Yeah, I would definitely want to know. Although that would really complicate matters. My provider list is already too long and to have someone say they'd be interested in meeting would just make that list longer. But damn that's pretty intriguing.
Mara you're already on my "to do" list so....wait that doesn't sound right. Well you know what I mean.
What I am wondering is.......as I look and read these boards there is hobbyist which I feel I would like to meet and that we could click together. I was just wondering if other providers have this same desire. I would never approach or send a message to someone who has not contacted me first. However as I get to know some of the hobbyist through their responses,comments, and review styles their is some I would love to spend quality time with. I was wondering if anyone else felt this way???? A question for the hobbyist........would you want to know if a providers wants to spend time with you??? Kisses & Licks........ Mara
Life is too short to be shy about wanting to meet someone. If a particular person strikes you as interesting, whether it be intellectually or physically you should definitely speak your mind. Personally, I would find it quite flattering even if the interest wasn't mutual. It's actually happened once to me and it just made my day. Unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to act on it but without a doubt, I will at some point.
If a gentleman is a member of this board and you can email him thru it I don't see any reason why you shouldn't. I don't see it as being any different then us emailing you for the first time. So I say, go for it....
I would think any gentleman would be flattered to hear from you. Certainly emailing on this board would be appropriate as well as discreet. I think I am jealous of the man you are thinking of.
Yeah, I would definitely want to know. Although that would really complicate matters. My provider list is already too long and to have someone say they'd be interested in meeting would just make that list longer. But damn that's pretty intriguing.
Mara you're already on my "to do" list so....wait that doesn't sound right. Well you know what I mean.
go for it! you could always invite them out for coffee.
There are not enough provider-hobbyist opportunities to get together, which is why I really like the biweekly san diego chat. It's not face to face, but as good as we're going to get, it seems.
If a lady wanted to meet me and sent me an email, I would definately consider meeting her, for coffee, or whatnot else.
In Vegas and Atlanta, clients and ladies get together for social events a few times a year. Casual party, usually at a public place, but the location is only revealed to those who'll be attending. So it does take some trust, common sense and tight lips, but it can be done.
Frankly, I'd be amazed to see anything like this ever take flight in this town, but hey, you never know. MfSD.
Well, I'd love this! Like the Moulin Rouge party they had in Seattle last month! From what I could see on the website, it was quite an event! Don't know if we could pull it off in SD though..
It takes a base level of trust among the clients and ladies to make something like this happen. I've had a few private parties of my own in Vegas, and have been to the one public socials in Vegas.
It can be fun and enlightening to exchange stories about the biz......some of the things the ladies were saying about some of their worst/funniest/stinkiest,etc. clients ,(no names of course) were absolutely hilarious. MfSD.
I have a couple of ideas, all based upon small gatherings of people who trust one another. We can have social gatherings at clubs, restaurants, cafes. And how about sporting events, like the San Diego Gulls (hockey), miniature golf, or ice skating? We can have also private events at people's homes, hotels, etc.
Or maybe some progression of all three? We meet socially, do a little competitive sporting (prizes!), and then retire afterwards for some 1 on 1 discussion?
Something on the scale of a "Moulin Rouge" is beyond this city's organizational limits, me thinks, because of the screening factors. And realistically, I wouldn't expect more than a handful of people to be interested at this point.
So why not just keep it simple, let those who are already know eachother thru reviews, chats, postings, and other screening methods get together socially and then let nature take it's course?
= I don't know. This is all for entertainment purposes only. Let's talk later, when the heat has died down.
Yeah..what IS up with the Spectator?? He's an LA guy.. but did you find any reviews? He posted one comment I recall, that I really appreciated. Get 'im, Ginger! LOL!
I couls have sworn that I got an email from you once. I guess I could be wrong. I have received email via TER from 3 providers in the past. One wanted to get together, another wanted me to visit again and the last simply commented on my posts here in a positive way. All were very flattering.
I agree with dowctor that just about any guy on the board here would be thrilled and flattered. I know I sure would. Of course no statement about people is ever without exceptions, but I'd guess it's less than 1 in 1000 in this case.
The only good reason I can see for not doing it under the circumstances you describe is if the provider is just as afraid of/vulnerable to rejection as most of the rest of us.
I agree. If a provider finds another individual electronically stimulating and wishes to persue this further, why not? The worst that will happen is the individual decides not to. The best is that you will both have a great time. That is what we are all here for. Good Luck!
After the provider contacts the individual, will she still charge the regular rate? I would not care for someone to ask me out and then I foot the bill. I would think that if a provider found the hobbyists thoughts so stimulating, she would probably want to meet him more for conversation than ???? . Just a thought.
I think there is nothing wrong with communicating with a person that you feel is interesting. I feel it is acceptable to send a private message to a person either to say you agree or disagree with a certain point of view.
As mentioned by most of the others in this thread, most guys would be pleased to get a message from one of the well reviewed women. The thing you have to be careful about is not making this a form of agressive marketing. At this point you have every guy on this board hoping it is them that you find so interesting. So under these circumstances you could send messages to numerous guys in an effort to drum up new clients. If that is the intention of this thread then I would say no it is not appropriate to make contact.
If your contact is for the purposes of just finding out more about a person you find interesting then go for it. Be prepared that the person may not want to meet with you. Some people post and/or review under several names and do not want their true identity to be known. Also a person may have all of the companions he desires at this time and is not looking to get invovled with someone new. No matter how good someone may be they may not be for a particular individual.
Getting together with someone over coffe is one issue. Setting up an appointment with a person may be a little more difficult. There are probably a high percentage of men on this board that do not want to be known by too many people or be seen in public with too many attractive women. It is amazing what things can get back to significant others. If you make contact and the person does not want to meet with you, do not take it that he does not like you or does not find you attractive, he may have other reasons.
There is more to this than a guy getting a few bucks knocked off the companionship bill. This is a true human feeling of attraction and intrigue. Usually if two individuals find each other intellectually stimulating there is a good chance they will also find each other physically attracted as well.
Thank you for all the responses. I would like to clariffy that this is certainly not some sort of promotional tactic to drum up business( discounts or whatever). I spend a lot of time reading the boards, sometimes I feel as if I know and can relate to the way some of you think and feel on certain subjects etc. I was wondering if other providers had the same experience, thats all. I contact a hobbyist before in regards to a comment he made on the boards and the fact that I supported his view and felt that he had a wonderful way of expressing himself. I do not think it was interpretted as a comon of any sort. I find the idea that I am on someones "to do " list very erotic and would never find it offensive. I enjoy reading erotic stories and when a client submitts a review, it is such a turn on, to know that the girl they are talking about, is me! I do hope I am making sense...... Kisses & Licks....... Mara
You're making perfect sense, Mara, as I feel the same way. I've TER emailed a number of the guys when I've wanted to comment on something they've posted that is more suitable off the boards. To me it's just 'conversation', not a come-on. Just relating to someone else. Funny thing is..in relating to this thread, I might be intrigued with a few posters and wonder about them as I client, but I would never let them know. But that's just me. Yet in my personal life, if there's someone I'm lusting after, I go for it! Pounce! Latinas and redheads..!
Also,have you been to www.literotica.com? Also, I discovered great stories on www.aspensextoys.com
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