Lately I have seen an increase on providers requesting a ton of private information such as name, type of job age race work number, personal number etc. WTF y'all these hoes are scandalous. This cramp is unbelievable. This business is illegal and why would anyone expect a hobbyist to provide this kind of private information. I have not met one provider that goes by her real name.
value their lives and safety. When you research us, you can find a ton of reviews ...some that include very personal information. We also are a bit flexible when it comes to what we require you to provide, as long as you can reach our comfort level. If you have not written reviews, have not been whitelisted, have not been OK'd on P411, etc. How are we supposed to know if you are safe to be alone with, and reliable to show up as scheduled.
If you have a couple of old reviews, or some backpage only references, that still does not give a warm and fuzzy feeling.
Be a gentleman and jump through a few hoops with some well reviewed ladies, and you will find that many ladies will then require less personal information from you. Find some that are newbie friendly, are highly reviewed, etc. and take a chance. Or sign up for a verification site such as P411, and let them verify your employment, etc. then get a couple of decent OK's there.
Exactly - we need to work together to stay safe.
We do appreciate the sense of privacy and many of us do our best to accommodate that, but the info is only about being safe. Your safety and ours. Deep breathe and know that sexy is so much more when you have a baseline of safety.
to see those gals, but remember, there is one type of provider who is very unfussy about screening: LE.
Consider that ramification for a bit.
if you want to play the game..you have to follow the rules..
"Their Pussy-Their Rules" !
In today's tech environment much can be learned about anyone with very little information-so the risk is whatever the risk is to each individual.
There are so many weird dudes out here among all of us-gals too-that one must be as cautious as they can be without missing an opportunity.
We are likely never more vulnerable than when we are in a strange environment and nude ! (That works the same-escort or client).
So while we may not like it-it is what it is-just like checking in at the airport !
(By the way-some gal's do go by their real name)!!
I've been a rather low volume hobbyist for the past couple of years and now that Date Check is gone which I've used in the past for verification, I'm sure that I'll have to give out more info to new providers in the future. I also took an early retirement, so I'm also in the position where I can't be verified through work. However, providers have the right to ask for whatever information that would make them feel safe in our presence. I would also be scared to see any provider who don't verify their clients properly.
I know joining P411 is an option, but until I see a couple of new verifiable providers, P411 won't accept my application without providing a ridiculous amount of private info. You would be surprised at the list of documents that they asked for in lieu of not having more current provider references, as well as no work reference.
My weight and my race. I had ro wonder: was she going to charge by the pound or by the inch?o
I would expect this kind of post on the General Board, but not the 60 & over. Why do you refer to professional working women as hoes? I find you to be rude & am sure most would choose not to date you unless they need the $. I am glad I am able to pick, and choose because I do not entertain guys who disrespect women. How is caring about our safety scandalous? If I am the head of my household & responsible for the lives of those under my roof, than I think it is very important to know who I am sharing my time with because coming home to my children is a priority.
Here's an idea...when you get a vagina, then you can make your own rules. You may want to see providers who don't value their safety & stop criticizing those who do.
You're hookers not garden tools lol
Actually his language, although he mangles the English language, is rather tame.
and his point, while poorly stated is a valid one, one that has been discussed hundreds of time on virtually every TER board except perhaps the "humor board" lol I won't try to re-litigate this debate for the five hundredth time, but there is hardly a consensus over whether your POV or his is the correct one. It's hardly a black and white issue and BOTH sides have valid points.