Or get a verbal/intellectual connection going first (i.e., show me how you respect my mind and personality 1st)?
Your Preference Is?
Interesting question. I have run across three different scenarios relative to your question.
1)"Let's get to know each other a little better before we talk."
2)"Let's get to know each other a little better before we have sex."
3)The rare, but deadly "Let's see, the first ten minutes we should talk, but I really have no idea what to talk about."
and so many other things. Not least of which is my own mood on that particular day. The chemistry when I first walk into the room.
I do know that I relish the 'getting to know you' phase whether it happens before, after, or in between.
Fortunately your #3 is indeed rare.
If I am meeting someone for the first time, I enjoy having some time getting to know her a little before steamy things begin to happen. I am confident that this is also comfortable for most of the ladies meeting someone new as well. On the other hand, if I am seeing a regular, she can jump my bones as soon as I open the door as far as I am concerned. Nothing more fun than asking the lady to tell you about what has been going on while performing DATY on her and see if she can complete a sentance let alone a full thought. I know I can't do either very well if she is performing oral on me. LOL
My guess is that after YOU jump my bones, I won't be able to talk. 
Jump away dear lady!
"Which way to the bedroom?" usually suffices.