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and correct me if I misunderstood

This new way of reviewing sounds like it puts pressure on the lady to do acts she is not comfortable with doing. For example...in order to get higher rankings, a lady may do anal even though she doesn't like it  or can do it comfortably.

Why this is bad...Doing a sex act that is physically (or mentally) painful can scar a person for life. I'm not over exaggerating here. A torn sphincter muscle can cause big time problems later down the road. And the metal anguish of letting someone do something to you...or you to them....that you are not cool with....creates resentments and a bad attitude. It also could chase good ladies away from the hobby.

I'm not liking this new format. Hobby boards should keep everyone safe. That includes the ladies. Pressuring providers to do things they don't enjoy doing is going to make the hobby strictly a job for them, not a fun encounter. In the end, everyone will suffer. Who wants to be with a lady who doesn't want to be there? who isn't having a good time?
Posted By: MatureGFE
Basically if you don't do anal or don't see a couple or do a threesome on a date with a gentleman where he is reviewing said lady he is not eligible for giving the highest score on performance regardless of how the gentleman feels about his date with the lady. So basically even if a guy isn't into anal at all, or isn't bringing another civvie lady to the date, or isn't doing a duo with two ladies in the biz TER will not let the guy give the lady he is reviewing a 10 even if he wants to. Reviews are now being sent back to the reviewer so he has to lower is score or...um choose not to redo it. And IMO this also will lead to um, some guys embellishing his review to give the score he wants. So while some may think this will do away with what they think are inflated reviews, this move can, and will in some cases backfire and cause more reviewer fraud. And TER is now basically dictating to the guys what has to happen in a date with a lady to get the top score. TER likes reviews but I know of some guys who have already said  that now the review system is more of a PITA than before and hey will opt out of reviewing which is a shame. Then there's the mostly unexplained Chemistry that somehow adds to a lady's chance of scoring another point. I know there is a 5 point system for "Chemistry" but I have zero idea how TER applies it to reviews and giving a lady a chance for an extra point on her review.  
   
 But bottom line this is TER's site and I doubt they will make any changes to the new site or the new review rules they have in place now. And I still I'm a fan of TER in general as no other review site comes close to TER traffic wise ImO.  
   
 And the newest version gives me a headache, lol.  
   
 Steph xoxo

-- Modified on 2/11/2017 8:22:24 AM

Is anyone getting this ad for the New Deal? Does that mean another complete change like from Original TER to now? Sigh! I just got use to what I have now:(,,,,,,,

The looks of the site are going to be changed. I am not completely sure about any navigational changes.TERadmin had a post on the Reviewers board awhile back where you could kinda take it for a test drive and let them know what you thought of the "new look"..I personally like the site the way it is.

Basically if you don't do anal or don't see a couple or do a threesome on a date with a gentleman where he is reviewing said lady he is not eligible for giving the highest score on performance regardless of how the gentleman feels about his date with the lady. So basically even if a guy isn't into anal at all, or isn't bringing another civvie lady to the date, or isn't doing a duo with two ladies in the biz TER will not let the guy give the lady he is reviewing a 10 even if he wants to. Reviews are now being sent back to the reviewer so he has to lower is score or...um choose not to redo it. And IMO this also will lead to um, some guys embellishing his review to give the score he wants. So while some may think this will do away with what they think are inflated reviews, this move can, and will in some cases backfire and cause more reviewer fraud. And TER is now basically dictating to the guys what has to happen in a date with a lady to get the top score. TER likes reviews but I know of some guys who have already said  that now the review system is more of a PITA than before and hey will opt out of reviewing which is a shame. Then there's the mostly unexplained Chemistry that somehow adds to a lady's chance of scoring another point. I know there is a 5 point system for "Chemistry" but I have zero idea how TER applies it to reviews and giving a lady a chance for an extra point on her review.

But bottom line this is TER's site and I doubt they will make any changes to the new site or the new review rules they have in place now. And I still I'm a fan of TER in general as no other review site comes close to TER traffic wise ImO.

And the newest version gives me a headache, lol.

Steph xoxo

-- Modified on 2/11/2017 8:22:24 AM

Like the performance score it would likely rely heavily on appearance (just a trend I've seen).  A performance score should be just that...Some don't care for Greek or threesomes or even DFK and it could give the perception that a provider doesn't provide good service.

and correct me if I misunderstood

This new way of reviewing sounds like it puts pressure on the lady to do acts she is not comfortable with doing. For example...in order to get higher rankings, a lady may do anal even though she doesn't like it  or can do it comfortably.

Why this is bad...Doing a sex act that is physically (or mentally) painful can scar a person for life. I'm not over exaggerating here. A torn sphincter muscle can cause big time problems later down the road. And the metal anguish of letting someone do something to you...or you to them....that you are not cool with....creates resentments and a bad attitude. It also could chase good ladies away from the hobby.

I'm not liking this new format. Hobby boards should keep everyone safe. That includes the ladies. Pressuring providers to do things they don't enjoy doing is going to make the hobby strictly a job for them, not a fun encounter. In the end, everyone will suffer. Who wants to be with a lady who doesn't want to be there? who isn't having a good time?

Posted By: MatureGFE
Basically if you don't do anal or don't see a couple or do a threesome on a date with a gentleman where he is reviewing said lady he is not eligible for giving the highest score on performance regardless of how the gentleman feels about his date with the lady. So basically even if a guy isn't into anal at all, or isn't bringing another civvie lady to the date, or isn't doing a duo with two ladies in the biz TER will not let the guy give the lady he is reviewing a 10 even if he wants to. Reviews are now being sent back to the reviewer so he has to lower is score or...um choose not to redo it. And IMO this also will lead to um, some guys embellishing his review to give the score he wants. So while some may think this will do away with what they think are inflated reviews, this move can, and will in some cases backfire and cause more reviewer fraud. And TER is now basically dictating to the guys what has to happen in a date with a lady to get the top score. TER likes reviews but I know of some guys who have already said  that now the review system is more of a PITA than before and hey will opt out of reviewing which is a shame. Then there's the mostly unexplained Chemistry that somehow adds to a lady's chance of scoring another point. I know there is a 5 point system for "Chemistry" but I have zero idea how TER applies it to reviews and giving a lady a chance for an extra point on her review.  
   
 But bottom line this is TER's site and I doubt they will make any changes to the new site or the new review rules they have in place now. And I still I'm a fan of TER in general as no other review site comes close to TER traffic wise ImO.  
   
 And the newest version gives me a headache, lol.  
   
 Steph xoxo

-- Modified on 2/11/2017 8:22:24 AM

I have not studied the new rules but based on what you and others are saying I probably will not write many more unless they are bad or for under reviewed ladies. I do not think it is fair to not have some type of flag that is always visible an all pages showing where the rules went into place. The rooster in me wants to crow about the lady I saw this week but an honest review from me will start lowering her overall scores. I had a fabulous time but I do not offer Greek and did not want to share. The way it is explained is going to cause a shift in thinking on both sides and I think it best to not participate until the dust settles. (Saving up for my birthday)

JoeInRTP341 reads

I think they're shooting for a little cleaner, more modern look. I'm posting from the beta site, and it looks really nice.

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