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i2 2723 reads
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"The modern American or European woman is just as likely to cheat on her husband as he is to cheat on her."
Great article, and very believable. Thanks

i24675 reads

how would feel if you discovered that your SO or wife was seeking sex outside of your relationship?

WHile we all know that women seek sex outside relationships, marriage, etc., I think (or naive little boy that I am) that this happens with MUCH lower frequency and then, it is usually tangled with love and not just SEX.  But then again, I could be soooooooo wrong.

somebody's wife is having a relationship outside of marriage.  Maybe people here who are trained in psychology and have studied relationships between men and women can explain some of the reasons why women cheat.
    I am single, but speaking of how I would feel if I had a wife and she cheated.  I would probaly feel badly initially, but probaly would become more understanding, especially if I was cheating also, if I was not cheating then understanding would come much harder.

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there are an awful lot of guys who cheat regularly, through the hobby or otherwise, who would file for divorce the first time wifey stepped outside.  They'd probably be emotionally crushed, their egos shattered, and treat us to yet another 'that goddamn bitch' post.

Who said the double standard was dead?

Something to fuel the jealousy engine. Mmmmmmmmmm

As I am sure Sedona would approve. i would suggest she make sure she is tested regularly.

The absolute truth is that most women who suspect that their SOs are tipping out, have there coffee on the side too... If you live in the most civilized places and whether the burbs or the city, you see clandestine meetings in mall parking lots all the time. Many of these SOs are having same sex relationships, what people now refer to as the "down-low"... If you hobbyists think your wives and SOs are not finding relief in one of these forms, then me thinks you might be sucking on the pipe; the glass dick you hear referenced in the movies. At 37, I have had more married "strange" that I care to admit. The thing I like about it most is that it is very often very satisfying "grudge" pussy,aand she uses your credit card to pay for lunch. Wake up and smell the coffee guys. While yours may be eating bon-bons and watching the soaps, Cindy is getting drilled by me or having her salad tossed by Mary.

i22724 reads

"The modern American or European woman is just as likely to cheat on her husband as he is to cheat on her."
Great article, and very believable. Thanks

TheStudentOfLife2421 reads

1) To get revenge on their SO's because of unresolved anger.
2) Emotional immaturity causes them to over-romanticize the idea of having an affair.

I would agree with number two with only one of the married ladies I have "played" with. The other two had no romantic ideals, just wanted to explore thier sexuality.

I think that you may be over generalizing a wee bit.

that she still has some sexuality left, third stage--perverse desire to turn this to my advantage, fourth stage--take a nap and then have a sandwich (all this emotion makes me tired and hungry), fifth stage--resentment (finally) because that explains why I haven't gotten any for months, sixth stage--confusion as in should I fess up (no way!), final stage--signing the divorce papers so we can each start over since we've proven ourselves incompatible.

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