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Naomi_Sweets See my TER Reviews 392 reads
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and you lose control over where its posted.

You piss off a provider and you might find that same pic on sites that you never had any intention of visiting.

dkelly22361644 reads

What are people's feelings about putting a pic up on a verification site (p411 allows you to do this)? I had a provider tell me it could be dangerous for a hobbyist to put a pic up and she's only seen one guy do it. I certainly can understand why but I'm wondering if other hobbyists put their pic up and not worry about it? Do providers prefer or like seeing a pic of a hobbyist in their profile? What are your thoughts?

..maybe 3-4 had a picture on their profile.
Funny thing....try ALL used a pic from 30 years back....wtf..lol
It's nice to know who'll ill see on the other side of the door but the 30 year old pic is too funny.!

and you lose control over where its posted.

You piss off a provider and you might find that same pic on sites that you never had any intention of visiting.

dkelly2236442 reads

Can't the same be said about Facebook? I do realize though we are in an area that discretion is very valuable.

the same can be said about facebook, but you shouldn't be giving a provider your facebook info.

I think everyone should keep their personal RL info seperate from their Hobby/escorting persona myself.

I dont think a guy should post his pic on a verification site nor do I think he should send a pic to a provider as part of her screening process.  If thats what she needs to give you an "OK", you might reconsider how much you want to see her.

Some are married and were employees, some were single and owned their own business.  
I guess it's just up to the comfort level of the individual.  

that they put their pictures on the p411 profile. I think it is a personal decision, to your own comfort level. Kind of the same as providers showing their faces in their pics or not. Personally, I am single and self employed, so have a lot less to lose than some other hobbyists, however, I still would never put my pic up on any hobby site, or send my pic to a provider for verification.

swimtrekr300 reads

Yes, I did post a pic on p411.  I'm single, retired, and have little to lose if someone I know happens to see it.  I realize everyone is not in my situation, so it's not always a good idea to do as I have done.  It's a personal choice.

Swim

dkelly2236208 reads

I had a provider I saw recently give me an interesting response to this question....

She preferred that there be no pic on your verification profile because the ones she's seen are so outdated (as previously mentioned), but primarily she really enjoys the excitement and anticipation of seeing who is on the other side of the door she knocks on.  So you girls really do get butterflies when doing this! :-)

JT1902167 reads

You're basically a phantom.  Meaning you're single, don't answer to anyone at your job, and have little connection to your extended family or friends.  That picture can be used for any purpose by anyone out there...

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