I do take a gift, some candles.  Never had a girl complain about that.  Indie girls, as you said, do get to keep the entire donation, whereas agency girls do not.  If you see an agency girl who really knocks your socks off, I'm sure she would appreciate a tip, they all would, but as pretty much all of them would say, it's nice to get tipped, but not expected or required.

Swim