I honestly believe the girls should have a section to rate the guy as well.... overall personal hygiene, behavior, attractiveness. Why not ? It should be a level playing field....shouldn't it ?
A late night appointment turned into a disaster for us. The guy " Besteverdog" and I hate to call out names, but he cheated us out of 1/2 our rate, and then wouldn't answer his phone. I don't appreciate his bad review of Michelle and of the both of us. We don't get to review these clients, which is a shame. This guy wanted to see Michelle again in Atlanta and said he would pay the other half. Sorry for the rant, but it infuriates me that we can't respond except by pm.
For those of us that have known you and Michelle for many years and have not only done single dates but doubles and maybe some other fun things, we know how well you treat us. This guy needs to know that you ladies are some of the best around. You give it all and I for one know how great you both are. Love you girls you just forget about this guy..
ALWAYS FORV YOU !!!!
The discerning reader reads multiple reviews. And given the set you have I would not let it worry either one of you. The money is a different manner and bad form.
What's so bad is the fact that he paid half our rate and then wouldn't answer his phone or texts. Beware girls!!! His Ter handle is Besteverdog!! What's funny is that he contacted Michelle later about meeting in Atlanta.
I will repeat my question. Why can't we make comments to our reviewer? We should be able to tell our side of the story.
It is a slippery slope - you should be able to explain something to the admins to take something truly horrible off this site.
I will repeat my question. Why can't we make comments to our reviewer? We should be able to tell our side of the story.
There is not an adequate screening process on Ter. There needs to be something done to stop these guys that rob us or need to be blacklisted.
I know you can whitelist guys - TER is completely one sided to the reviewers/men. No questions there - they do screen reviews and it can be hard to provide a negative review actually. I think men with half a brain take all reviews with a grain of salt - someone's 6 could be someone's else 10. Everyone has good days and bad, including the reviewers and the reviewed.
On more personal note, Kim - you and Michelle are well known, well respected individuals. Who makes the best duo in NC - you two. Keep your chin up and make some man cry uncle while in Charlotte.
They are so one-sided! Omg they are!! Thank you for snapping me out of this, and we plan on tearing Charlotte up.
Kim you are one of the very best..sorry you are having this issue.
The part about being able to review the gents is a good idea. Those of us who know how to treat a lady it would definately benefit and for those a**h***s it would end their career quickley and we'd all be better for it.
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You got my vote!
report to all of the providers about a jerk that does a short pay. One of my favorite ladies got ripped off by a guy and when she tried to post on TER they wouldn't allow her to post because she "Doesn't post often enough". Apparently she didn't have enough interaction on the board so they wouldn't allow her to post something in the provider only board. What kind of crap is that? She doesn't come on here and blather on and on about a bunch of nonsense so they penalize her for it and won't let her do a real service to her peers? SMH
If it is the 1st time you see someone, and even though you have done your "homework" you never truly know if the guy is LEO, or been turned to help LEO. Asking & counting is one sure way to find yourself on the inside looking out. Is the money worth the trouble ? Don't think so.
Kim - hate that this has happened to you. ALWAYS thoroughly enjoyed our time together, and neither you or Michele or frankly any of you girls deserve to be cheated on the agreed upon donation. Calling him out, and adding his name on the girls board is a start. As for any review, the majority rules, and there will always be assholes......
JMHO
Sparky
Thank you, and yes we should have counted the money first. We realize our mistakes when things like this happen. Michelle had seen this guy before, so we weren't expecting him to behave this way.
I have always enjoyed my time with you as well. Thank you for the kind comments
Of the review sites. They are the ones forking over the money for access. The sites are going to cater to them. Allowing us to comment or review would make many men think twice about joining. Even the good guys are concerned about providor backlash from simple misunderstandings or leaving honest reviews.
Unfortunately one providor leaving a site that won't take down a false review doesn't effect that site in any way. They have no motivation to take down something that helps bring them income producing traffic, true or not.
I have a 150% fake review that says I do Greek, last min appts, don't screen and allow strangers to dominate me. I had quite a bit of evidence it was fake and I never even got a response from TER.
I have two glowing reviews attached to (my only) 5's and 6's because the guys wanted to be pushy, I pushed back and that was their retaliation.
It all frustrates me but I understand how things work and there is no point in getting upset over it. Besides some disappointed men who thought I offered things I didn't from the fake review it didn't effect my business. Luckily most men know not to put all the weight on one review or score.
We have providor only boards to post on, we have blacklist sites. Many of the blacklist sites allow you to score the severity of the man's actions. You can make people aware of smaller issues.
The problem is we (providers) don't communicate and work together like we should. If we all talked and got together on issues it would be much more effective. If we all stuck to one or two blacklist sites and made full use of them it would produce much better results. If everyone knew someone plays games w money or leaves harsh reviews and did not see that person because of it we wouldn't have to fight TER about it because it wouldn't be happening. We do have resources, I know they could be better but we are much better off making use of what we do have rather then getting upset over the men's resources
I honestly believe the girls should have a section to rate the guy as well.... overall personal hygiene, behavior, attractiveness. Why not ? It should be a level playing field....shouldn't it ?
I can't even imagine you and Michelle getting a bad review. I saw it and thought well that's BS there's just no way this is legit. I have enjoyed your company several times and I have been lucky enough to visit you and Michelle together and I will tell anyone who wants to know that there's no way to have a bad experience with you. I'm so sorry that you encountered this jerk.