Which really means that I find ladies who are over forty 😉 extremely hot.
Although I have reached down to younger ages on occasion, that no longer seems attractive to me. I wonder if there is something biological about the 20 year gap. Seems common enough, maybe the sweet spot?In fact, my top five favs are all over 40, one is nearly 50, two are over 50 and one is nearly 60. The biggest gap in age for us? 20 years almost to the day.
Hmmmm...
I've done from 18 to late 50's. I'm willing to do older but it's actually kind of hard to find providers after a certain age. Nevertheless, age just has never been a factor for me in attractiveness or performance.
Being 64 million years old (reference the handle), I tend to be attracted to women who are in the 35-45 year-old range. Still enough of an age difference to be "younger hotties" (relative to me) but know what they are about and love to have a great experience.
However, I maintain an open mind and a persuadable dick 
One of my faves and I were discussing other provider options for a 3some and we found a 21-year old tgirl who was enthusiastic about a 3some but had no reviews. The two of them talked for a couple of days and then set up our encounter. Best 3 hours I've had in quite a while!
Adding up the ages of both of them, I was still 8 years older -- so yes, I do see the attraction to a younger playmate from time to time. I think, for me, it's more about a fully mature woman who knows what she wants, knows how to get it and is a full partner in the experience that we're building together.
When I was new at the hobby and 50 yo I met with a 23 yo porn star . The sex was satisfactory but the conversation just left me cold. After that I have made it a rule not to see anyone under 30. As time passes, I find I am most attracted to those in their 40s and I am grateful to those who are past 50 and still have the drive.
I am 69 this year and especially enjoying the company of those born in 1969. To cap off the year I am waiting to play with lady who will turn 69 this year.
Of course any rule has to have exceptions. Over the years I have been attracted enough to make 3 exceptions. Two were quite fulfilling and made me forget my age and one was a BSC disaster.
As for the original 23yo, she is still around and has blossomed into quite an attractive MILF. I must revisit her some time.
Such a pleasure to have tasted the full spectrum of womanhood....
Even we I was younger, a more mature lady always turned me on. Same goes for men. I was 18 when I married a 38yo. Age is supposed to be just a number right? Lol
XOXO
TL
Some numbers are better than others. Say 69!!!!
And don't forget 88 lol it's better to be 8 then 8 again 😜😚☺
XOXO
TL
It’s a two way street fellas. I only see guys over 40. Truth be told I prefer 55+
I find it to be a completely different experience. It’s like you turn into gentlemen as you age.
Eden
I love older men, In my humble experience, there isn’t anything that makes me feel sexier than the touch of an older man. It sounds like a cliché, but the older men who I’ve had sex with really do know what they’re doing more than a man in their twenties.
Now that I'm not quite 60........ I'm still attracted to women from their late 30's and up into their early 60's. My favorite age now are women in their 40's . Physically and mentally.
I just don't seem to be able to be mentally attracted to most of the younger ladies. There always can be exceptions of course.
I must say, I truly believe I only get better with time. I am up early now about to run miles. There is no substitute for experience. Life is our greatest teacher.
You look great! You’re workouts have paid off. Keep it up.
A friend told me the European formula for choosing a women is one half your age plus 7 years. For me it would be a 41 year old.
I met a 52 yo this week that looked 10 years younger. She takes great care of herself no doubt.
In either case I find I appreciate and respect women in the business more as I get older.
I have sessioned a few times and give them as the respect I can.
... on the flip-side i'm a late 20-something (turn 28 in 2.5 wks) and I don't really get butterflies from anyone under 40.
My hottest age has always been mid to late 30's. That includes when I was 18 to now (mid 60-s). However, I do notice (thankfully) that I have an increasing attraction to 50 ish types. It maybe something to do with fertility (pre menopause)
not sure?
I'm 77 and I've seen women from 18 to 70. I do prefer older. My fave right now is 58. More in common with the older one's but a nice young hard 18 year old is kinda appealing once in awhile.
Oh yes!!!
So glad to find this section of TER! I am an 'Older Provider' and I am proud to be the age that I am!
I have a lot of life experience that makes me an ideal lady for guys to see! I know so much more now, about sex and life in general, that I did not know in my 20's, 30' and 40's! I have so many more tools in my toolbox now than I did at those stages of my life!
Book with me and I will share some of my secrets...
I have good news for over forty women... I'm still finding new and hot things to do. Just when you think you've seen it all, something new comes down the pike. AND no more periods! Both of these are a bonus to the gents who choose to play in my backyard.
Soft kisses,
Lily
As a 36 year old provider, I find that my experience comes in handy a lot more often than one might consider. I have great respect for other mature providers I have met, of all ages. They've also pretty consistently been the best threesome company... or foursome company. 
Of course there are exceptions to every case.
I’m proud to be aged to Perfection.
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Your post caught my attention. I named my introduction page on my website My Sweet Spot. ha!
There's something to be said about *maturity*.
I was just talking to a civilian lady, today. About a certain politician. And she commented on how sexy he got as he aged.
And she's correct. The older men get. The sexier they are. They exude a certain sex appeal.
We women. Well. We just age
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Which really means that I find ladies who are over forty 😉 extremely hot.
Although I have reached down to younger ages on occasion, that no longer seems attractive to me.
I wonder if there is something biological about the 20 year gap. Seems common enough, maybe the sweet spot?
And, while there were certain things I appreciated about my youth, I'm truly loving being older. I have a much greater knowledge and desire to allow my sexual side to truly enjoy the shared experiences and the depth of connection I now make with gents electrifies my desires.
Funny, we all feared aging, but instead are now embracing the freedom that comes with it.
Adoringly,
Sabine in Atlanta