than anything I've felt. The more you practice, the stranger, deeper and more intense it gets.

You can't fake it on your own, though. You have to get trained by someone who knows what they are doing. It is impossible for the woman receiving to give instruction. Must have a coach the first time.  

Kudos for continuing to ask and learn. Likewise, I continue to ask and learn. I took a one week intensive on Tantra and picked up some things you don't learn "on the street".

Link to YouTube video on subject...