Ladies -- I couldn't find this topic addressed in the last year or so backwards that I searched.
I don't think there's a single one of us who would not be interested in trying a session with a lady who uses a female condom. My question: When booking an appointment, how should we ask you if you would be willing to use one for our session? I think virtually all of us want to be polite and respectful but I can't figure out a way to ask other than to come right out with it. Most of us have been in the hobby long enough to believe that asking a question like this comes pretty close to crossing the line between what's acceptable and what's not acceptable when setting up an appointment. And, I don't want to break the mood to stop and ask you right in the middle of things getting really hot and passionate. Advice and guidance would be most appreciated!How about you buy a 3 pack from Amazon and bring it with you to the session? Considering they're not that cheap, at least compared to the usual fare, I am sure that would be appreciated.
Honestly, have you looked at them and how they are supposed to work? I tried them once because the lady wasn't too together and had no condoms at hand. After rummaging through her dresser drawers, she found a FC and asked if I minded using one of those. The inner ring has to be inserted like a diaphragm, and the big outer ring has to be held in position, at least for starters. The visuals and mechanics are negatives for me.
I don't think there's a single one of us who would not be interested in trying a session with a lady who uses a female condom. My question: When booking an appointment, how should we ask you if you would be willing to use one for our session? I think virtually all of us want to be polite and respectful but I can't figure out a way to ask other than to come right out with it. Most of us have been in the hobby long enough to believe that asking a question like this comes pretty close to crossing the line between what's acceptable and what's not acceptable when setting up an appointment. And, I don't want to break the mood to stop and ask you right in the middle of things getting really hot and passionate.
Advice and guidance would be most appreciated!
But most cocks are happy inside
That is a question that crosses the line.
You can bring some with you, but don't expect that she'll know how to use them. I tried that and it went nowhere.
The best is probably to check reviews and see if other guys got to use them.
Otherwise, wait until you meet and then ask about them for the future
passed the provider's screening, it would be OK to ask if the provider is FC friendly.
...female condoms. It's still a relatively new search criterion, so many profiles still say: "Don't Know." But you can do a search and find providers that you know definitely use FCs.
If providers use FCs, they should update their profiles to indicate it. It's good for business; given the choice of two otherwise equal providers, I will always choose the one that is FC-friendly.
I love FCs. They're the closest thing to bareback.
If I have screened a gentlemen I am very comfortable with answering some questions
I have stocked FCs for many years now
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I put it in my P411 profile and always ask the lady to review my "detailed profile" to make sure we are compatible.
Normally they will commit one of three ways.
-Love FC's,
-Never used one but I am game
-NO I do not/will not use FC
They make their choices and I make my choices
Normally they will commit one of three ways.
-Love FC's,
-Never used one but I am game
-NO I do not/will not use FC
They make their choices and I make my choices.
...you guys ask, i wonder how you made it to be over 60 years old! Crossing a line! What line? You're supposed to be in charge....it's your money. He who pays the fiddler calls the tune. Ever hear of it or did you have to ask your wife what it meant! What an embarrassment to the male gender!
If neither her p411 profile nor TER profile denote her FC friendliness, after passing her screening asking her about it is to me perfectly reasonable. If she disagrees and blows you out of the water even if she's met you lol, so be it. I'm not quite 60 yet thanks be and this is a perfect reminder of why......oh nvm to hell with it.
Amazing! Even on this board. And every provider is different on how they would react to the question, just look at the replies.
No criticism intended, but I think the following post you made says that maybe this isn't the best hobby for you?
And yes, I'm hiding behind my alias because I don't want to deal with you.
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It is true that P411 has it as a menu click...it is perfectful acceptable to show up with your own condoms too whether regualr or female. I would discuss it prior to getting hot and heavy...as for in advance, I get asked frequently. It is a bit presumptuous to assume that is how we will spend our time together before meeting the first time...if phrased generally, it does not bother me personally.