This post follows up somewhat on the previous Thread about communication skills .
I've had a few dates with ladies who ACTUALLY READ my P-411 profile and accordingly accommodated me very well for a most enjoyable encounter.
Finally the light bulb came in my own brain and now when requesting a date I'm also requesting specifically that the lady read my profile there and let me know that she is on the same page with me about our date.
I can usually gauge from her reply just how concerned she really is about providing my desires and then decide whether or not to confirm the date.
I have a first date scheduled with a new local provider on Wednesday and she has responded very favorably so my hopes are high that this method will continue work to weed out the less desirable ones.
Happy hunting !
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...that my P-411 profile was MUCH more specific than that of other gentlemen friends she had met from that site...so communication works best when both parties are articulate in expressing themselves !
since yours is so detailed, lol.
Steph xoxo
I suppose they dothat because they are respectful and took the time to in detail let potential new friends know of their interests, desires, and aversions without having to inappropriately spell in out to her in private conversations prior to meeting. I love it...great tool to get prepared. Of course we are not robots and I suspect and expect that when the encounter ensues that there may be changes and development as the chemistry blossoms!
On a related note, I have actually only had one provider ever ask me anything about what I like and what she should wear. She turned into my ATF.
... when requesting a date through P411 but I don't go so far as to specifically request that the provider read it. I figure that's up to her. But almost everyone I book through P411 does open my profile--I know because I get an email when they do. What I don't know is whether they read it. 
It's not long, but I wrote it with the intent of giving providers a good idea what kind of person to expect when they open the door, so I hope they do read it before meeting me.
I was wondering this myself, since I took the time to fully fill out my P411 profile and even included the activities I enjoy, right off of their activity list the providers use.
The last provider I met with either did not read it or did not mention anything from it, so in the future I plan to specifically ask a provider to take some time to read it.
Providers, considering how busy you are, is that a reasonable request? Do you or would you read them if requested?
...I always suggest that the lady look at my profile. Some do & some don't & of course I know who did and didn't. I always read theirs.
I am totally surprised at how many ladies accept dates through P411'qithout opening my profile.
Even more puzzling is that they often do not between setting a time and the actual date/
Easy to check with tracking
I as a rule do not ask them to but did fill mine out.
I guess it's the submissive in me, but I like to know as much as possible about someone before a date. I like to know clothing preferences, lighting preference, even music preferences, so I can try to create the perfect atmosphere for the situation. I like to know activities enjoyed, whether or not to lay out my toys, any role play scenarios, etc. I often go back and check again just before the date to make sure I didn't miss anything.
In this world it is important to provide the perfect fantasy, even if just for an hour or so. Memorable experiences produce repeat clients and in some cases, lifelong friends! So-so experiences tend to get forgotten. I want to be memorable!
I love your response, Angie, and attention to detail. It's something special, not the norm, at least in my recent experiences. I know providers have busy schedules and outside cares to tend to, but your personality and attitude are just what I seek out.
I guess it's the submissive in me, but I like to know as much as possible about someone before a date. I like to know clothing preferences, lighting preference, even music preferences, so I can try to create the perfect atmosphere for the situation. I like to know activities enjoyed, whether or not to lay out my toys, any role play scenarios, etc. I often go back and check again just before the date to make sure I didn't miss anything.
In this world it is important to provide the perfect fantasy, even if just for an hour or so. Memorable experiences produce repeat clients and in some cases, lifelong friends! So-so experiences tend to get forgotten. I want to be memorable!
profiles have a good description on what the person is looking for.. that helps tremendously!
Before a book a playdate I read the gents reviews here on TER to see if we may have chemistry, but I always ask if he has any special request that I maybe able to accommodate prior to playtime. I deleted my P411 account years ago, but if I still had it I would always read the guys profile first.
Yes, the more research we do, the better it works out for everyone. The more we know about each other, the better the connection, the more memorable our time together and possibilities of long term friendship that goes beyond...
As you like it...Kaylie