I have been out of the hobby for some time, but I am easing back into it. The main reason I am getting back in is the connections that you can make. Outsiders assume that it is all about the physical connection, and yes, that is important, but it also the emotional connection. People make a lot of assumptions about the men and women in the hobby, but I have met some incredible people and I miss that.

this hobby! There is nothing better than having a session where myself and the lady are hitting on all cylinders...the excitement and connections made are priceless.Plus I have developed some very good friendships in the hobby with some awesome providers. I try to have a session at least once a week to get my excitement "fix"... As long as good fortune allows I don't see myself leaving the hobby for a long time!

In life, it wasn't until moving south I even new such a life existed. However what keeps me coming back is the new journey to a new destination. What makes it worth the risk and resources is the wonderful connection and chemistry and in special occasions the bonds that are made with ladies you would have normally missed. The memories of a life time, the reconnect of spending quality time with incredibly sexy and sensual lady friends!

I love women and truly enjoy every aspects of a sexy albeit , clandestine rendezvous . And in my experience the very best Providers understand its about more than sex.

Though I genuinely like meeting new ladies there are many Providers I've known for years. A certain level of friendship occurs. Perhaps even affection. But all parties understand and respect the most important thing........boundaries .

So , maybe my answer to a complicated question would begin with that very word.

                                                                Boundaries

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The term "Hobby"...

for me, extends beyond the addition of this word to our vocabulary.  Back when I was fairly new to this world, a neighborhood girl took me to the basement of my grandparents house, hiked her dress, no panties, pulled down my shorts, no briefs, and had me rub my nub on her button;P~~ Ever since then I have been a "hunter/gather" of ladies who have allowed me to relive that moment of pleasure) As I got older, and "Johnson" got bigger, he has been the point man who allowed me to enter the ladies inner sanctum that created a world of pleasure for us both. A few years later on, It soon dawned on me that a lovely woman in my arms and me inside of her was a necessity of life, i.e., it made me feel like the Creator was in His/Her/Its Heaven, and all was RIGHT with the world for a while) There was a song called "Feelings", that sums up what the "Hobby" means to me. Our "senses" allow us to feel pleasures that keep us attached to life and to this world, and the pleasures therein. The creation of "woman" was an absolute "necessity" for Man to survive)  If I don't get some "sustenance" pretty soon, I'm gonna just lay down and die( bird holding a sign that says: "Ladies, Help a starving fella, will work hard for a lil piece of Heaven!" LOL

Hobby has truly turned upscale since TER and P411.  Much easier to form friendships and commonalities here than it was frequenting MP's and dealing with impersonal agencies pre-TER. Being a creature of habit, I am currently only seeing  few ladies here, but I am always blown away when I venture out and spend time with a new friend, usually regretting I had not met sooner.