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LeahJaymes 2307 reads
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I was wondering if anyone entertains the idea of having a sugar baby anymore. If so do you just expect sex? Extended dates (dinner, movies, etc). Why a sugar baby and not a by the hour provider?

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Posted By: LeahJaymes

I was wondering if anyone entertains the idea of having a sugar baby anymore. If so do you just expect sex? Extended dates (dinner, movies, etc). Why a sugar baby and not a by the hour provider?

I'm mostly loving the sugar bowl. But, it's very different than providers:

Pluses:

1. Sometimes almost no clock! I've had "dates" that were 7 hours for $350. Of that, at most 1 hour was spent having sex. The rest? Lunch. Wine. Long conversation. Then long naked conversation in the hotel room. Watching her do naked yoga and then her watching me struggle into crow pose for a few seconds. She cheered! Then really hot sex. Then more wine, a fond parting and plans for the next time. Escorts just can't/won't do this.
2. Many are very young. The youngest I've seen is 19, the oldest 25. I love these young women just discovering their sexuality.
3. When it works well, they LOVE older men (I'm almost 63). Politeness and respect and genuine desire to please a woman see to be a new thing for many of these young women. Just by not being an asshole you have a huge advantage.

Minuses:

1. VERY time intensive. Expect to chat with 10 women for everyone you meet, let alone go BCD.
2. Flakes and fakes. SBs aren't providers. They don't get reviews. Some of them will rip you off and/or drop you in a moment. NCNS is a very common problem.
3. The sex is mostly not escort sex. Good sex, sure, but don't expect CIM most of the time. One sorority girl I love won't even do doggie. At the other extreme, I've found one unicorn who just loves me, fucks me to death, does CIM and COF, and wants to go BBFS if we both bring test results, and she's a TER 9, like a petite Halle Berry.
4. It's not always long dates. Some can't wait to get the sex over with so they can leave. This is highly variable.
5. I've been stood up. At the hotel, had the room and never heard from them again.
6. I've been dropped. One good encounter and then blocked on SA. No clue as to why.
7. I finally had to block one who seemed to think that two encounters when she really needed money were an agreement to see each other almost weekly.
8. I don't really think it's much, if any, cheaper than TER providers. I have to get the hotel. There's usually dinner and drinks and I got go cheap on any of these things. It's like paid dating, so you have the dating costs, plus whatever "sugar" is agreed to.

It is a totally different world than TER providers, has it's own learning curve and is a very different thing. When it's good, it's like being back in college with a new girlfriend. When it's bad, it makes me appreciate TER providers a lot more :).

Thank you, this was exactly the kind of insight I was looking for.

OTC dates that you already know are going to be fun.  I used to go get my nails done, spa treatments, or just sunbathe with my SD.  We enjoyed hours together without the time crunch. If you have chemistry it is a great deal.

..of the Secret Arrangement.
 So much so that I devoted an entire page on my website to this indulgement.

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