I hear it many times on TER how providers enjoy older men and sometimes prefer them.  I also hear it personally from providers. A question for providers: Is this an acquired taste?  How did you feel about providing for men 30 and 40 years older than you when you first started providing?  Did you or do you now see older men of +30 years in your civie life?  And lastly, how can we assimilate Sara’s wisdom that we older guys are awesome partners to the general population?  Tom Selleck can only help us out so much.