You are so correct! He didn't have to take it to the level he did. It was a bad experience this time and maybe the budget limits the choices. So, to quote you "no reason to come on here crying" buck up and enjoy the hobby.
Recently based on increased LE I have been visiting providers I have seen before. This brings me to the story of O. When I first saw O several years ago she was young and new. She was always neat and her place clean. While sporting an amazing body her skill set as a provider was lacking. After two appointments I decided to move on to better. With the LEO situation I revisited O. She was now in a low level hotel , neat but low level. She seemed fine, and the body while a little softer was still amazing. Her skills had not improved.
Two months later I paid a visit, the new lower rent hotel was a mess. The place was nasty and she seemed out of it. This caused me to think about negotiating a lower price, but decided to go ahead. Body softer, nice but not amazing. Legs stubbly, and her skills worse. Was happy to finish quickly and get out, never to return. She asked if I would take her to get some food because she hadn't eaten.
Off we go to get fast food. While in the drive thru line she makes her next date, and bitches because they are early. Rush her back, only to realize she left her key in the room. She then has to call her "friend" who is also working out of the same room to let her in the room.
So I am sitting in a low real low rent hotel parking lot, with a high provider, while not one but two mid 30's AA wait by the room door to double team her. The whole time she is bitching at me for letting her leave her key and then saying don't be mad.
This is the definition of hell.
Time to leave the hobby until the heat goes down?
Any bets how long before O is dead?
Rough times in the hobby.
I say this based on reading your reviews. (Your last one btw- wow) Perhaps if you got away from Backpage and low end providers you'd have a better experience? I'm not sure what LE crisis you're supposedly seeing, but I guarantee you you'll have one SOON if you keep calling up girls that host out of a shitty motel and don't do any screening besides a "LE check"..... You calling a girl, she doesn't screen, she's free in 10 mins, and then does a "LE check" on you? Yeah not a great choice. LE checks aren't a substitute for actual screening by the way. They don't mean shit. That's a fact. So raise your standards and your budget. You always get what you pay for. I'm not if you were expecting sympathy? Thats great though that you're worried about how long "O" will be alive. You should worry. Because guys like you, whether you realize it or not, are the ones keeping pimps and traffickers in business.
post. The dude needs to upgrade who he tries to see big time.
Steph
bet he doesn't listen.
Neil young classic. Seen the needle and the damange done. BTW are you up on common vacations
such as hepatitis,tetanus to name a few.
Two months later I paid a visit, the new lower rent hotel was a mess. The place was nasty and she seemed out of it. This caused me to think about negotiating a lower price, but decided to go ahead. Body softer, nice but not amazing. Legs stubbly, and her skills worse. Was happy to finish quickly and get out, never to return. She asked if I would take her to get some food because she hadn't eaten.
Off we go to get fast food. While in the drive thru line she makes her next date, and bitches because they are early. Rush her back, only to realize she left her key in the room. She then has to call her "friend" who is also working out of the same room to let her in the room.
So I am sitting in a low real low rent hotel parking lot, with a high provider, while not one but two mid 30's AA wait by the room door to double team her. The whole time she is bitching at me for letting her leave her key and then saying don't be mad.
This is the definition of hell.
Time to leave the hobby until the heat goes down?
Any bets how long before O is dead?
Rough times in the hobby.
and have rock bottom rates and 15 minute sessions, they will probably hear from you.
Why of why do you book BP ladies with no reviews or weak reviews and then expect anything more than you've bargained for.
You are contributing to the very thing you're complaining about
Once you encounter a bad experience, why would you go back ?
BTW - it is not just BP girls that go downhill........
Happened to me last month - provider I had seen before twice. Walked in on and turned around and left. I had seen her twice before and knew she had a drug past. But both times before she was ok. It was like she aged 15 years in 1 and was truly sad. But I high tailed out of there as she was a complete wreck and the room was disgusting. She has good reviews on here in the past but those days are behind her. She was from my pre P411 days BTW.
Tend to stick to P411 these days - not that P411 is fool proof but it does require more work on my side to get on the sire and it tends to sift out the really bad experiences. My two cents - and how I found some truly wonderful ladies.
Well, I have read your reviews and do not see a problem with your track record or the "types" of providers you have been seeing. Absolutely no reason for members (Providers-Italian?) on here to attack you like this. SMH.
Maybe EVERYBODY on here does not have the 400/hr+ budget that certain providers charge; does that mean we are supposed to stay home and not play?
Instead of being passive aggressive. I'd have a lot more respect for you. (Sounds like a fellow provider by the way.) But none the less, the fact remains- if you see cheap girls and have a cheap experience, that's the guys own fault. No reason to come on here crying about it and especially wondering how long a lady will "be alive". If your budget is low then except what you get out of it. Very simple. And if you read his reviews and saw no problem? Well.. Then yeah you should "stay home and not play." Shaking MY OWN head. No one has "attacked" his post. Being blunt and real isn't attacking. Nothing about my response to him was an "attack". Calm it down sweetie.
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No problem with your post, Sweetie. Simply disagreeing with you somewhat, which I thought we were allowed to do. I do, however, very much appreciate your advice, though.......perhaps you can get a part time gig here as a board moderator.
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You are so correct! He didn't have to take it to the level he did. It was a bad experience this time and maybe the budget limits the choices. So, to quote you "no reason to come on here crying" buck up and enjoy the hobby.
Instead of booking a few Providers a month from BP or God knows where and wondering why he's not having positive encounters perhaps Mayberry should limit his bookings . Schedule less , maximize your hobby budget , see top notch ladies .
Pretty sure he's spending more than 300-400 bucks a month as it is.
The question is......quantity or quality. If , for the OP the answer is quantity , then be prepared for more disappointments , or worst .
Since you asked I see a provider every week. Sometimes 3-4 per week. And yes sometimes 2 per day.
Maybe I should wait and spend $800 per month on ONE provider. TER does not allow you to review each encounter.
Regarding how much I spend , I do tip. One $260 per hour provider whom I saw 2 times last month got $300 per visit.
The point I guess I did not make clear is most of my encounters are good. The one provider whom I enjoyed , is circling and I was saddened.
Providers to me are not meat, they are people.
If all hobbyist only saw one provider per month the providers starve.
Well said!!!!!!!
Providers want the most money, hobbyist want the most services for the least money. More importantly hobbyist have certain types or providers and many have fetishes. The going rate varies by location and supply and demand. Thankfully I could afford $500 per hour providers. Any person who says money is not an issue, has no money. To play in the hobby a person must have sufficient disposable income. Not many in the hobby worry about paying the electric or the mortgage.
I have experienced high end providers before I joined TER. My personal desires and the providers I seek are not dependent on rates. They are dependent on my desires and the availability of providers when time allows. Regrettably I cannot always plan time with a provider days or weeks ahead.
The maxim some people can't be happy unless they are making others unhappy. Everyone should be happy, if you can read this you are alive. Being alive is good, embrace and enjoy your short life.
The issue I have with " upgrade" is often I want a twenty something willowy provider who is not jaded. They general do not have donations in the $400 to $500 area. They are starting out and do mostly advertise on BP.
When new providers know about and advertise on P411 I will "shop" on that site predominately.
Oh sage providers and hobbyist please direct me a poor dumb country bumpkin to the place where I can find my young willowy providers who are not experienced and charge $400 per hour ?
Remember folks, everyone on TER has their own freaks and issues.
Please continue making jest of me and my pedantic desires
Your points were valid and informative. Not going to "argue" on a forum regarding prostitution. I posted my feelings at that moment in time. They were real and valid at that moment in time. I had an unpleasant experience with a provider who once charged $300 per hour. I will say again , providers are not meat. Providers are not expendable. Providers are people who deserve respect.
Consider me stupid and obtuse, has no bearing on my life.
Wishing you nothing but the best!
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