You said you "stayed this whole year with the same one", but you have 2 reviews in May and 1 in June.
You find your ATF.............do most of you stay EXCLUSIVE with her or continue to drift around still looking. I stayed this whole year with the same one, just wondering if I am strange or y'all do the same..............
You said you "stayed this whole year with the same one", but you have 2 reviews in May and 1 in June.
I did for a whole year then I moved two months ago 2500 miles and am starting over........its a bummer because it was so good for the last year, knowing what you have found. Was just wondering!!!!!!!!!!!
I saw a few ladies after meeting my ATF but found I was happier just seeing my ATF. After several months of seeing my ATF exclusively I got the feeling she was taking me for granted
(much like a SO does) so I started to "play the field" again.
I still consider my ATF my ATF. However; I now have several other Favorites that I keep in rotation.
FYI- When your ATF becomes as critical of you as your Ex-wife it is time to re-evaluate your situation.
LTT.
I'm the only hobbyist she sees. Or she agrees to see me free.
Sheesh! Let's get real...as strong as I may feel about a provider, the fundamental transaction remains the same: it's sex for money. It's a hobby. It's a fantasy.
The ideal solution: bring her along.
So gents, here's a related question: Have you encountered provider jealousy? Protests that you've seen someone else? What do you think of them?
Of course its a fantasy Turk, but what I found is everytime I go search out another one, I then get frustrated because she wasn't like the ATF. So the fact remains, why not stay with the ATF until, like in my case, I had to move to the west coast. Stay with the fav and you are never dissapointed.......
take out the second mortgage and buy her an annuity? I don't mean to sound flip, but if it's for real, then why not move into reality?
I've never had a lady say or do anything to my face about it, but there was one lady i was seeing semi regular for awhile who just happen to never be around to answer an email or a phone call if i needed a reference.
Needless to say, getting in touch with her at any other time was always easy and painless.
Don't see her anymore.
Yes I have Turk'. Unfortunately it was based on money spent on the other provider(s) and not a case of jealousy born of genuine affection.
Sadly again life dictates my mantra..
"It's All About The Money"
Cm.
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For the city she is in, I only see my ATF because she is the only one I am interested in seeing there.
When I am other places I see other Ladies.
You need to spread it around so that you are not "falling" for these gals... no provider is worth a year of my duckets unless she is some sort of Phenom and I think we are almost out of miracles. If she is your ATF it's likely that you are getting played (YRGP).