I truly enjoy and honestly prefer older gentleman but am always in a bit of a quandary...I find myself trying not to scream out OH FUCK when the orgasms start washing over me or yell fuck even louder when someone hits the squirt button.
I tend to try and curb my swearing and dirty talk when with an older gentleman not knowing what dirty talk might be offensive or arousing. So here's my question: Do older gentleman like dirty talk? If so...uninhibited dirty talk? What is arousing, natural and fun versus offensive and unladylike?But like anything, it has to be done well and be convincing.
Some gals' dirty talk is a turn off.
If it comes off as real go for it
If you are screaming "O God" before my tongue finds your clit it is a complete let's downer.
I will have to say that many of the mature providers do not need to ask the question they have the answer/
Right Ginger T. as one of them.
Touche..... it was an early morning: Wonder what the majority says kind of question. As a mature provider...I make no assumptions. 
I'm asking about genuine dirty talk! In the heat of the moment..... it's a general question.... what is a turn on? Definite turn off? It's a general poll since every session is unique and hot in it's very own way.
For example...as a woman and provider... the work C&#T is not offensive to me but I do know this is a term not everyone is comfortable with.
I generally love dirty talk. For me, the word cunt is a major turn on. I find most women reluctant to use it and prefer to say pussy. So I encourage the use of my favorite word by setting a good example and always calling her pussy her cunt. If she does not pick up on the hint and reply in kind I figure she's offended and I go back to pussy. But if she picks up on my verbiage and gets on board with it, with a twinkle in her eye, I know I've found a keeper!
Amazing what you learn here. I never thought of what you all just described as "dirty talk". I thought exclamations of heat and passion were just that. I thought dirty talk was more complicated... stories or a running commentary on the action at hand ("spread that tight pussy open with your big, hard cock").
Dirty talk is a huge turn on for me, especially when expressed while enjoying genuine pleasure. Fuck has always been my favorite word.
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Will go with the others here - when done in the heat of the moment, I love it. To me, it's feedback that I'm doing something right. Dirty talk for the sake of talking dirty is a turn off.
...is good with me, as long as she means it.
When we're in the thick of it and she's telling me "Yeah, baby, right there" or repeating "Oh fuck! Oh fuck! Oh fuck!" -- well, I love the feedback. It tells me I've hit the right spot, the right tempo, the correct angle and we're firing on all cylinders.
The hotter and faster, the better -- cuz I'm usually right there with her.
The thing is, every lady is so different, I don't know what I like. Your true self is the best surprise.
I once met a lady who was multi orgasmic. Only her orgasms weren't moans, groans, and 'oh yeah babies'. She literally growled like a wild animal when she was cumming. Once she started growling, her inhibitions would completely let loose, and she'd say some of the nastiest things I've ever heard. Never known another woman like her. I saw her many times.
Another lady I used to see didn't growl when cumming, she giggled. Again, she was the only one I've ever known. Once she started giggling, you never knew what she was going to say or do. You can't believe how that genuineness turned me on. Then one day we were banging like bunnies, and for the first time ever, she slapped my ass hard. I'm not one who loves pain, but wow, did I like that surprise.
One last story out of a million. One time, not too long ago, a lady said one of the most genuine things I've ever heard after coming down from her orgasm. All I can say is that her orgasm must have been good. Believe it or not, I consider it the dirtiest thing an escort has ever said to me. What she said was, "I love you". Of course she didn't mean let's stop hobbying, and get married. What she was giving me was the best compliment I've ever received from an escort.
The best thing you can do is be your genuine self. That's the biggest turn on. If you're genuinely screaming 'Holy Fuck', and then you start to scream louder, I'm 100% sure I'd like you. Hell, I'd love you!!
... with a mature provider. She was... LOUD. And would have done any sailor proud with her use of language. She even apologized afterwards. But it all seemed genuine so I loved it. She was just being herself. I love it when a provider feels comfortable enough to show me insights to her true self, and not some fake p4p persona.
I once met a lady who was multi orgasmic. Only her orgasms weren't moans, groans, and 'oh yeah babies'. She literally growled like a wild animal when she was cumming. Once she started growling, her inhibitions would completely let loose, and she'd say some of the nastiest things I've ever heard. Never known another woman like her. I saw her many times.
That is the hottest thing I've read on here in a long time.
Another lady I used to see didn't growl when cumming, she giggled. Again, she was the only one I've ever known. Once she started giggling, you never knew what she was going to say or do. You can't believe how that genuineness turned me on. Then one day we were banging like bunnies, and for the first time ever, she slapped my ass hard. I'm not one who loves pain, but wow, did I like that surprise.
I was at an Intro to Tantra workshop where the teacher taught the women to laugh during an orgasm. At first it seemed silly. Then I realized that I had been holding back a giggle during orgasm. Not every time. Just once in a while, I had the inclination to laugh because I was having fun.
and I have to say, all these reactions sound so much fun! Good for you!
during the heat of passion, exclaim multiple "Oh God" or "Oh fuck". Yes, it helps the mental part of P4P letting me know I must be doing something right.
Fuck yes, it does it for us!
As almost everybody has said--if it's real, cut loose, I love it.
I love to hear "fuck" from a woman I'm fucking. We just showered together, we're not dirty, pussy juice is not dirty, precum is not dirty, and "fuck" (or especially "Fuck!") is not a dirty word. Context rules.
I don't want to hear about filth. Don't talk about shit or piss. Don't talk about blood and gore.
Talk about the sex we're enjoying. Or yell about it.
Do talk about your feelings, about how the sex is feeling to you, what you like ("yes, lick my clit") what you want adjusted ("fuck me harder" or "don't spank quite that hard"), and encourage me.
Those are not dirty!
My parents' generation though sex was dirty. I have discovered otherwise, and I don't want that repression around me.
Terrific response! One of my golden rules is to "say what I mean and mean what I say!" I've had several occasions where I called someone sexy. Their automatic response is: "You say that to everyone." The reality is no...I will find something nice to say but I won't call someone sexy if I haven't found them to be sexy.
I think repression runs rampant still...glad you broke out of that AND are willing to say so! THANKS!
Keep it genuine...agreed. I really do not go out of my way to butter someone up falsely. The fact of the matter is that mature ladies have been alive long enough to know how to connect with another person casually and sexually IF she is open to to that. Ladies like us truly get into meeting different kinds of gents and people. We are curious by nature...I honestly have found many men like this as well. Everyone is looking to expand those horizens. Stretch their limits. Love it!
As for dirty talk, I agree that I sometimes hold back with older gents until I know if they like it or not. It has its place for sure...but also like the soft sounds of wetness, slurping, the soundof breathing and moans.
Some genuine sexy dirty talk from you would be great!
I tend to try and curb my swearing and dirty talk when with an older gentleman not knowing what dirty talk might be offensive or arousing. So here's my question:
Do older gentleman like dirty talk? If so...uninhibited dirty talk? What is arousing, natural and fun versus offensive and unladylike?
Why not ask at the beginning of a session if the gentleman likes dirty talk. As far as I'm concerned, I enjoy an exchange of dirty talk between myself and the escort.
I loved if done right as everyone says, but biggest problem is finding someone that to do it . when asked they are surprised and have a dumbfounded look and dont know what to say, so we skip it.
I love genuine dirty talk, but more in the moment as an expression of feeling. As an example;
"Don't stop" "Lick a littler softer/harder" "slap my ass" "I want your cum on/in......" that sort of thing. Everyone is different and I am more than willing to adjust my game.
One thing I like to do is ask a provider what how she feels when she makes a man cum. I do this to get the dirty talk flowing. If I know in advance it is CIM, I ask in that context. I have gotten some a few clinical answers, "cause I know men like CIM" "I don't think when a man cums, he cares where it goes".....to; "I love the taste of cum (ok, that one maybe boiler plate) to the one answer I loved the best, "I love the power I have over a man when I am sucking his cock. When I feel the pulse of his cum shooting in my mouth, I know I have complete domination". No shit, a provider said that to me. Hot as hell.
Even better...adding some tantric...taking you to the edge, building an intensity......and having you trying to catch your wits about you while having the last droplets gently licked away..... that is an incredibly powerful, amazing, erotic feeling!
Yeah nothing wrong with
Dirty talk or what we perceive as “dirty talk”
Not that I would object but it would just be really odd if in the heat of the moment a lady were to exclaim “intercourse me harder” or don’t stop fornicating me”
So yeah “Let’s fuck”
Thank you
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I don't think any of those words have cum to my mind let alone across my lips in the heat of the moment!
Too funny!
I enjoy provocative speech during the throes of passion. Turns me the fuck one.
... let's just say… Your neighbors will know your name. ha!
... I agree with your philosophy.
I need a comfort level with a client to engage in dirty talk as I have same concerns. Is he going to like it or is swearing, even in heat of passion, a turn off?
That said, one persons idea of dirty talk to another varies. Some of us like a few spicy words as a turn on. I do at times. Others like a running dialogue. If a client likes the running dialogue and cues me for it, I will follow his lead. However, I find running dialogue distracting to my own enjoyment. That said, the sessions arent about me. BUT, if he really and genuinely wishes to please me as well, the focus is on the actions, not the words, for me. Im quiet when I cum. Not because I choose to be, but because I simply am and its no less intense than if I were to vocalize.