Sorry this happened to you, but 'she' probably knew more about you than you about her, so 'she' went to work on you. The first time 'she' asked you to pay thru WU, should have been a red flag, very hard to trace. The rule about not speaking directly to yoou on the phone should have been another warning sign. Many providers WANT to speak to you on the phone.
What previous posters have said about your money is true, you can kiss it goodbye, and you will never see the 'lady' you were communicating with. You have only 2 reviews, and while you should have VIP membership, you don't have the experience yet to TOFTT. You have to learn how to do the research on a provider, just as she screens you, before approaching her for a date.
What should you do now? Learn from your mistake is about all you can do. Unfortunately, since no session was had, you can not do a review. You can should repeat this post on your regional board to warn others. Also, read the self help center for starters, and only see well-reviewed providers who have reviews from established reviewers. As I read your post, each time you said she asked for more money, I cringed. A classic scam move, keep asking for more, and hope the 'mark', that is you in this case, keeps sending it.
At this point I can only wish you good luck in the future. If you have any questions, feel free to PM me while you have VIP.
Swim
Hi. to all who can help me figure out what I have been going through
Last week I saw a beautiful woman's ad. I send her e-mail and we start our Commuincation through e-mail
First email she asked me to go over her rate and rules. the rule is to pay 50% down payment through western union and money gram as screening process.
So I did pay her through western union $200. after that she asked me for help very nicely to book more hours for her so that she can pay her rent. so at the end I wire her total $960 for overnight rate
After she got all the money, she said her landlord asked her to pay 3 months rent in advance, at this time, i did not help her out, i started to feel uncomfortable.
and now she is saying that she is going to WA to get her pass away father' money from bank that she recently found out, and ask me for more money so she can travel to WA.
at this point, we never speak on the phone,( her rules ) we had went over 35 emails already.
So what should i do now?
The web that i used, at the bottom says they are verified!!
I dont want to put her ads out, but she is one of ads..
the rate was $300/h
overnight 800/h
Can you send some money to me so I can see my ATF?
Look man I am sorry. This is the newbie board and we are supposed to be nice here, but reading your post just makes me say, "WHAT the fuck were you thinking??"
Kiss that money good bye. You will never see her or that money again.
Use your VIP (I know you have it since you have two reviews posted in April) and learn to do your research here. Use TER for what it is supposed to be used for, instead of as a place to come cry for help after you messed up.
See only well reviewed ladies!!
Never send a deposit!!
Think with your big head!!
Don't fall for scams!!
Read back on this board, and read the self help manual (under the life preserver at the top of this page)
Internet transaction rule 101.
Sorry you were victimized but you should have realized right off the bat when she asked for Western Union. It is basic street knowledge.
Sorry this happened to you, but 'she' probably knew more about you than you about her, so 'she' went to work on you. The first time 'she' asked you to pay thru WU, should have been a red flag, very hard to trace. The rule about not speaking directly to yoou on the phone should have been another warning sign. Many providers WANT to speak to you on the phone.
What previous posters have said about your money is true, you can kiss it goodbye, and you will never see the 'lady' you were communicating with. You have only 2 reviews, and while you should have VIP membership, you don't have the experience yet to TOFTT. You have to learn how to do the research on a provider, just as she screens you, before approaching her for a date.
What should you do now? Learn from your mistake is about all you can do. Unfortunately, since no session was had, you can not do a review. You can should repeat this post on your regional board to warn others. Also, read the self help center for starters, and only see well-reviewed providers who have reviews from established reviewers. As I read your post, each time you said she asked for more money, I cringed. A classic scam move, keep asking for more, and hope the 'mark', that is you in this case, keeps sending it.
At this point I can only wish you good luck in the future. If you have any questions, feel free to PM me while you have VIP.
Swim
Go to your regional board,top 100 reviewers,look at top 10 guys and spend like 20 minutes reading there latest reviews.Pick out a few ladies and pm those hobbyist and get background info(no need to go into your latest mind fart).Most top guys be happy to help and believe me most do not put up exaggerated reviews.
I hook up guys daily in atlanta and enjoy helping both members and ladies.
Sorry, but that paid escort ripped you off. Never let your little head out-think your big head.
Last week I saw a beautiful woman's ad. I send her e-mail and we start our Commuincation through e-mail
First email she asked me to go over her rate and rules. the rule is to pay 50% down payment through western union and money gram as screening process.
So I did pay her through western union $200. after that she asked me for help very nicely to book more hours for her so that she can pay her rent. so at the end I wire her total $960 for overnight rate
After she got all the money, she said her landlord asked her to pay 3 months rent in advance, at this time, i did not help her out, i started to feel uncomfortable.
and now she is saying that she is going to WA to get her pass away father' money from bank that she recently found out, and ask me for more money so she can travel to WA.
at this point, we never speak on the phone,( her rules ) we had went over 35 emails already.
So what should i do now?
The web that i used, at the bottom says they are verified!!
I dont want to put her ads out, but she is one of ads..
the rate was $300/h
overnight 800/h
my name would be all over the damn place! Dude...that was D U M B! NEVER wire money to anyone unless you know who they are..period! The ONLY time I ever get money upfront is if a guy is having me travel to him or for dates more than 4 hours as a deposit. Have never cancelled on one of those guys and I have a 4 year review history of being upfront about everything. Still, even the good ones can turn bad so watch your back.
99 times out off 100... you both show up, you put the donation in plain view... proceed from there. The only RARE exception is where somebody richer than me flys in a gal he can't live without... she would likely require enough to cover her travel expenses in advance. Such situations ussually involve person who have met previously... often more than once... If experienced hobbiests break these rules on occasion... they know the risks they are taking...
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But how may I going to find a decent lady in my area.
I don't want to see someone from backpage